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Advice on getting started as a newbie
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Hi all, I’ve been on this site a couple of weeks now and struggle to get any sort of serious replies and mostly just get left on read. I’m always respectful in my messages so I’m quite sure why I think it might have something to do with my age but idk. Any help with on how to improve my profile or what I should be messaging people would be greatly appreciated thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"Hi all, I’ve been on this site a couple of weeks now and struggle to get any sort of serious replies and mostly just get left on read. I’m always respectful in my messages so I’m quite sure why I think it might have something to do with my age but idk. Any help with on how to improve my profile or what I should be messaging people would be greatly appreciated thanks"
My advice would be never , ever let this joint affect your well being , remember people here are internet strangers to you until as such time you meet them so don't allow the actions or non actions of people you don't know or may never meet affect your well being, other than that....
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"Hi all, I’ve been on this site a couple of weeks now and struggle to get any sort of serious replies and mostly just get left on read. I’m always respectful in my messages so I’m quite sure why I think it might have something to do with my age but idk. Any help with on how to improve my profile or what I should be messaging people would be greatly appreciated thanks
My advice would be never , ever let this joint affect your well being , remember people here are internet strangers to you until as such time you meet them so don't allow the actions or non actions of people you don't know or may never meet affect your well being, other than that....
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I won’t dont worry |
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"Hi all, I’ve been on this site a couple of weeks now and struggle to get any sort of serious replies and mostly just get left on read. I’m always respectful in my messages so I’m quite sure why I think it might have something to do with my age but idk. Any help with on how to improve my profile or what I should be messaging people would be greatly appreciated thanks"
The most valuable piece of advice I'd give you is to have a look at the literally hundreds of forum threads asking similar questions (search in the forum for 'advice') and implement some of the advice to make sure your profile and messages are selling the best version of you.
You also need to take time to understand the site as there are many tools that will help you in your understanding of how people interact - the forums, cam rooms, club reviews etc.
And just be patient. Once you've got to grips with the site, your profile, your messaging and narrowing down the type of people you are hoping to meet, it will all fall into place. But there's no quick fix! |
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First of all 2 weeks on here is a nano second in time for a single guy Yes your age may work against you but its not a red flag to us
Please drop the "fit" from females you have written
For a couples profile we'd be looking for something along the lines of "happy to enjoy a couple and be led through my FAB journey by you" older couples would find it exciting to teach a young gun new tricks
Don't forget this is a swingers site not a dating app or a conveyor belt of females and couples
Stick with and the usual advice get yourself out to the adult clubs |
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"First of all 2 weeks on here is a nano second in time for a single guy Yes your age may work against you but its not a red flag to us
Please drop the "fit" from females you have written
For a couples profile we'd be looking for something along the lines of "happy to enjoy a couple and be led through my FAB journey by you" older couples would find it exciting to teach a young gun new tricks
Don't forget this is a swingers site not a dating app or a conveyor belt of females and couples
Stick with and the usual advice get yourself out to the adult clubs "
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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To be honest your profile doesn’t stand out and it has 0 personality written in it. All I’m getting is I want fit females and no single males you haven’t written in anything that you could offer
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"To be honest your profile doesn’t stand out and it has 0 personality written in it. All I’m getting is I want fit females and no single males you haven’t written in anything that you could offer
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I understand but I don’t know what I can offer because I’m not very experienced unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Our advice would be to 'do your research' as it were: find male profiles who have meets and find the common denominators. For us: more photos of you, and lose the 'fab is a publicly traded entity' stuff. If you're not experienced, that's fine: but tell us about yourself anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Also (should have added this in the last message): you introduce yourself as 'young bull', which is fine, but that description doesn't really fit with your lack of experience...unless there's something you're not telling us. In which case: tell us, we want to know what you're into! |
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"Also (should have added this in the last message): you introduce yourself as 'young bull', which is fine, but that description doesn't really fit with your lack of experience...unless there's something you're not telling us. In which case: tell us, we want to know what you're into!"
yes I now understand that I changed my name today is it any better?
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Coming from when i am part of a couple on here i can say that claiming to be a bull but inexperienced just doesnt make sense.
Lose the public trading BS, it means/does nothing.
If you are inexperienced, use that to your advantage. Let people know you are inexperienced and therefore willing to learn, be led, moulded into what they may desire. Many may not wish to teach you but some might.
Be patient, Fab can be a long painful challenge at times and the old yet true cliché, get to socials (or clubs). Get verified, get noticed.
Good luck
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"Coming from when i am part of a couple on here i can say that claiming to be a bull but inexperienced just doesnt make sense.
Lose the public trading BS, it means/does nothing.
If you are inexperienced, use that to your advantage. Let people know you are inexperienced and therefore willing to learn, be led, moulded into what they may desire. Many may not wish to teach you but some might.
Be patient, Fab can be a long painful challenge at times and the old yet true cliché, get to socials (or clubs). Get verified, get noticed.
Good luck
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ok thanks I understand has my username not been changed for you? |
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Take responsibility for giving potential partners what they would need, in order to know that you are right for them.
This includes knowing if they find you attractive, what you bring to the party and thus letting them know if it should be you or one of the thousands of other men here.
Read through a lot of the posts from men who struggle and the advice given to them. Take on board what's appropriate and implement it 100% to try how it helps.
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