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By *eliWoman 6 weeks ago
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No. I'm chalant. I don't think there's a non bone in my body.
And - I like being that way. I'm naturally quite excitable day to day. Love learning new people. And when I fancy someone, although I don't think I'm flirty... it's generally pretty obvious.  |
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"No. I'm chalant. I don't think there's a non bone in my body.
And - I like being that way. I'm naturally quite excitable day to day. Love learning new people. And when I fancy someone, although I don't think I'm flirty... it's generally pretty obvious. "
Just don’t want to be intense.
I have always felt that women see golden retriever energy as unattractive. And I’m a golden retriever |
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I play it cool and wait for the woman to crack and make the approach… make her work for it and in the end I may or may not let her have the night of her life inside my pants…. *
*whats good for getting cobwebs of a zipper??  |
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I think I'm icy cool even when I'm not trying to be. I'm probably too subtle when I like someone. People don't understand that I fucking love my own company and could happily live forever, just me my kindle and my dog. So when I'm giving someone my time and attention even if I'm not slobbering over them I am still saying I LIKE YOU ENOUGH TO GIVE AWAY MY ME TIME AND SPEND THIS TIME WITH YOU. |
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By *eliWoman 6 weeks ago
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"No. I'm chalant. I don't think there's a non bone in my body.
And - I like being that way. I'm naturally quite excitable day to day. Love learning new people. And when I fancy someone, although I don't think I'm flirty... it's generally pretty obvious.
Just don’t want to be intense.
I have always felt that women see golden retriever energy as unattractive. And I’m a golden retriever "
I like golden retriever energy. It's nice knowing where I stand, when people enthusiastically want me.
There's a difference between being enthusiastic and being intense. And sometimes that comes down to if I'm attracted to them. I'm well aware that I perceive behaviour differently if I'm attracted to someone. Try not to, still do.
Do you know what will always be the most attractive thing? Staying true to yourself. Don't change yourself to try and be seen by those who will never see you. |
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I play it cool, but I would not act like I wasn’t into them. I just don’t get all bouncy like a teenager, I might feel it , but I’m emotionally intelligent enough to know what’s going on inside and act more wisely |
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If i like someone I show an interest but dont go full on, I like someone to show interest but not full on. If someone was playing it cool I'd assume they weren't interested and move on. Im 60 not 16. |
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I try not to give too much away as I don't want to come off as overly eager or pushy and end up putting them off which can backfire as I think I have missed out on a few opportunities to meet people as a result and things fizzle out.
I've notlw tried be a bit more overt with my interest and if I know it's mutual, then I know I'm ok |
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"Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀
Ice cold 🥶"
Haha i lovea flirt and banter but if its more than that and i like them a little bit more i dont always neccesarily let them know overtly which has caused issues in the past |
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"Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀
Ice cold 🥶
Haha i lovea flirt and banter but if its more than that and i like them a little bit more i dont always neccesarily let them know overtly which has caused issues in the past "
^^like a freezer^^ |
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"Im soooo coollll noone would ever know 👀👀👀👀
Ice cold 🥶
Haha i lovea flirt and banter but if its more than that and i like them a little bit more i dont always neccesarily let them know overtly which has caused issues in the past ^^like a freezer^^ "
Harsh 🤣 |
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"I try not to give too much away as I don't want to come off as overly eager or pushy and end up putting them off which can backfire as I think I have missed out on a few opportunities to meet people as a result and things fizzle out."
Same 😬 it's hard to find the right balance. |
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Uhh.. probably not?
I think I wear both my heart and my vagina on my sleeve.
However I do express adoration primarily through sarcasm and light bullying. So it might not be obvious enough to other people 💜 |
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"If I fancy someone I’m quite upfront with it. If I really like someone, I’m more of a closed book. It takes a lot for me to open up about true feelings and it doesn’t happen often 🍭"
I’m the exact same. |
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"I try not to give too much away as I don't want to come off as overly eager or pushy and end up putting them off which can backfire as I think I have missed out on a few opportunities to meet people as a result and things fizzle out.
Same 😬 it's hard to find the right balance. "
Exactly! I'm trying to find it now, but it can lead to me looking like a tit if I want more and they're just being friendly 😅 |
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"I try not to give too much away as I don't want to come off as overly eager or pushy and end up putting them off which can backfire as I think I have missed out on a few opportunities to meet people as a result and things fizzle out.
Same 😬 it's hard to find the right balance.
Exactly! I'm trying to find it now, but it can lead to me looking like a tit if I want more and they're just being friendly 😅"
I know the feeling like a tit feeling 😂 |
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I'd love to just march up to someone and say "I wanna rip your clothes off" but I just can't.
And if I really fancy someone I can't even look at them. I guess that's not doing me any favours 🤣
My new years resolution was to be braver but it's not going so well 🙈 |
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