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said she wants to meet ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

but everytime I try to set the meet up ,she says not today and soon ? here the background she in a relationship and has to be discrete am I been taken for a fool she always replies xx

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

"but everytime I try to set the meet up ,she says not today and soon ? here the background she in a relationship and has to be discrete am I been taken for a fool she always replies xx

Keep her on the back-burner and find someone else...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say you are, sorry. Stop mailing and see if she tries to set a date for a meet with you. If not, move on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is she verified ?

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By *opping_candyWoman over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Just say something like 'well I'll leave it to you, let me know if you want to sort something out sometime'. Even if she did/does want to meet you it can quickly become off putting if someone comes across as a pest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

not verified we exchanged pics naughty chats but seems not to happening we did have a meet but in the end couldn't cuz I couldn't accom

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

Move on, if it's meant to be she will message you. She may just like the thrill of the chase

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

not verified but she is hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you ever spoken to her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

not on the phone but through whatts app ? she seem pretty genuine tbf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you ever seen the MTV show 'Catfish'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if you can't accommodate and neither can she then unless you both agree on a hotel then a meet is unlikely and all it will ever be is naughty chat.

Keep your options open with others, there are lots on this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

no whats it all about ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like a waste of time, get her to talk on the phone to you, no texts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

well I could accom but then I had to cancel cuz I couldn't cuz I live at home kinda got my heat set on her even said if u wanted to date

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She a man really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm thinking a Catfish situation too.

Cast your net wider and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's very possible that it's a bloke pretending to be a woman. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

whats this catfish ? and what should I do ? x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a swinging site not a dating site, there are no exclusivity deals here and lots of people like you and the person you are trying to me. Remember the proverb "don't keep all your eggs is one basket" you don't have to stop chatting but you are free to look around.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Even if she did/does want to meet you it can quickly become off putting if someone comes across as a pest. "

Oh god this! Just give her some space for a while.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"whats this catfish ? and what should I do ? x"

People that talk online but never meet in person. The presenters get the people to meet in real life. A lot of times the people aren't what they claimed to be. Sometimes guys, sometimes older etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ow how can I find out if this is true ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd just leave the ball in her court, see if she returns it, if she genuinely wants to meet she'll contact you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

so don't message her ? or leave her something to thing of ? x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ow how can I find out if this is true ?"

Speak to her on the phone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ow how can I find out if this is true ?

Speak to her on the phone "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

but she got a bf ? what shall I say ? x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so don't message her ? or leave her something to thing of ? x"

Leave her alone, if she wants you she'll be back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm unsure about someone I just say you know where I am, I'll leave it with you as I hate pestering people and sending endless texts. Not saying she is but a lot of people come on here to seek attention but don't actually want to meet, leave it with her, as I say, if she's genuine she'll be in touch. Good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ill leave her alone for a bit then ring her out of the blue see if that works

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe not a great idea to ring out of the blue if she has a bf but I never meet people who are attached so can't really give advice on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yeah I know I do feel guilty but the fact it could go futher and she aint happy with him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well my best advice as others have said too is to leave it with her, if she has issues with her bf and isn't happy she obviously has a lot going on in her life now. You may be giving her the attention she isn't getting at home but believe me, its a massive thing for a single woman to meet a guy for sex, especially if a 3rd party who is unaware of what is going on is involved. I wish you well with it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

probly but I hope not but wont be the first time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yeah I don't want to hurt anyone and don't want to force someone into something they will regret so I will follow your advice and hope for the best thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ow how can I find out if this is true ?"

Ask her? I'm married and can't date much as I'd like to. She has a bf so same boat as me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well my best advice as others have said too is to leave it with her, if she has issues with her bf and isn't happy she obviously has a lot going on in her life now. You may be giving her the attention she isn't getting at home but believe me, its a massive thing for a single woman to meet a guy for sex, especially if a 3rd party who is unaware of what is going on is involved. I wish you well with it x"

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By *lleyCat1969Man over a year ago

Folkestone

As others have said, looks to me like she might be a he playing a game with you.

I'd move on, mark it down to experience & not lose any sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

she maybe but I rele don't think she is but im just gonna leave her alone and see if she messages me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She is a he so unless you like chicks with dicks move on

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