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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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I think you’ve post rather silly. You could say
“Is there any ladies that like XXXish men ?”
Substitute that for Danish, Spanish, Black, Martian even Orange Bastards….. (if the US type not the ones banging drums in July).
Trixie
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By *vaRoseWoman 9 weeks ago
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Always confused by these threads. Do people really go around fancying someone just because they’re Turkish? Like they’re an exotic starter on a tasting menu?
I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality |
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"Always confused by these threads. Do people really go around fancying someone just because they’re Turkish? Like they’re an exotic starter on a tasting menu?
I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality "
Does anyone like women? I ❤️ women. |
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"Always confused by these threads. Do people really go around fancying someone just because they’re Turkish? Like they’re an exotic starter on a tasting menu?
I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality "
Is it this sort of thing?
Tortilla Española
Mexican Tacos
Greek yogurt
Indian curry
Peking duck
French toast
Risotto alla Milanese
Japanese Sushi
Brazilian Feijoada
German Sauerkraut
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I have a female friend who is attracted to Turkish looking Eastern European guys, but she also says they are not good bf material.
Mind you she also likes Asian guys, so she seems to be into exotic flavours. |
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"Always confused by these threads. Do people really go around fancying someone just because they’re Turkish? Like they’re an exotic starter on a tasting menu?
I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality "
Honestly I think these threads are just people from ethnically minoritised groups asking if people like them because their experience might make them feel like their race or ethnicity is a barrier to attractiveness. I remember when there was a thread started by a Black guy who mentioned he asked people if they like Black guys in his opening message and he got some … interesting replies. I think these threads are people searching for their people. Personally I think the forums are the wrong place for it but I get why people might start the threads. |
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"Always confused by these threads. Do people really go around fancying someone just because they’re Turkish? Like they’re an exotic starter on a tasting menu?
I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality
Honestly I think these threads are just people from ethnically minoritised groups asking if people like them because their experience might make them feel like their race or ethnicity is a barrier to attractiveness. I remember when there was a thread started by a Black guy who mentioned he asked people if they like Black guys in his opening message and he got some … interesting replies. I think these threads are people searching for their people. Personally I think the forums are the wrong place for it but I get why people might start the threads. "
You are probably right but it always surprises me as if people of certain race/nationality would be homogeneous with exactly the same characteristics which as we all know is not the case. Anyway enough on that matter, not that sort of thread  |
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"Always confused by these threads. Do people really go around fancying someone just because they’re Turkish? Like they’re an exotic starter on a tasting menu?
I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality "
Totally agree with you on this 😘 |
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I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality "
Fetishising someone is strange. But finding a certain ethnicity attractive isn’t the same as fetishising imo. As long as your reasons for being attracted to those people aren’t to do with stereotypes.
There’s certain facial features that are more prominent in people from different parts of the world. There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that you like that. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 9 weeks ago
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I don’t fetishise anyone over their nationality
Fetishising someone is strange. But finding a certain ethnicity attractive isn’t the same as fetishising imo. As long as your reasons for being attracted to those people aren’t to do with stereotypes.
There’s certain facial features that are more prominent in people from different parts of the world. There’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that you like that."
No and the difference would be between saying I find many Turkish guys attractive, vs I find them attractive Because they’re Turkish. The latter is expressing an attraction (and could be argued is still based on stereotypes ), the latter is fetishising |
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