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Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun.
Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience.
I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent.
I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards.
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Had done in past but honestly I prefer to have a regular meets than one and done these days,... when I was younger i probably would have preferred this but as I got older I like to have some type of connection |
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By *iver78Man 1 day ago
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Have done it , and it is quite exiting , but you do kinda walk away feeling a bit flat !! I used to see a lady who that's all she wanted , but would chat a lot via text , then ask me pop round for a shag , often wouldent get past the living room !! Which was fantastic until I realized I was probably one of many !! Which is why I stopped , |
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It totally depends on the person and the moment itself. I used to have a fuck buddy when I was younger, 2 mins from my house. Go there, both start undressing etc, oral, sex, not much talking, boom, get dressed, on my way home. It scratched an itch for both of us, she didn’t want to talk or for me to hang around.
But that’s the only person I think I could be so unemotional with. I am a very passionate and intimate guy when it comes to sex, and that type of sex has zero intimacy and just an animalistic type of passion.
I couldn’t do that again.
I want the woman to feel special, to feel heard and seen and not just a piece of meat.
There are a lot of women (especially on here) who do just wanted to be fucked senseless and that’s it… and often those are the ones maybe not getting it from their partner.
Some people can do it, some people can’t that’s why we are interesting, we’re all different |
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"I find the transactional/robotic element intensifies the sex.i don’t want intimacy with strangers so fuck n go or a no messing hook up and crack on with whatever suits me."
That makes sense. I wish i could be more like that sometimes |
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"It totally depends on the person and the moment itself. I used to have a fuck buddy when I was younger, 2 mins from my house. Go there, both start undressing etc, oral, sex, not much talking, boom, get dressed, on my way home. It scratched an itch for both of us, she didn’t want to talk or for me to hang around.
But that’s the only person I think I could be so unemotional with. I am a very passionate and intimate guy when it comes to sex, and that type of sex has zero intimacy and just an animalistic type of passion.
I couldn’t do that again.
I want the woman to feel special, to feel heard and seen and not just a piece of meat.
There are a lot of women (especially on here) who do just wanted to be fucked senseless and that’s it… and often those are the ones maybe not getting it from their partner.
Some people can do it, some people can’t that’s why we are interesting, we’re all different "
Oh absolutely. Im not yuking anyones yum, sometimes i wish i could be more like that but i think about things to much and i think i would beat myself up about it after. |
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"I find the transactional/robotic element intensifies the sex.i don’t want intimacy with strangers so fuck n go or a no messing hook up and crack on with whatever suits me.
That makes sense. I wish i could be more like that sometimes"
I don’t think it’s a more or less desirable way of doing things. My sexual perspective is (of course) grounded in gay sexual culture which is much more focused around cruising and fuck n go. If I was in a relationship I’d value the intimacy but that wouldn’t need to be sexual intimacy.
Gotta do you and what feels right for you TT. |
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Might as well just have a wank if your doing fuck n go. It's easier, no need to travel or have a stranger in your home, no need to dress up/make an effort. No need to deal with time wasters.
Yep if I was in to fuck n go I think I'd rather just have a wank. Not knocking anyone though, whatever works for you is fine in my book |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 day ago
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Everybody is different for me I’m looking for transactional sex I don’t want friends chats massages or anything like that
I’m in it because when I get back to my husband the sex is off the chart
I’m not interested in chatting dirty to guys to get them off
Dogging, fuck and goes and gangbangs are perfect for this |
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"All very timing dependent and individual dependent. For me there's a time and place... you shouldn't feel bad if that's what you want either"
I would agree with this it’s really time dependent xx 😘 |
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For the meet yes a fuck and go works sometimes but I prefer a build up over time, chatting about this and that and establish what we’re both looking for. Takes the awkwardness out of a meet sometimes knowing more before hand. For me anyway, I tend to be shy meeting new people so this eases me in knowing more before hand.
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We have never done this, wouldn’t feel right , we normally all have a drink ( soft or boozy doesn’t matter ) before hand and have a little chat and then normally I instigate play, once everyone is finished we then like to sit around naked chatting for as long as feels right, couples tend to chat for longer before leaving or even then round two where as males tend to chat for about 10 mins then get dressed and leave. Both fine with us but fuck and go is a no no! |
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By *eliWoman 1 day ago
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I haven't done it before, not sure I could. When I'm really horny sometimes I think yeah, sure, a hot man turning up at the hotel, straight to fucking me senseless, no words? Could be exactly what I need. But I know me, I talk, like talking and asking questions.
And part of the attraction, for me, is the chemistry from mental stimulation. Without it I think I'd be a rather dry affair.
(Had to get rid of the OP, sorry OP. :D) |
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"I haven't done it before, not sure I could. When I'm really horny sometimes I think yeah, sure, a hot man turning up at the hotel, straight to fucking me senseless, no words? Could be exactly what I need. But I know me, I talk, like talking and asking questions.
And part of the attraction, for me, is the chemistry from mental stimulation. Without it I think I'd be a rather dry affair.
(Had to get rid of the OP, sorry OP. :D)"
Its ok i am a waffler 🤣 |
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I've only ever come close to doing it once and broke my own rules by doing it.
It was someone I had only spoken to the day before and she was staying in a city centre hotel that night.
She contacted me the next morning and said she was very horny and asked if I could visit her. I was already passing that way for non fab reasons so I broke my rule and agreed to go.
I agreed to go only because she had 100+ verifications and had been on the site for many years so I knew there was little risk.
The visit lasted less than 30 minutes during which I remained fully clothed the entire time and she never touched me once.
It was all about getting her off and then she took a call from friends in the next room and said she had to meet them for breakfast.
It was an experience but not one I would be in a hurry to repeat as the only thing I got from it was the experience.
She messaged that night to thank me and said that despite having so many verifications it was her first time doing anything like that and because she felt so embarrassed she was going to block me.
She did do that and I've never seen her on the site since. |
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"I've only ever come close to doing it once and broke my own rules by doing it.
It was someone I had only spoken to the day before and she was staying in a city centre hotel that night.
She contacted me the next morning and said she was very horny and asked if I could visit her. I was already passing that way for non fab reasons so I broke my rule and agreed to go.
I agreed to go only because she had 100+ verifications and had been on the site for many years so I knew there was little risk.
The visit lasted less than 30 minutes during which I remained fully clothed the entire time and she never touched me once.
It was all about getting her off and then she took a call from friends in the next room and said she had to meet them for breakfast.
It was an experience but not one I would be in a hurry to repeat as the only thing I got from it was the experience.
She messaged that night to thank me and said that despite having so many verifications it was her first time doing anything like that and because she felt so embarrassed she was going to block me.
She did do that and I've never seen her on the site since. "
Wait so she blocked you for essentially using you for our own sexual gratification ? |
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"I've only ever come close to doing it once and broke my own rules by doing it.
It was someone I had only spoken to the day before and she was staying in a city centre hotel that night.
She contacted me the next morning and said she was very horny and asked if I could visit her. I was already passing that way for non fab reasons so I broke my rule and agreed to go.
I agreed to go only because she had 100+ verifications and had been on the site for many years so I knew there was little risk.
The visit lasted less than 30 minutes during which I remained fully clothed the entire time and she never touched me once.
It was all about getting her off and then she took a call from friends in the next room and said she had to meet them for breakfast.
It was an experience but not one I would be in a hurry to repeat as the only thing I got from it was the experience.
She messaged that night to thank me and said that despite having so many verifications it was her first time doing anything like that and because she felt so embarrassed she was going to block me.
She did do that and I've never seen her on the site since.
Wait so she blocked you for essentially using you for our own sexual gratification ? "
Yes it seems that way. It honestly didn't annoy me at the time because I was able to say I had done something different and stepped out of my comfort zone but looking back on it, it was a pretty selfish thing to do. |
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"I've only ever come close to doing it once and broke my own rules by doing it.
It was someone I had only spoken to the day before and she was staying in a city centre hotel that night.
She contacted me the next morning and said she was very horny and asked if I could visit her. I was already passing that way for non fab reasons so I broke my rule and agreed to go.
I agreed to go only because she had 100+ verifications and had been on the site for many years so I knew there was little risk.
The visit lasted less than 30 minutes during which I remained fully clothed the entire time and she never touched me once.
It was all about getting her off and then she took a call from friends in the next room and said she had to meet them for breakfast.
It was an experience but not one I would be in a hurry to repeat as the only thing I got from it was the experience.
She messaged that night to thank me and said that despite having so many verifications it was her first time doing anything like that and because she felt so embarrassed she was going to block me.
She did do that and I've never seen her on the site since. "
Wow… talk about making someone feel special #Sarcasm |
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"I've done it with people that I saw regularly. You know only a little but of time so a quickie.
I wouldn't arrange a fuck and go meet with someone new though. "
I’m the same……we’re very time poor so I have had quickie meets with regular guys who know there’s a time limit xx 😄 |
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I think I would only do this if it was with someone that I knew already and we were both short on time. That way we wouldn't need to get to know each other, and I'd hope the next time wouldn't need to be so rushed. |
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It's not something I've ever done or even considered. I think I'm wise enough to avoid a bonk-and-go 'meet' when I know very little about the person I'm meeting. I suspect such an experience would feel hollow and mechanical, and devoid of any feeling or connection. If I have an itch to scratch then I can just masturbate.
Also, my profile attracts/aligns with women whose profiles state "looking to message/chat extensively before meeting" and therefore the likelihood of me having transient sex is nil. Thankfully. |
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Not for me. Prefer to have more of a connection with someone other than a physical one. They could be the exact physical type I was looking for but if they have an incompatible personality it’s not going to happen. |
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As a general rule, I like to form a connection with someone (particularly if we plan to see one another semi regularly). However, sometimes the horniness takes over and you just want a good seeing to by multiple people lol.
That's not to say that these more spontaneous meets aren't still 'vetted' to some extent of course, I wouldn't just fuck anybody. |
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We’ve got a FWB who just wants to turn up and not chat in-between other than to arrange the next time and it’s on the cusp of being too transactional.
When he’s here he’s chatty and attentive but he probably feels he’s got a GF if he has to check in all the time 😬
He’s giving C plenty of orgasms so I think she lets it slide for him 🤣
We love the build up, the playfulness and getting everyone fired up. That’s why I’ve never played in a club with someone new as I need a connection first.
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun.
Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience.
I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent.
I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards.
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I don't like it
It feels wrong |
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I quite like it. I don't want all the fake, fluffy chat some men say just to get a fuck. I don't want the expectations that I'll definitely want to meet them again next time I put a meet up.
I like the excitement and intensity of it. Quite often we have chatted for a little bit after which is ok (sometimes 😆). It really suits what I'm looking for (or my attachment style /dopamine seeking). |
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"I quite like it. I don't want all the fake, fluffy chat some men say just to get a fuck. I don't want the expectations that I'll definitely want to meet them again next time I put a meet up.
I like the excitement and intensity of it. Quite often we have chatted for a little bit after which is ok (sometimes 😆). It really suits what I'm looking for (or my attachment style /dopamine seeking)."
I also get turned off very easily. A certain word, reference, being too keen... too much chat usually always results in me not meeting them xx |
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Depends why I'm there, if it's a hookup I'm not clingy. On the flip who doesn't enjoy a cuddle and falling asleep or getting ready for the next round. I like to get clean and maybe see if we can go again.. |
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I sucked of an army guy in my summer house, he shot his load stood up zipped up and walked away no saying a word 🫣 I felt humiliated and thought you ignorant bastard😤 Then realised my cock was bone hard and pulsing with lust 🤪😍 |
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I’m looking for weekday hotel meets and some would say this is a quickie, in, out and done, but, I want to build a little friendship online, build a bit of trust. Then meet at a hotel. Understand why we are both there and what we are there for. To close the door and leave the chaos of the world behind. Not necessarily a quick shag, have some fun together, explore each others bodies, but on the understanding that when the door closes we are both there for NSA sex. X
Well that’s one of the reasons I find myself on FAB, maybe one day lol 😜 x |
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun.
Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience.
I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent.
I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards.
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Yeah sometimes it good just physical release no brain power effort as such. Hit like a sex club in big multi playrooms tbh. |
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun.
Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience.
I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent.
I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards.
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We only play in clubs, so it makes this type of play easier. For single guys it’s our preferred type of first meet, we have no interest in chatting getting to know single guys in a club setting, in fact the nature of this type of play makes it really hot. When we play with a single guy and we like them and they are good in bed then we will potentially build a connection then and play more. We really don’t like to much chat as we have had people talk themselves out of playing with us, but never in to it, if that makes sense.
If we like someone they will be offered to join in and play and then it’s their choice if they want to. |
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Have I done it? Yes, many times over the years.
Could I do it again? Of course.
As one aspect of an active, varied sex life it's fine. Especially in club situations this kind of sex is common. I could easily do it as one off meets too.
But that's because I have a partner who I have a fantastic sex life with already. If 'fuck and go' was my only option then yeah, that would be pretty depressing as connections and ongoing explorations are important. You don't need to have those with everyone you sleep with and equally whilst a quickie with a partner or regular friend can be fun, if all your sex was purely mechanical it would soon get boring.
There's nothing wrong with variety. 🤷♂️ |
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"Have I done it? Yes, many times over the years.
Could I do it again? Of course.
As one aspect of an active, varied sex life it's fine. Especially in club situations this kind of sex is common. I could easily do it as one off meets too.
But that's because I have a partner who I have a fantastic sex life with already. If 'fuck and go' was my only option then yeah, that would be pretty depressing as connections and ongoing explorations are important. You don't need to have those with everyone you sleep with and equally whilst a quickie with a partner or regular friend can be fun, if all your sex was purely mechanical it would soon get boring.
There's nothing wrong with variety. 🤷♂️"
Fully agree with this, it only works because our sexlife as a couple is so good. I wouldn’t like it if it was our only option |
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When I was fresh out of a very long term relationship it was an easy fix that was needed at the time, now its definitely not what I want, I want the cuddles, I want the giggles, the easy conversation after. |
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I have done it with a regular, but it's not something I'd do with a new person easily.
Though having said that I have done it with someone I literally just met. But I prefer a regular thing, I'm a guy who likes routines. 🤷🏽♂️ |
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun.
Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience.
I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent.
I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards.
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I'm training to fuck as many women. Been training for 20 years |
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Fuck n goes are a bit like McDonald’s—easy, convenient, and fun in the moment, but not exactly satisfying and you feel a bit filthy afterwards.
These days I’m less drive‑thru and more sit‑down-and-savour fine dinning with a side order of connection when it comes to sex.
No Mcshags for me |
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"I would say most of my meets are Fuck and go. It's perfect for me I get to have a fabulous time in bed and they go.
It works for me as most of my FB I have been seeing for 10+ years.
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As part of a couple where I got the cuddles and kisses afterwards from my partner, I would happily fuck and go, especially in uns when we were fulfilling a particular fantasy.
Now I'm single, I am a lot more discerning about who I have sex with and would rather go without than have a transactional meet with someone. I am excluding quickies with known partners from that as if we are short of time, then we will just grab what we can but that is because we already have a connection. |
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When I first started seeing my FWB I popped round one day after work, ate her out and left.
I was unbearably horny for two days and all I could think about was fucking her.
Even thinking about it now I can’t wait till tomorrow when we meet again.
But that’s a lot different to how I would have felt had we had sex and I just left, I would have felt shit having just used her like that |
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I have done it twice once with a women and once with a couple …
It was their request their scenario ..
Both my encounters were for their control / sub fantasy play .. the single women’s was about been used and the couple was the husband who arranged it for his wife to be used and he did clean up and reclaim sex after I’d left ..
There was no conversation other interactions just fuck, cum and leave .
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Sometimes I just wake up slutty and want to be fucked. I’ve told multiple people a location and just want to be fucked and suck a cock and be eaten.
Most was 4 in one day.
There is a corner of fab for everyone.
I don’t need a guy hanging around post cum. Not looking for a bf.
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By *ellsOMan 14 hours ago
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I also, like many, feel the idea appeals but in reality, I think I'd feel a empty afterwards, guilt towards the other person who may want more, guilt for me as I'm an avid overthinker
Maybe I need to test the theory 🤔 |
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For me I have to agree,I like to get to know someone at least a little bit before going in,exchanging names at least 😂 but suppose it's each to there own,for some it just keeps it simple without an emotional attachment being formed,can work both way for both men and women |
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