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Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.
When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)
Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say
" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"
Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .
Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?
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over a year ago
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"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.
When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)
Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say
" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"
Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .
Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?
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I would appreciate someone making the effort and taking a chance x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.
When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)
Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say
" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"
Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .
Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?
I would appreciate someone making the effort and taking a chance x"
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"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.
When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)
Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say
" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"
Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .
Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?
"
It`s not creepy unless it`s made creepy, compliments are good if they are administered and left to their own devices, if it ends in a Benny Hill chase scene then you have gone too far  |
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"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.
When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)
Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say
" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"
Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .
Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?
I would appreciate someone making the effort and taking a chance x"
Thankyou. |
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"I've actually done that before to a woman.
My ex and I were out in town for dinner and then went on for a few drinks.
Before we left the bar is just said exactly that. ..and we left.
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. Corrrr well done. |
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"Need to gauge ladies opinion on something.
When out and about , and in the appropriate place,and time and of occasion ( ha ha funeral)
Would it be acceptable simply approach ,or stop someone and say
" excuse me, but sorry I just felt the need to come over and say how attractive you are"
Smile. And walk away and carry on what you were doing at save distance .
Would this bug you?? Be creepy?? Be appreciated leaving the unlikely scenario of that same person more comfortable to come back to you if they fancy a chat.?
It`s not creepy unless it`s made creepy, compliments are good if they are administered and left to their own devices, if it ends in a Benny Hill chase scene then you have gone too far "
. Ha ha god that would awfull.....but funny.. |
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"I've actually done that before to a woman.
My ex and I were out in town for dinner and then went on for a few drinks.
Before we left the bar is just said exactly that. ..and we left.
. Corrrr well done."
I had obviously had a confidence transplant that evening lol
And I certainly couldn't do it to a guy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol. Many years ago ....,. I used to see a lass walk past mh work every dah , one day i just went over and asked if her fella would be jealous if i took her out for coffee ....... Was seeing her for 3 months til her fella did find out. Lmfao But seriously ,... lifes too short to wonder what if ,..,, do it ,. It could be fun. |
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I had this happen to me in a supermarket once, was with my mum and kept passing each other in the aisles. Thought it was really sweet when on about the third pass he approached me and told me he thought I was lovely. As we got to one of the last aisles he stopped again and asked me out. We swapped numbers, went out once and he turned into an obsessive nightmare. Wouldn't leave me alone, would send stroppy texts if I didn't reply immediately, would walk past my house and message me to say he'd looked out for me as he'd gone past. It was quite unsettling and took some stern words from a third party to get him to stop calling. Maybe that experience has scarred me but I'd find someone doing similar again uncomfortable.
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