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What (or who) is your biggest fab regret?
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By *sWyldWoman 20 hours ago
Edinburgh |
I am my biggest regret. For years my own insecurities held me back. I didn't meet people I wanted to or didn't experience the things I longed for, because I didn't feel ' good enough about myself.
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A women i met who was in the forces, during a brief rest period were we share some pillow talk, the conversation got a little weird and i mistakenly pushed a little too far with it, I was politely asked to leave, Im guessing i triggered an old memory for her, she was an amazing women who i’d met a few time already prior to this Saturday afternoon were she got upset. She’s still on here but broke contact with me. |
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I've made a few mistakes through fab over the years but I can honestly say I have no regrets because they were all part of the learning process.
The only thing I would rewind the clock on would be other people's drama. I would probably step away sooner than I did. |
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I know their are some girls on here, where message threads came to an end / blocks were imposed.. I’m 100% confident that put us in a bar and we would get on like a hose on fire… but given the abundance of men on here any misinterpretation, wrongly timed message or slightest ick kills it. Such a shame as I think it leads to us both missing out. |
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Yeah, I have a few where I wished things had worked out differently. Whether that was my own actions or a case of shops passing in the night where things didn't align. It used to affect me more thinking I'd struggle to find that interest again but (and this is not to sound arrogant), but there will always be people interested in you around the corner if you look for it. |
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By *mf123Man 6 hours ago
with one foot out the door |
No point regretting i spent too much time living in the past for a lifetime yes there were ones i missed out rewarding but in the end life will do as it will control the controlables |
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By *viatrixWoman 6 hours ago
Back in Surrey, Dahlings! |
I don’t think I have any regrets.
I have been extremely lucky and have met great people overall - socially and otherwise  from whom I’ve learned a lot. As I’ve said before, I am really very savvy in my judge of character or just really damn lucky! 🤷♀️
There was a couple I could have had potentially lots of fun with at the beginning of my Fab joiurney. But at that point we were in very different stages in life and I didn’t have anywhere as much freedom as I do now. So couldn’t get away with them on holidays etc. But it’s not a regret, just misaligned timings. |
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A few meets i wish i could take back, but i wouldnt be as savvy now when meeting if i hadnt had those experiences so i guess things are meant to happen for a reason.
Also some great guys i didnt meet due to nerves at the beginning but such is life  |
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By *ustYouWoman 5 hours ago
Glasgow, west end |
I regret distance.
I have 1 or 2 far flung interests who all happen to live in the absolute wilds of Southern England. I know perfectly well I should stay within my parameters, but some people are worth traveling for, and projecting my need to have them on my lap, in good old Glasgow has become my daily mantra to the universe. |
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Me wet a guy & did gave some great meets but he seemed to feel he was a bit too comfortable & started letting us down. We gave him benefit of the doubt, because he gave us something we hadn’t looked for but had found, but he became even more unreliable.
We realised he was just a serial liar but we realised that too late. Shame really because up to that point all was better than good. |
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A couple my ex wife and I knew via a social club, needed some help moving some bulky items in my 4x4.I was invited in for a cup of tea & told his wife was upstairs feeling unwell. I was given a hot cuppa then he said he had to take his son to an after school club,but I should finish my hot tea.This felt like a setup especially when she shouted down could I bring her a drink of water up.I found a cup & filled with water,walked up stairs & left the cup outside the bedroom door then let myself out of the front door, not feeling happy to be the fly in this spiders web |
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Not regrets... But different decisions made with new information.
There are plenty of fabbers who I've lost touch with either because they left fab or I did, and we didn't pull the trigger on meeting up, or moving off fab.
Similar losing touch with those I did chat to off fab, but went a bit shit on when I started dating, and struggled with balancing NM and friendships. |
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I wish I could have met the couple from the Pendley Manor Hotel in Tring for part 2.
When I arrived in the suite I found cameras set up everywhere, which was a bit disconcerting. But nevertheless, me and the wife had fun while Mr just messed about with cameras.
I was supposed to be going round o their house to see the finish but after a couple of phone calls it went quiet. I wish I could have seen the film but they were a fantastic couple too. I couldn't believe my luck. Many moons ago alas. |
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I kicking myself for not reading the signals better. One of the early MLS I was chatting to a lady who was going and said she was nervous about going on her own. I suggested we meet before and grab a coffee and walk in together. This evolved to me picking her up from the station and then collecting 2 other forumites. Then driving us all to central Manchester to the venue, I needed to drop my car and check in. And I foolishly said for her to wait for me inbtge lobby when I went up to drop my bag off even though she said she would come with me. 🤦♂️ who knows where that would have gone. I would 💯 allowed her to accompany me to my room to drop my bag off if I got a second chance.
And yes I am bad at reading signals at times. So sometimes ladies you need to be more direct with me.😳 |
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that bad hey..
