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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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What’s the swinging scene like where you are?

It feels like it’s so much better up north. Do you feel that?

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By *mpeyeMan 1 week ago

Worthing

Definately feel that the North is naughtier than the south!!

Come on fellow southerners!! Prove me wrong !

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By *icecouple561Couple 1 week ago
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East Sussex

Not really. I only have experience of what it's like in the south east and that's been enough for me.

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By *r SensualMan 1 week ago

London

Found my swinging experiences have been a lot more fruitful the further up north, out west and east I’ve gone.

Noticing a pattern of incompatibility with those mostly located south. Take that as you will…

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By *viatrixWoman 1 week ago

Redhill

I was in the North East last week. I averaged 300 messages a day.

I felt like a newbie again 😂😂😂😂

I’d like to visit some of the clubs ooop norf ❤️

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By *ouble-SidedCouple 1 week ago

Voldsøy

Unless you're after a meet now, fuck and go, usually outdoors... Pretty much non-existant.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Found my swinging experiences have been a lot more fruitful the further up north, out west and east I’ve gone.

Noticing a pattern of incompatibility with those mostly located south. Take that as you will… "

🤝🏾

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 1 week ago

Manchester

I think the scene is pretty good up north and the Midlands especially, just wish it was a bit better specifically around Manchester 😂

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 1 week ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Like… North? Or North North?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman 1 week ago

Somewhere in Hampshire


"

Noticing a pattern of incompatibility with those mostly located south. Take that as you will… "

Agreed 👍🏻

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple 1 week ago

Coventry

We're in the middle and it feels a great place to be.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Like… North? Or North North?

"

Lots and lots of cool people in Scotland. Also seem more fun than Londoners at least

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 1 week ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Like… North? Or North North?

Lots and lots of cool people in Scotland. Also seem more fun than Londoners at least"

Well, more fun than you I guess

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By *inky PerkyCouple 1 week ago

Kingston

I went to the north once. It was closed.

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By *ansoffateMan 1 week ago

Sagittarius A

Them southerners keep migrating up here and destroying our culture. There'll be no northerners left in 20 years.

There'll be pie and mash. Jellied eels and everyone will be saying diamond geezer. It's a fucking disgrace.

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By *hampersDarlingWoman 1 week ago

Norwich

It's quite quiet near me as its a fairly rural county. I think the midlands is pretty good and north I assume. I've never ventured club wise, that far. I think I'd like anywhere, where the people are friendly and that my male preference actually goes to.

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By *ty31Man 1 week ago

NW London


"Like… North? Or North North?

Lots and lots of cool people in Scotland. Also seem more fun than Londoners at least"

I suppose there isn't much to do Up North other than have sex

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By *ittlebirdWoman 1 week ago

The Big Smoke

Much better selection down south. Not that I’m a swinger but you know… I’m nosey 🤷‍♂️

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By *hoc TitanMan 1 week ago

Peterborough/london

Lived up north for 7 years , the scene was better up there back then …2012-2015 .

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Them southerners keep migrating up here and destroying our culture. There'll be no northerners left in 20 years.

There'll be pie and mash. Jellied eels and everyone will be saying diamond geezer. It's a fucking disgrace."

HELLO! Why am I hearing Northern accents in Tottenham?!

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Like… North? Or North North?

Lots and lots of cool people in Scotland. Also seem more fun than Londoners at least

Well, more fun than you I guess "

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Like… North? Or North North?

Lots and lots of cool people in Scotland. Also seem more fun than Londoners at least

I suppose there isn't much to do Up North other than have sex"

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Upvote

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By *partharmonyCouple 1 week ago

Ruislip

It certainly seems to me that most Fabbers are well to the north of us. There always seems to be much more going on in that direction. That could be a false perception of course.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"It certainly seems to me that most Fabbers are well to the north of us. There always seems to be much more going on in that direction. That could be a false perception of course. "

The clubs seem to have some cooler events.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 1 week ago

Reading


"I was in the North East last week. I averaged 300 messages a day.

I felt like a newbie again 😂😂😂😂

I’d like to visit some of the clubs ooop norf ❤️ "

I want to go to Blackpool and try the ones there, they say people are much friendlier.

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By *rthur30Man 1 week ago

Warrington


"I went to the north once. It was closed."

Lol Very Cheeky! I went to that there London once, it never closes. Which is the problem.

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By *viatrixWoman 1 week ago

Redhill

…and I never tried a chicken parmo. *sobs* 😭😭😭

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By *oxychicWoman 1 week ago

Nottinghamshire

I find it good in the midlands

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"I find it good in the midlands "

Oh yeah😉

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By *ohnnySweetMan 1 week ago

LONDON


"What’s the swinging scene like where you are?

It feels like it’s so much better up north. Do you feel that?"

As a fully-paid up southerner it seems that way to me too. I love London in so many ways but because they have cleaned up so many areas here it means the flesh pots are less and less (no sex cinemas here anymore).

To me it looks like the North and the Midlands are the places to be

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By *immyMcGillMan 1 week ago

Hornchurch


"Like… North? Or North North?

Lots and lots of cool people in Scotland. Also seem more fun than Londoners at least

I suppose there isn't much to do Up North other than have sex"

It’s because sex is free. They’re too poor up north to afford other pass-times. Sex and some gravy on their chips is the ultimate luxury.

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By *KloganMan 1 week ago

Ramsbottom

Stand by, let me catch my breath from walking whippets o’er cobbles…

To be fair it’s pretty good up here… x

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By *oeBeansMan 1 week ago

Derby

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By *oeBeansMan 1 week ago

Derby

As a Midlander, I think I've probably met more people south of me than north of me 🤔

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By *hickthighs25Woman 1 week ago

Stockton


"As a Midlander, I think I've probably met more people south of me than north of me 🤔"

Might have to change that young sir

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By *immyMcGillMan 1 week ago

Hornchurch


"Stand by, let me catch my breath from walking whippets o’er cobbles…

To be fair it’s pretty good up here… x"

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By *veragecouple2000Couple 1 week ago

South Wales


"What’s the swinging scene like where you are?

It feels like it’s so much better up north. Do you feel that?"

It’s pretty busy in South Wales but we do find travelling a little further north in to the midlands is always fun xx 😄

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman 1 week ago

Reading

When I've been brave and travelled past the Watford Gap services for work (Sheffield/Manchester) I have found that I get more messages than when I'm at home. I'm normally bored in the hotel room so online for longer which may have an impact as well.

I've not partaken of the local delicacies to know whether it is better or not though

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By *vonne5exMan 1 week ago

Doncaster

We have to be like rabbits to keep warm

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By *weetiepie99Woman 1 week ago

cardiff


"What’s the swinging scene like where you are?

It feels like it’s so much better up north. Do you feel that?

It’s pretty busy in South Wales but we do find travelling a little further north in to the midlands is always fun xx 😄"

I would agree. Pretty rife in S Wales. Not that I'm a swinger.

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By *rHotNottsMan 1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m in the middle best of both worlds- cheap and cheerful north and the luxurious classy south 😂

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By *egDaySkipperMan 1 week ago

Liverpool

We be swimming in poonani up north!

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan 1 week ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Well theres a big Swingers SCENE in my parts.

Loads of clubs…

VA

The Playgrounds

Penthouse Playrooms

Aphrodite

But it ain’t easy to find a unicorn. Or if you’re a single

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By *ellhungvweMan 1 week ago

Cheltenham


"We're in the middle and it feels a great place to be."

I am with this

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By *ookie46Woman 1 week ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I was in the North East last week. I averaged 300 messages a day.

I felt like a newbie again 😂😂😂😂

I’d like to visit some of the clubs ooop norf ❤️ "

You should have messaged for a catch up

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By *ookie46Woman 1 week ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m not a swinger by any means but I think the scene in the north east is pretty busy

Two great clubs and more social events taking place

I seem to prefer everything more south though

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By *oungNew14791Couple 1 week ago

Cambridgeshire

We found the Midlands much better, loads of people to chat with and much friendlier.

But then again Cambridgeshire is very uptight haha not aiming that comment at swingers just in general

Mrs x

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By *oeBeansMan 1 week ago

Derby


"As a Midlander, I think I've probably met more people south of me than north of me 🤔

Might have to change that young sir "

Ready when you are 😉

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman 1 week ago

Essex

Hotels in London are too pricey

I’m not paying top dollar for what will probably be a bargain basement shag.

🤣🤣

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By *ea monkeyMan 1 week ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve found that it’s a ‘grass is greener’ kind of thing.

When I lived in the midlands, most of my connections were in the north. Now I’m in the north, a lot are in the midlands.

Go figure!

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"I’ve found that it’s a ‘grass is greener’ kind of thing.

When I lived in the midlands, most of my connections were in the north. Now I’m in the north, a lot are in the midlands.

Go figure! "

BUT NONE ARE IN THE SOUTH

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Hotels in London are too pricey

I’m not paying top dollar for what will probably be a bargain basement shag.

🤣🤣"

You gotta try the outskirts. Like Enfield.

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By *oveandfastWoman 1 week ago

Bromsgrove

Went to the SE for an event for the first time last weekend, it was incredible! Different to the club vibe I normally go for- more like a horny house party lol

Saying that, I feel very spoilt for choice in the midlands, it’s just good to experience new things once in a while.

Cxx

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Went to the SE for an event for the first time last weekend, it was incredible! Different to the club vibe I normally go for- more like a horny house party lol

Saying that, I feel very spoilt for choice in the midlands, it’s just good to experience new things once in a while.

Cxx"

the midlands seems top tier too tbf

But yeah mostly party vibes I hear about in London too. And that’s just I dunno. Not sure about it. Plus I never get invited

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By *oveandfastWoman 1 week ago

Bromsgrove


"Went to the SE for an event for the first time last weekend, it was incredible! Different to the club vibe I normally go for- more like a horny house party lol

Saying that, I feel very spoilt for choice in the midlands, it’s just good to experience new things once in a while.

Cxx the midlands seems top tier too tbf

But yeah mostly party vibes I hear about in London too. And that’s just I dunno. Not sure about it. Plus I never get invited "

Check out Pluscious- it’s a vibe and openly ticketed. Single men who pass the vibe check are then invited to VIP parties.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 1 week ago

Reading


"As a Midlander, I think I've probably met more people south of me than north of me 🤔

Might have to change that young sir "

Uhoh Joe prepare to be held hostage.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Went to the SE for an event for the first time last weekend, it was incredible! Different to the club vibe I normally go for- more like a horny house party lol

Saying that, I feel very spoilt for choice in the midlands, it’s just good to experience new things once in a while.

Cxx the midlands seems top tier too tbf

But yeah mostly party vibes I hear about in London too. And that’s just I dunno. Not sure about it. Plus I never get invited

Check out Pluscious- it’s a vibe and openly ticketed. Single men who pass the vibe check are then invited to VIP parties."

🤝🏾

If I don’t pass the vibe check don’t ask

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By *luebell888Woman 1 week ago

Glasgowish

Pretty hot up here around Glasgow and Edinburgh.

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Pretty hot up here around Glasgow and Edinburgh. "

Yeah there’s some hotties around there.

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By *oveandfastWoman 1 week ago

Bromsgrove


"Went to the SE for an event for the first time last weekend, it was incredible! Different to the club vibe I normally go for- more like a horny house party lol

Saying that, I feel very spoilt for choice in the midlands, it’s just good to experience new things once in a while.

Cxx the midlands seems top tier too tbf

But yeah mostly party vibes I hear about in London too. And that’s just I dunno. Not sure about it. Plus I never get invited

Check out Pluscious- it’s a vibe and openly ticketed. Single men who pass the vibe check are then invited to VIP parties.

🤝🏾

If I don’t pass the vibe check don’t ask "

LOL it’s “don’t be a creep, respect people’s boundaries, be sociable, make women feel like goddesses haha” not difficult!

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"Went to the SE for an event for the first time last weekend, it was incredible! Different to the club vibe I normally go for- more like a horny house party lol

Saying that, I feel very spoilt for choice in the midlands, it’s just good to experience new things once in a while.

Cxx the midlands seems top tier too tbf

But yeah mostly party vibes I hear about in London too. And that’s just I dunno. Not sure about it. Plus I never get invited

Check out Pluscious- it’s a vibe and openly ticketed. Single men who pass the vibe check are then invited to VIP parties.

🤝🏾

If I don’t pass the vibe check don’t ask

LOL it’s “don’t be a creep, respect people’s boundaries, be sociable, make women feel like goddesses haha” not difficult!"

Oh those vibe are immaculate

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman 1 week ago

North West


"Much better selection down south. Not that I’m a swinger but you know… I’m nosey 🤷‍♂️"

Rude! 🤣🤣😘

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By *ikesEmBigMan 1 week ago

Herts

Well the majority are bloody miles away

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By *hickthighs25Woman 1 week ago

Stockton


"As a Midlander, I think I've probably met more people south of me than north of me 🤔

Might have to change that young sir

Uhoh Joe prepare to be held hostage. "

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *vaRoseWoman 1 week ago

Ankh-Morpork

As a northern lass living down south…. It’s the northerners that make it spicy 😈🤣

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"As a northern lass living down south…. It’s the northerners that make it spicy 😈🤣"

You’re a long way from home

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By *ittlebirdWoman 1 week ago

The Big Smoke


"Much better selection down south. Not that I’m a swinger but you know… I’m nosey 🤷‍♂️

Rude! 🤣🤣😘"

There are one or two exceptions 😈

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By *orbidden eastMan 1 week ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m by all means nowhere near a swinger. But from what I see and what I hear and my experience in Fab land. Northerners definitely have way better fun than us Southerners.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun down here 😜

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"I’m by all means nowhere near a swinger. But from what I see and what I hear and my experience in Fab land. Northerners definitely have way better fun than us Southerners.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun down here 😜"

Plenty of fun to be had down here. Lots of 1:1 fun at least.

No shade to the north but we’re also contending with the London tax in London. Especially as a poc

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"I’m by all means nowhere near a swinger. But from what I see and what I hear and my experience in Fab land. Northerners definitely have way better fun than us Southerners.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun down here 😜

Plenty of fun to be had down here. Lots of 1:1 fun at least.

No shade to the north but we’re also contending with the London tax in London. Especially as a poc "

Actually this is so shady. I take it back

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By *ooBulMan 1 week ago

SNottingham


"What’s the swinging scene like where you are?

It feels like it’s so much better up north. Do you feel that?"

What, all the way from the midlands OP?

So, there's north & south & nothing in between? Mmmmmm

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"What’s the swinging scene like where you are?

It feels like it’s so much better up north. Do you feel that?

What, all the way from the midlands OP?

So, there's north & south & nothing in between? Mmmmmm "

Yeah. The north starts at Sheffield

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By *orbidden eastMan 1 week ago

london dodging electric scooters


"I’m by all means nowhere near a swinger. But from what I see and what I hear and my experience in Fab land. Northerners definitely have way better fun than us Southerners.

But that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun down here 😜

Plenty of fun to be had down here. Lots of 1:1 fun at least.

No shade to the north but we’re also contending with the London tax in London. Especially as a poc "

Ah very true OP very true 👏👏👏

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By *ceKweenWoman 1 week ago

Bolton

I’m a Lancashire lass and whilst it’s good here… I enjoy Yorkshire more

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By *sStephenPickle OP   Man 1 week ago

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"I’m a Lancashire lass and whilst it’s good here… I enjoy Yorkshire more "

I’d visit Lancashire again for you

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By *sWyldWoman 1 week ago

Edinburgh

I don't know because I'm not a swinger.

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