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By *eat62 OP Man 5 hours ago
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Women on fab can wear sexy underwear showing everything and attacks a man. What does a man have to do. No cock pictures for one. Clean shaven no facial hair. Or lots of facial hair. Don't show anyone anything of your self and cover up in the suit preferably a three piece suit to hide yourself behind. The the sexy look is catalogue model and women just need a beautiful smile on. Am I right ? 😂 |
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No. Your not.
I see multiple male profiles that say, athletic only build, petite ladies only, dont like larger ladies etc.
Shaved/not shaved.
The issue is theres a higher ratio of men to women on this site so it will seem there are more women doing it.
Oh and it seems "some men" are more likely than women to let there preferences slip if they think there gunna get there end away.
"Not all men" |
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"Women on fab can wear sexy underwear showing everything and attacks a man. What does a man have to do. No cock pictures for one. Clean shaven no facial hair. Or lots of facial hair. Don't show anyone anything of your self and cover up in the suit preferably a three piece suit to hide yourself behind. The the sexy look is catalogue model and women just need a beautiful smile on. Am I right ? 😂"
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They fail at the final hurdle, dear chap: the perfect cologne. Many a man, knight, cavalier and dandy hath failed to secure the most gripping of scents.
Overcome this and you can capitulate any free thinking woman. |
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There are shallow demanding people in all categories, men, women, couples tv/ts. I've messaged after ticking every demand box on their profile and been blocked instantly. Be yourself whoever you are and dont waste your energy on these people. If im not for them, I dont want them x g x |
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"Or! Here me out. You could just be yourself.
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Quite right.
I’m a chunky monkey, 53, but can pass for 52 in bad light, and still get approached.
Photos are a mix from naked (sorry) to suited and booted for a wedding.
Seems to work
Or maybe it’s that I managed to write a reasonable bio (not that anyone reads it) |
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"They fail at the final hurdle, dear chap: the perfect cologne. Many a man, knight, cavalier and dandy hath failed to secure the most gripping of scents.
Overcome this and you can capitulate any free thinking woman."
He's going to try and sell you some knock-off Halfeti, OP. Don't fall for it! |
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"They fail at the final hurdle, dear chap: the perfect cologne. Many a man, knight, cavalier and dandy hath failed to secure the most gripping of scents.
Overcome this and you can capitulate any free thinking woman.
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He's going to try and sell you some knock-off Halfeti, OP. Don't fall for it!"
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By *eat62 OP Man 5 hours ago
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"No. Your not.
I see multiple male profiles that say, athletic only build, petite ladies only, dont like larger ladies etc.
Shaved/not shaved.
The issue is theres a higher ratio of men to women on this site so it will seem there are more women doing it.
Oh and it seems "some men" are more likely than women to let there preferences slip if they think there gunna get there end away.
"Not all men""
Not me hell chance would be a go one thing. |
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"I dont have to do anything i am a man  "
This, but flip side of the coin in my case is it's somewhat difficult to take seriously when my arsehole is prepped to ensure pristine clean bussy, shaved smooth all over, wig, makeup, Pleaser Flamingo kinky boots, dolled up looking like a cheap SLUT ready to service big clean dicks like a practiced whore...!
😜🤣🤣🤣
Luv it, "simply being" is all that matters...! |
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Believe it or not, women are similar to men in the fact that everyone has a different preference to everyone else. The issue is the ratio of men to ladies on this site, so the ladies have a better option and can be a bit more choosy than men. Hope that helps. |
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I don't think it's difficult to be a man on here. It's about expectations and understanding why you are truly here Vs what the site is actually for.
People are varied and will have different preferences and are entitled to express them. I prefer people to say openly what they like and don't like.
Be respectful, patient and politely honest with everyone and see what happens.
X |
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By *inkShyWoman 4 hours ago
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"Women on fab can wear sexy underwear showing everything and attacks a man. What does a man have to do. No cock pictures for one. Clean shaven no facial hair. Or lots of facial hair. Don't show anyone anything of your self and cover up in the suit preferably a three piece suit to hide yourself behind. The the sexy look is catalogue model and women just need a beautiful smile on. Am I right ? 😂"
You couldn't be more wrong, tbh. |
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I dont these posts age well and I get that we all get a bit down when we're not having the times we expected. Be yourself, dont be a dick, set realistic expectations and get what you can out of this and everything else. Continuously tweak your profile, and who and how you message. It'll come and so will you. Not a fan of the original post but I genuinely hope it was out of frustrstion than actual opinion and i wish you the best. |
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If you are honest in your profile about what you’re looking for then you’ll find your people.
But then once you’ve found them then your profile needs to stand out.
Don’t waste time on people who are looking for something you aren’t.
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Nope. Be yourself, have a good profile with a mix of pics and a good indication of what you offer meets and are looking for.
My other half was a single male here when we met ten years ago. He did ok, but went to clubs and socials and was easy to have a conversation with too. |
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"Or! Here me out. You could just be yourself.
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Works for me! I know what I am isn't for everybody and I don't mind that. I also know that how I present often leads people to make incorrect assumptions and I don't mind that either.
People often mistake hookup sites for the jeweller where everything's shiny and nice and on sale, whereas the reality is it's like panning for gold: lots of sludge and dross but super exciting when you get lucky. |
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"Says the headless woman 😂"
If this was a reply to me, I am not the one opening a thread bleating about not getting any interest from women. I am not meeting, so photographs are not relevant on my profile. You asked for advice, I offered some from the perspective of your target audience. |
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"Nope, you’re wrong
Being able to hold a conversation, have a great personality and not being a dick are far bigger qualities than having catalog model looks
Having a nice cock does help though lol"
Any day! |
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"Says the headless woman 😂
If this was a reply to me, I am not the one opening a thread bleating about not getting any interest from women. I am not meeting, so photographs are not relevant on my profile. You asked for advice, I offered some from the perspective of your target audience. "
Never bite the hand that feeds you, its poor form.
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"Says the headless woman 😂
If this was a reply to me, I am not the one opening a thread bleating about not getting any interest from women. I am not meeting, so photographs are not relevant on my profile. You asked for advice, I offered some from the perspective of your target audience.
Never bite the hand that feeds you, its poor form.
Mrs x"
I even got the honor of a private message and photos. What joy  |
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"Just be yourself, be polite and engaging. You can't be all things to all women. Respect their choices and if you're not what they are looking for, move on."
He is, in his profile! He's not really like this snarky forum post at all, believe him! |
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"Women on fab can wear sexy underwear showing everything and attacks a man. What does a man have to do. No cock pictures for one. Clean shaven no facial hair. Or lots of facial hair. Don't show anyone anything of your self and cover up in the suit preferably a three piece suit to hide yourself behind. The the sexy look is catalogue model and women just need a beautiful smile on. Am I right ? 😂
Parklife"
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"Women on fab can wear sexy underwear showing everything and attacks a man. What does a man have to do. No cock pictures for one. Clean shaven no facial hair. Or lots of facial hair. Don't show anyone anything of your self and cover up in the suit preferably a three piece suit to hide yourself behind. The the sexy look is catalogue model and women just need a beautiful smile on. Am I right ? 😂"
You do what ever you want, its up to people viewing/reading as to whether they find it interesting and want to engage. |
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