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Be honest… do you love being slowly teased until you’re dripping and begging, or do you prefer someone to just pin you down and fuck you hard straight away? 👀 Curious to see which way the majority leans… |
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Slow tease first… then all-in indulgence 😈🔥 Or maybe both at the same time, like one of you suggested. Between the two of you, I’m imagining something unbearably intense — a mix of anticipation, heat, and pure, delicious chaos… 💋 |
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"Be honest… do you love being slowly teased until you’re dripping and begging, or do you prefer someone to just pin you down and fuck you hard straight away? 👀 Curious to see which way the majority leans…"
If there's no psychological or physical foreplay, it means I'm not fucking cause I'm not even aroused.
Da fuq is no foreplay? If that was a thing, we'd all be fucking random strangers in the street like robots.
Giving men a bad reputation here.....  |
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"Be honest… do you love being slowly teased until you’re dripping and begging, or do you prefer someone to just pin you down and fuck you hard straight away? 👀 Curious to see which way the majority leans…
If there's no psychological or physical foreplay, it means I'm not fucking cause I'm not even aroused.
Da fuq is no foreplay? If that was a thing, we'd all be fucking random strangers in the street like robots.
Giving men a bad reputation here..... "
Not sure why you say , giving men a bad reputation here???? It's just a question...some women like to skip the plesenatries and get straight to it... That's a fact..may seek strange but some do
.Everyone is different in what they like and don't like... I personally enjoy foreplay .. but was just curious to see what other people like and so far it's nice to see that foreplay is the preference |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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If we're treating foreplay and sex as two different things instead of two parts of the same thing that are interwoven then I would rather just have the foreplay, if it was a choice between the two. |
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"Be honest… do you love being slowly teased until you’re dripping and begging, or do you prefer someone to just pin you down and fuck you hard straight away? 👀 Curious to see which way the majority leans…"
Mmm depends on my mood haha but both is equally nice in the same evening please |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"What about you OP? Do you like to get straight down to fucking or would you rather be teased and tormented until you are begging her?"
I was wondering that? Just stick it in, whether she's wet or not? |
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By *vaRoseWoman 36 weeks ago
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"If we're treating foreplay and sex as two different things instead of two parts of the same thing that are interwoven then I would rather just have the foreplay, if it was a choice between the two. "
He gets it!
Furthermore if we are treating foreplay as a chore or an act that only applies to women…. Houston we have a problem.
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If it's someone I'm into and haven't physically seen for a while, but maybe we've been talking on the phone or messaging about how horny we are for each other, then absolutely I'd expect to be pinned up against the wall the minute we get together.
But otherwise, why wouldn't we take our time to get the juices flowing and the hurn levels ramped up to max before we get down to it? |
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By *li LuckWoman 36 weeks ago
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"Okay so I do love the idea of just being bent over and fucked. So if a guy tells me he's going to do thst isn't thst emotional foreplay?
Foreplay begins long before you get together 🥵"
Exactly. So is consensual sex without foreplay even possible? Because your would be at least turn on enough mentally to agree to duck someone. |
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By *li LuckWoman 36 weeks ago
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"Okay so I do love the idea of just being bent over and fucked. So if a guy tells me he's going to do thst isn't thst emotional foreplay?
Foreplay begins long before you get together 🥵
Exactly. So is consensual sex without foreplay even possible? Because your would be at least turn on enough mentally to agree to duck someone. "
"duck" bloody predictive text. Lol |
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"Be honest… do you love being slowly teased until you’re dripping and begging, or do you prefer someone to just pin you down and fuck you hard straight away? 👀 Curious to see which way the majority leans…"
If I'm not warmed up sufficiently and my juices aren't flowing then try to fuck me hard is going to be pretty uncomfortable... So foreplay please  |
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"What about you OP? Do you like to get straight down to fucking or would you rather be teased and tormented until you are begging her?
I was wondering that? Just stick it in, whether she's wet or not? "
Urgh please don't be trying that ! You might wind up with friction burns🤣 |
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"Prefer foreplay over the main event sometimes if I am completely honest. "
Oh yeah now this I fully agree with sometimes forplay is the most fun part all that teasing and playing leading up to the main event especially if forplay goes on for a long while |
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"Okay so I do love the idea of just being bent over and fucked. So if a guy tells me he's going to do thst isn't thst emotional foreplay?
Foreplay begins long before you get together 🥵
Exactly. So is consensual sex without foreplay even possible? Because your would be at least turn on enough mentally to agree to duck someone. "
Nope, Op, like many other men, think women like it dry....then wonder why women go off sex in middle age. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Be honest… do you love being slowly teased until you’re dripping and begging, or do you prefer someone to just pin you down and fuck you hard straight away? 👀 Curious to see which way the majority leans…"
There has to be foreplay but that doesn’t always necessarily have to be physical. Sometimes that teasing could just come from flirting and the anticipation. At which point you’re already begging for the latter anyway. |
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"Okay so I do love the idea of just being bent over and fucked. So if a guy tells me he's going to do thst isn't thst emotional foreplay?
Foreplay begins long before you get together 🥵"
Definitely, the messages, the conversations all lead up to it 🥵 |
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"Be honest… do you love being slowly teased until you’re dripping and begging, or do you prefer someone to just pin you down and fuck you hard straight away? 👀 Curious to see which way the majority leans…
If there's no psychological or physical foreplay, it means I'm not fucking cause I'm not even aroused.
Da fuq is no foreplay? If that was a thing, we'd all be fucking random strangers in the street like robots.
Giving men a bad reputation here.....
Not sure why you say , giving men a bad reputation here???? It's just a question...some women like to skip the plesenatries and get straight to it... That's a fact..may seek strange but some do
.Everyone is different in what they like and don't like... I personally enjoy foreplay .. but was just curious to see what other people like and so far it's nice to see that foreplay is the preference "
Pleasantries of getting a woman wet?
Sounds more like a male porn fantasy to me than a female reality to me.
Hear that, ladies, OP thinks getting a woman aroused and wet is a mere pleasantry, not an actual basic requirement or necessity.
Hands up ladies who want to skip all physical and psychological foreplay and let a random man hump you dry?
My vagina says no.
If a woman likes it dry. I'm inclined to think the sex is some kind of sadist role play or coercion.
Obviously, my opinion and until a woman tells me to my face she likes it dry ( never happened in 30 years), I'm not going to believe women don't like foreplay of any kind.
Hand up women who like dry sex? Since OP a non-vagina owner says it's a fact. |
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"Not much, if any, foreplay occurs during gangbangs. "
Which is why I don't do porn gang bangs.
There was a lot of foreplay for me as a woman in group sex...
I dunno what you other people are doing.  
oh wait dry humping. |
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"For me foreplay is about the journey, and not the destination.
So surly with out it , you must already be their, all unpacked and on your second cocktail !! foreplay sure can’t just go in dry"
OP: "Some women like to skip the plesenatries and get straight to it."
Autistic me: So some women like it dry is what you are saying?
Karen BPD perimenopausal me: Fuq out of here with that.
Trauma me: Kill it with fire. This is why we don't have sex alone with men anymore |
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"For me foreplay is about the journey, and not the destination.
So surly with out it , you must already be their, all unpacked and on your second cocktail !! "
Autistic me: Fucking only people who are not d*unk and/or high and who are not dry.
Because consent is a thing. |
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By *iverstMan 36 weeks ago
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I love foreplay. It is as important and enjoyable as the actual sex itself. The flow from delicate, to passionate, through to the mirror after play, where the passion smooths back to delicate. And somewhere, in the middle of all that, there is the sex. |
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I didn’t read the OP as meaning the second option was sticking it in with no preamble whatsoever. More like do you prefer a long drawn out teasing session or a quick and urgent fuck. And my answer is: all of the above, please 
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"I didn’t read the OP as meaning the second option was sticking it in with no preamble whatsoever. More like do you prefer a long drawn out teasing session or a quick and urgent fuck. And my answer is: all of the above, please
Mrs TMN x"
This. Build up can come in many forms. Sometimes foreplay acts can be fun post sex
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