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Question for the ladies. What small things men do that turn you on instantly?
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We’ve heard what the men want. But what do women want?
Other than the obvious smiles and hand holding. I love it when a man holds my face when we kiss, or pulls me closer than I thought possible.
Tell us all what gets you turned on and minds racing? |
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Knows that I don’t love compliments about my appearance and instead tells me how funny I am, or likes how my brain works
Makes me laugh
Treats my dog well or is kind to other people
Looks at me like I’m his birthday and Christmas presents all rolled into one
Doesn’t just tell me I’m a priority but shows me
Pulls me in for a hug when I need one
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Not expect a medal if they do anything domestic.
Gently running of fingers down the back of hair and neck.
Sharing a shower and making sure my back is soaped up and cleaned. Then rubbing moisturiser into my whole body. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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When they slather themselves in butter and let me slide them up and down my bath.
When they hellicopter me with there schlong (extra points if theyve drawn a character on it)
Oh and neck kisses
When there jeans and belt are undone and they give me that look . The anticipation of is it going to be them or me getting a good bumming. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 37 weeks ago
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When he makes an effort in what he wears for me… like knowing I love certain colognes or attire
Stroking my back until I fall asleep in his arms
Walking on the traffic side of the road and the protective hand on the small of my back in a busy bar
Biting his lip
Making me laugh… this is probably the biggest one
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Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.
Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?
They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.
Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏 |
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"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.
Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?
They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.
Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏 "
Before work. Top banana 🍌 🥷🤓 |
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"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.
Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?
They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.
Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏 "
You totally deserve all that  |
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"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.
Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?
They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.
Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏
You totally deserve all that "
I like the idea of tonguing before work. What stress relief 😋🥷🤓 |
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"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.
Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?
They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.
Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏
You totally deserve all that
I like the idea of tonguing before work. What stress relief 😋🥷🤓"
He likes tasting me for as long as possible to get through his day  |
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"I've got the cooking part under control. And trust me, if I cooked you some of my classic Lasagna, Asian sweet n soure or Aussie Supreme Pizza, I am sure you will opt to do the washing for me. 👨🍳"
I’m ready to find out! |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Cooks
Cleans
Outdoorsy
Can fix most things, like can dismantle a car engine and put it back together sort of thing.
Patient. Honest.
Has eyes only for me. But not in a weirdo kind of way.
Calls a spade a spade.
Sort of bloke that you know where you are with them.
I could go on…….
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"Oooh yes walking in the traffic side, making me feel protected.
Washing up? Don’t tell me next we say “thanks for helping”?
They need to be going out of their way. Ben makes me a cup of tea and licks my clit daily before he heads to work. He does all the washing, washes up, cooks.
Anyone trying to impress me better put some decent effort into it. The bar has been set high 😏
You totally deserve all that
I like the idea of tonguing before work. What stress relief 😋🥷🤓
He likes tasting me for as long as possible to get through his day "
He has taste 🔥🥷🤓 |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"The bar is so low. Damn 
It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!"
Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it  |
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"The bar is so low. Damn
It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!
Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it "
How revolting. Honestly. Wtf are they doing!! I bet they’re also in the support thread asking what they’re doing wrong 🤯 |
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"The bar is so low. Damn
It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!
Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it "
To be fair to everyone. The post title asks for small things ❤️ |
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By *vaRoseWoman 37 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"The bar is so low. Damn
It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!
Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it "
The bar could be in the fucking underworld and most men will limbo under it |
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When they look at me with a hunger in their eyes that dives deep into my soul.
When they whisper into your ear how much they want you.
The gentle touches in just the right places.
When they hold your face before they kiss the breath out of you.
Yeah I'm gonna stop now 🥵🤣 |
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By *aizyWoman 37 weeks ago
west midlands |
"The bar is so low. Damn
It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!
Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it
To be fair to everyone. The post title asks for small things ❤️"
I know Julie, I was only joking, doing the washing up doesn't turn me on, cooking, washing up, drying and putting away tho 🫠 |
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"The bar is so low. Damn
It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!
Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it
To be fair to everyone. The post title asks for small things ❤️"
This is true! Perhaps it shows the women are after the act of service not everyone sees. Or perhaps that’s what women don’t get to enjoy much. |
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Not just any man could do these and turn me on. But the right man…🫠
The moments that show he’s thought about me - the sexy meme he knows I’ll love, a drink brought up to me in bed, the I saw this and thought of you photo, the shared smiles
The eye contact that holds a promise, the touch on my leg, the whisper in my ear while we’re out and about, the way he licks his thumb and holds eye contact when I’m riding him…
There’s a few small things 🥵 |
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"The bar is so low. Damn
It really is a shame. I was hoping for a higher bar!
Worst thing? The bar is this low and I’d bet in many people’s experience, men are barely reaching it "
It's definitely been my experience, what a sorry state of affairs |
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Makes me laugh. Like, genuinely laugh.
Sends me pics/videos/memes/quotes because he saw it and thought of me.
Knows that intentions and words mean nothing without actions. Do. The. Thing.
Let's me know when I've been on his mind, and how much he wants (to be inside) me. 🥵
Feels like he never wants to let go when he holds me.
Melts me with a kiss. 🫠 |
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I used to see a partner straight from work, if I’d had a bad day he would let me talk, then ask if I just needed him to listen, help find a solution or a distraction. When I asked what he meant by distraction, he knelt down between my thighs and just gave me that look of intent 🥵 needless to say, I forgot all about the bad day… |
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When he sneaks up behind me and presses himself against me, it winds me up at the time but that’s exactly what makes it so hot. It’s the tease of it all… those little moments when I’m in the middle of doing boring household chores that leave me wanting more when he’s not around. |
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By *hortieWoman 37 weeks ago
Northampton |
When we've just got to the pub.. or other social setting.. and for a few seconds he presses against me from behind, his hands on my hips, hard on clearly evident against my butt, he kisses my neck or shoulder briefly then pulls away, knowing there's clearly fuck all I can do about it for a few hours other than simmer in my own juices... |
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"The washing up.
You just want me in those pink marigolds! 🤷🏼♂️
Too right, especially if you make them make that snapping sound when you pull them on!
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They might make that sound when I spank your bum with them! 😉 |
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Grabbing and squeezing my hips
Pressing up behind me and kissing my neck while I'm doing something like cooking
Its when they make you feel like you're desired and they don't just want to fuck you because they're horny if that makes sense |
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By *KloganMan 37 weeks ago
Ramsbottom |
"When they look at me with a hunger in their eyes that dives deep into my soul.
When they whisper into your ear how much they want you.
The gentle touches in just the right places.
When they hold your face before they kiss the breath out of you.
Yeah I'm gonna stop now 🥵🤣"
Scribbles down all of the above ☝️ |
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"When they look at me with a hunger in their eyes that dives deep into my soul.
When they whisper into your ear how much they want you.
The gentle touches in just the right places.
When they hold your face before they kiss the breath out of you.
Yeah I'm gonna stop now 🥵🤣
Scribbles down all of the above ☝️ "
Oh there's a lot more than just that 😉 |
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"Be respectful
Good kisser
Go down on me
Check
Check
Check
Why you are my naughty Mr Squirrel!
Because you gave me the name and I’ll do
anything for Madam Moselle Kate! 
C’est Bon "
Monsieur écureuil
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"Grabbing and squeezing my hips
Pressing up behind me and kissing my neck while I'm doing something like cooking
Its when they make you feel like you're desired and they don't just want to fuck you because they're horny if that makes sense"
💯 👆🏼
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