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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
What is the most shameful thing you have done? The one that you truly regret and that changed you.
I stole £1 from my mum's purse when I was twelve. I knew we were poor and I knew she would blame my dad. It was only as I got a little older I realised how vital that £1 was to our family coffers.
I still feel ashamed to this day when it comes to mind. It also cured me of wanting to steal anything.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"i was a bit of a bully at school..but..it was a case of do or die really..still wish it hadnt happened tho"
It's good to know it about yourself, especially if it stops you bullying into adulthood.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I broke my youngest child's favourite toy in a temper after he'd hit his brother with it.
He'd made him bleed but I overreacted. Thinking of his face makes me sad. I've probably done worse but this stuck in my head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i was a bit of a bully at school..but..it was a case of do or die really..still wish it hadnt happened tho"
It's good to know it about yourself, especially if it stops you bullying into adulthood...........ive never done it since and never would..brought my kids up not to be bullies too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a miserable moody little shit as a teenager. I wouldn't make my mum so much as a cup of tea despite her working a full time night job and a part time day job to keep us fed. |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
Shameful thing involved drinking. Once I changed crowd. Didn't do it anymore  .
What do I regret. Changing job, choosing my school, where I went for work experience and seeing some freak a few years back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I purposefully ruined a relationship for spite and revenge when I was 19  . she slept with my ex and ruined my relationship, so a year later I slept with the man she was then in live with and sent her a photo.
11 years later and I'm still ashamed of my actions. |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare. "
Quite shocked at this, but know never will judge someone for this reason. Especially if they were a child at the time. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare. "
What a really horrible coincidence. I have wished someone dead - I'm sure we all have in our secret moments.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I purposefully ruined a relationship for spite and revenge when I was 19 . she slept with my ex and ruined my relationship, so a year later I slept with the man she was then in live with and sent her a photo.
11 years later and I'm still ashamed of my actions. "
Oh dear. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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Is that at the shameful things we have done or the thing that you have done? . .forgive yourself for stealing a pound off your mum its no very bad or shameful. "
We were very, very poor. The real shame is I knew my mother would blame my father and she did.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was eleven - I wished a girl dead and kept wishing it ..... She died of liver failure later that year. It still seems like a horrible nightmare.
What a really horrible coincidence. I have wished someone dead - I'm sure we all have in our secret moments.
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Yeah  dont ever do it - cause if it actually happens it stays with u forever - ive never done since |
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Is that at the shameful things we have done or the thing that you have done? . .forgive yourself for stealing a pound off your mum its no very bad or shameful.
We were very, very poor. The real shame is I knew my mother would blame my father and she did.
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aye but Thats just a moment that might feel bad to you cause you were young Thats no bad at all in the grand scheme of things. . x x X |
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"When I was a teen I let the tyres down on the car of an ex and it left him stranded.....makes me burn with shame when I think about it now "
eh ? Thats no shameful either. you must be an angel x x X |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"What is the most shameful thing you have done? The one that you truly regret and that changed you.
I stole £1 from my mum's purse when I was twelve. I knew we were poor and I knew she would blame my dad. It was only as I got a little older I realised how vital that £1 was to our family coffers.
I still feel ashamed to this day when it comes to mind. It also cured me of wanting to steal anything.
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There are several, mostly from when I was a child.
I learned from them and didn't repeat them but I still feel ashamed. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I think I was an awful child.
My parents say I wasn't too bad and I could have been a lot worse. I never took drugs or got into trouble with the police or any of the things some children, even children of their friends, did.
A lot of the things I am ashamed of now were due to immaturity and a lack of understanding, (I knew they were wrong but I didn't fully realise the potential consequences for others).
I feel very guilty about some things.
Even things like having a tantrum because my parents couldn't afford to buy me something I wanted when I was 8 or 10 or thereabouts.
I've said and done some things that with an adult's perspective make me cringe. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Sometimes I'd like to be Catholic so I could go and confess, repent and get over it.
I don't think having a tantrum is a sin now  "
I still feel guilty about what I said.
I should be Catholic; I have that over-developed sense of guilt. |
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"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like "
That has made me feel slightly sick...I'd be seriously worried if someone had really done that.... |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like
You have a very strange sense of humour.
I really hope this was humour."
I think it is humour. He's growing on me.
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"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like
You have a very strange sense of humour.
I really hope this was humour.
I think it is humour. He's growing on me.
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I don't know I think it's a full moon tonight on here....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I'd like to be Catholic so I could go and confess, repent and get over it.
I don't think having a tantrum is a sin now
I still feel guilty about what I said.
I should be Catholic; I have that over-developed sense of guilt."
Just pop into a church and make you confession then. Look upon it as free counselling. They won't ask your denomination and you may feel better. |
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.no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here. |
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".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here."
I'm sorry but that's just plain sick |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here."
As self-elected reverend of Fab, your sins have been forgiven and your soul is now cleansed. Go in peace young man. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"okay has anyone got their pal to chop their pets head off so they could get a new pet ?. .just wondering like
You have a very strange sense of humour.
I really hope this was humour.
I think it is humour. He's growing on me.
I don't know I think it's a full moon tonight on here.... "
It's a new moon tomorrow and full on 14th May. |
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".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here.
I'm sorry but that's just plain sick "
and there mustv been some evil in there too and im no makin light of it and i still wonder why i let it happen.but im no selfish enough to think i can change anything or feel sorry for myself when shit happens |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here."
I wish you hadn't. I feel ill at the thought. |
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".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here.
I'm sorry but that's just plain sick and there mustv been some evil in there too and im no makin light of it and i still wonder why i let it happen.but im no selfish enough to think i can change anything or feel sorry for myself when shit happens "
Not evil I don't believe any child is truly evil but usually an very damaged child!! Research shows a link between children who are being abused who in turn abuse animals as they cannot fight back. Likelihood even if you'd tried stopping it would have just delayed the inevitable |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
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".no as sad as me . i definitely couldn't chop an animals head off but i didn't stop it either. so there you go im no happy with myself 25years later and still punish myself and Thats probably why I've put it down here.
I'm sorry but that's just plain sick and there mustv been some evil in there too and im no makin light of it and i still wonder why i let it happen.but im no selfish enough to think i can change anything or feel sorry for myself when shit happens
Not evil I don't believe any child is truly evil but usually an very damaged child!! Research shows a link between children who are being abused who in turn abuse animals as they cannot fight back. Likelihood even if you'd tried stopping it would have just delayed the inevitable "
I agree and disagree with that. I agree with the point that people do wrong for a reason. However I do agree some children/people just do it because they enjoy the outcome. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm working on forgiveness today. Let go of your shame and be kind to yourself and everyone around you.
Kind to myself?
What strange perversion is this?!  "
Look in the mirror and just smile at yourself. We'll work up to being kind.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shit where do I start?
Was a real dick in my teens,did many things that make me cringe now.
However that's what life is about make mistakes and learning from them.
We live we learn we grow.
Am sure I will make many more mistakes before I shuffle off this mortal coil.
It's life. Just as long as you know you have fucked up then learn. And carry on living.
Live long and prosper
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cheated on someone. One night stand-he had had a full on relationship behind my back, but in the circumstances it was inexcusable. I had an epiphany and realised I was a terrible person. Never again! |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
" I filled up a pate dish with kitikat cat food.. Sprig if parsely on top... Then watched as my brothers mates , at our party ( all pissed! ) ate it! I never confessed... Me bad!   "
Did your brother eat it too? |
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" I filled up a pate dish with kitikat cat food.. Sprig if parsely on top... Then watched as my brothers mates , at our party ( all pissed! ) ate it! I never confessed... Me bad!
Did your brother eat it too?"
no! Just a few hairy bikers!  |
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