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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whatever you feel comfortable with. Maybe just a social and see what happens?"
this 
You shouldn't leave it to others to decide what's right for you. It's down to you and your fella and only you two. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this |
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"But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this "
you discuss with the people you're meeting before you meet them. We always meet for a social first and never ever play first time.
You need to do what's right for you not what you imagine other people expect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this
you discuss with the people you're meeting before you meet them. We always meet for a social first and never ever play first time.
You need to do what's right for you not what you imagine other people expect."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea I suppose it would be weird to meet someone and go straight back to a hotel and fuck lol "
Like most have said, it's your choice. You may feel comfortable to go that way. Not everyone's choice though.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"But wouldn't the couple we are meeting expect more than a drink it's wasting there time if we meet up and do nothing we do want to try but where not sure about full swapping. Where both willing to try stuff that's the hole point off being on this "
Doing something you don't want to do is worse than wasting a bit of time. It's not a waste of time to get to know people.
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"Yea I suppose it would be weird to meet someone and go straight back to a hotel and fuck lol "
it happens  .
Seriously though, get sorted in your own minds how you want to do things, take it slowly and never, ever feel obliged to have sex with anyone just because you've agreed to meet them. Always make your limits clear before you meet and no means no whoever says it. |
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