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Do porn films give unrealistic expectations when it comes to sex?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As the question above... What do others think?
In some cases I think so. Especially what men expect women to do.
Don't get me wrong, I love open minded, horny and kinky fun... But still think they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These days guys see porn as a benchmark.
Having spoken to a few porn stars I can tell you it's not what it seems. Some times a 20 minute film can take over 4 hours to shoot.
Most of it is staged, fake or edited to death.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it comes down to the individuals perceptions. Yes I watch porn, and it has inspired some fantasies.
But I like to think that I can clearly differentiate between seeing a performance that is enhanced reality, and enjoying the real thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Completely unrealistic.... Though amateur porn hits the nail a little more. Doubtful that some porn stars who have partners, go home and act the same as they do on set. It's acting at the end of the day... Mostly bad acting, but some watching it, do get a skewed impression of what real sex is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No brainer. Yes it does.
However it must be remembered that porn doesn't come from another planet. It is of human origin. Most of it may not happen in the average bedroom but that doesn't mean that the average person doesn't desire done aspects of it.
Furthermore, much if not all, of the acts disseminated via porn existed and were performed millenniums before porn as we've come to know it in contemporary times came to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only with people who have simple minds and can't deduce that it's acting and staged and the people are chosen because of what they can/are willing to do for money. |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"As the question above... What do others think?
In some cases I think so. Especially what men expect women to do.
Don't get me wrong, I love open minded, horny and kinky fun... But still think they do."
No I don't think they do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got to agree with all of above. I think especially men to women, but also some women do too... Ie, must be tall dark, over 6ft and over 9" lol
Just happens I'm all three! (joke)
Modern day porn has certainly raised the bar... Yes its man made as someone has already pointed out... But I still believe it can cause people to forget about the difference between fantasy and reality. Maybe fantasy is a reality? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As the question above... What do others think?
In some cases I think so. Especially what men expect women to do.
Don't get me wrong, I love open minded, horny and kinky fun... But still think they do.
No I don't think they do "
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As the question above... What do others think?
In some cases I think so. Especially what men expect women to do.
Don't get me wrong, I love open minded, horny and kinky fun... But still think they do."
Yes and it puts unnecessary pressure on women especially younger one's to live upto the expectations of their boyfriends who thus far their only sexual experience has been watching porn, probably endlessly since a early age.
How many girls are doing anal now because it's seen as expected, most of their peer group are doing it and guys expect it.
Also puts pressure on appearance, that women are only seen as sexy if they dress and act like porn stars.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I tell you what I can't do a pop on shot on demand
Also they don't tell you of the calf ache the next day lol "
You sound like you've done this before lol |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"As the question above... What do others think?
In some cases I think so. Especially what men expect women to do.
Don't get me wrong, I love open minded, horny and kinky fun... But still think they do.
No I don't think they do
Why?"
You figure it out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for some men probably. you see all kinds of topics on here supporting that.
there's loads of types of porn out there though, i do think people will go watch the type of porn that they hope to enjoy themselves but i'd think they're realistic and know that these women either get paid for doing what they do.
dunno where the attitude that women who enjoy sex will fuck anything comes from though. don't really see any porn about that but do see stupid adverts on their sites promoting women like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The scripted, studio based ones yes. Judging by the pleas from some of the ladies on here - 'no fingerblasting, we don't all squirt' etc
All that squealing and the racket some of them make is ridiculous.
I much prefer the proper amateur stuff |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As the question above... What do others think?
In some cases I think so. Especially what men expect women to do.
Don't get me wrong, I love open minded, horny and kinky fun... But still think they do.
Yes and it puts unnecessary pressure on women especially younger one's to live upto the expectations of their boyfriends who thus far their only sexual experience has been watching porn, probably endlessly since a early age.
How many girls are doing anal now because it's seen as expected, most of their peer group are doing it and guys expect it.
Also puts pressure on appearance, that women are only seen as sexy if they dress and act like porn stars.
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Yes, especially anal. When I first started out... Anal was unthinkable! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The answer is yes. The fact that most scenes depict spontaneous hook ups with random partners and rarely a condom in sight should tell you that it isn't grounded in reality. That and the fact that there's never any lube in sight, even for anal... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for some men probably. you see all kinds of topics on here supporting that.
there's loads of types of porn out there though, i do think people will go watch the type of porn that they hope to enjoy themselves but i'd think they're realistic and know that these women either get paid for doing what they do.
dunno where the attitude that women who enjoy sex will fuck anything comes from though. don't really see any porn about that but do see stupid adverts on their sites promoting women like this."
A male friend of mine got hoodwinked into this. Ended up paying to join a sex site, and still couldn't get any! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As the question above... What do others think?
In some cases I think so. Especially what men expect women to do.
Don't get me wrong, I love open minded, horny and kinky fun... But still think they do.
No I don't think they do
Why?
You figure it out "
Why would I have to figure it out, I was merely being a conversationalist. And responding to your opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You mean not every man has a 9" penis, not every woman adores anal, and all women don't orgasm as soon as you kiss them?  "
Don't forget the crazy moaning of pleasure, when only the tip goes in....  |
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It is all acting, cut, retake so it will never give a true pic
It causes so much problem in the third world country as young men watch internet porn and once married they expect thire wives to do the same as in the porn films they were once watching and that cause so much problem and break down in marriages because of it, so it give the wrong perception of what goes on in the real bedroom   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You mean not every man has a 9" penis, not every woman adores anal, and all women don't orgasm as soon as you kiss them?
Don't forget the crazy moaning of pleasure, when only the tip goes in.... "
Lol, I remember watching a porn movie and getting right into it, listening to the woman moan... A girlfriend at the time muttered... She's completely faking it... Put me right off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for some men probably. you see all kinds of topics on here supporting that.
there's loads of types of porn out there though, i do think people will go watch the type of porn that they hope to enjoy themselves but i'd think they're realistic and know that these women either get paid for doing what they do.
dunno where the attitude that women who enjoy sex will fuck anything comes from though. don't really see any porn about that but do see stupid adverts on their sites promoting women like this.
A male friend of mine got hoodwinked into this. Ended up paying to join a sex site, and still couldn't get any! "
i accidently clicked an advert once then panicked and put tape over my cam, just in case lol. it seemed to be a chatbot talking to me coz they thought i was a bloke but i wasn't taking any chances.
so they're adverts for pay sites? didn't know that. did think they were lying though so nice to see that confirmed. knew there was no way a site out there with women gagging for sex with anything. |
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Yes, I think it does.
As a teenager growing up in the 80's we got to see page 3 stuff, then maybe a soft-core mag found ,as obligatory in the woods.
Even though the women were models, there weren't any sex acts portrayed at that time.
As time went on and the world of work began, there would be some colleague or another with a 3rd generation VHS copy of a porn scene.
Now, I wonder what teenagers make of what is portrayed in porn.
Are threesomes, coming in women's faces etc etc etc just 'normal' sex? How does a youngster differentiate between fantasy scenes and what is done in everyday sex?
As swingers, we might experience something a little closer to what happens in porn, but I do worry about the expectations of young people as to what they should expect to do.
MrB |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes and no. The rise of hair removal has been shown multiple times to be linked to porn. There's also the increased demand in anal bleaching, vaginal alteration services. And then there's the unrealistic body expectations that has happened with it including a set idea of perfection, anal to be a guaranteed event, squirting...
On the other hand, I think many are able to understand that it's an unrealistic scenario decided to appeal to you on a carnal sense and not what fucking is always like. At least, I tell myself that. But sometimes on here I don't know. |
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"You mean not every man has a 9" penis, not every woman adores anal, and all women don't orgasm as soon as you kiss them?
Don't forget the crazy moaning of pleasure, when only the tip goes in.... "
Or that you can get a plumber /electrician/insert tradesmen here to call on same day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for some men probably. you see all kinds of topics on here supporting that.
there's loads of types of porn out there though, i do think people will go watch the type of porn that they hope to enjoy themselves but i'd think they're realistic and know that these women either get paid for doing what they do.
dunno where the attitude that women who enjoy sex will fuck anything comes from though. don't really see any porn about that but do see stupid adverts on their sites promoting women like this.
A male friend of mine got hoodwinked into this. Ended up paying to join a sex site, and still couldn't get any!
i accidently clicked an advert once then panicked and put tape over my cam, just in case lol. it seemed to be a chatbot talking to me coz they thought i was a bloke but i wasn't taking any chances.
so they're adverts for pay sites? didn't know that. did think they were lying though so nice to see that confirmed. knew there was no way a site out there with women gagging for sex with anything."
Haha oh bless! That did make me laugh! Imagining the panic .
Yes, complete scam. Taking advantage of poor horny men, who genuinely believe they are guaranteed sex for that night... Six months later, they're paying by the month or whatever the plan is, and still waiting for sex . |
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Unrealistic, i watch top gear and formula one occasionally and I don't think I can drive like the stig. There's no doubt it gives you ideas, but unless you have a film crew with you on every meet don't expect there to be a standing ovation at the money shot.
Find out what the lady likes to enjoy and at least then you will have a chance of both of you having happy endings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for some men probably. you see all kinds of topics on here supporting that.
there's loads of types of porn out there though, i do think people will go watch the type of porn that they hope to enjoy themselves but i'd think they're realistic and know that these women either get paid for doing what they do.
dunno where the attitude that women who enjoy sex will fuck anything comes from though. don't really see any porn about that but do see stupid adverts on their sites promoting women like this.
A male friend of mine got hoodwinked into this. Ended up paying to join a sex site, and still couldn't get any!
i accidently clicked an advert once then panicked and put tape over my cam, just in case lol. it seemed to be a chatbot talking to me coz they thought i was a bloke but i wasn't taking any chances.
so they're adverts for pay sites? didn't know that. did think they were lying though so nice to see that confirmed. knew there was no way a site out there with women gagging for sex with anything.
Haha oh bless! That did make me laugh! Imagining the panic .
Yes, complete scam. Taking advantage of poor horny men, who genuinely believe they are guaranteed sex for that night... Six months later, they're paying by the month or whatever the plan is, and still waiting for sex ."
well i didn't know what they were for exactly but had an idea they were a scam.
aw, it's a shame guys believe this stuff really and pay for it. if it's too good to be true... |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Completely unrealistic.... Though amateur porn hits the nail a little more. Doubtful that some porn stars who have partners, go home and act the same as they do on set. It's acting at the end of the day... Mostly bad acting, but some watching it, do get a skewed impression of what real sex is. "
interesting as I don't watch porn as I find it to be rather dull and over to quick nothing like the sex I engage in which lasts for as long as my play partner has the will and the stamina to carry on .
the day a porn film shows the braking of a woman's will to fuck is the day it will become like real sex in my opinion   |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Well I tell you what I can't do a pop on shot on demand
Also they don't tell you of the calf ache the next day lol
You sound like you've done this before lol"
What pop shot or calf ache not in a porno but in real life  |
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Oh yes.
Reminds me of a story a friend told me.
She had a meet with a younger guy in his 20s, all was fine until they started getting down to it. He had problems maintaining an erection, he told her he thought something was wrong as, to use his words, she didn't 'scream like a porn star'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I think it does.
As a teenager growing up in the 80's we got to see page 3 stuff, then maybe a soft-core mag found ,as obligatory in the woods.
Even though the women were models, there weren't any sex acts portrayed at that time.
As time went on and the world of work began, there would be some colleague or another with a 3rd generation VHS copy of a porn scene.
Now, I wonder what teenagers make of what is portrayed in porn.
Are threesomes, coming in women's faces etc etc etc just 'normal' sex? How does a youngster differentiate between fantasy scenes and what is done in everyday sex?
As swingers, we might experience something a little closer to what happens in porn, but I do worry about the expectations of young people as to what they should expect to do.
MrB"
Interesting you mentioned swingers. We get the impression that more and swingers are influenced by porn. I'm not just talking about young singles, I mean older couples who you would think would know better. |
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I've assisted in making porn and everything you see is edited highlights, produced to consume. The reality of porn is quite funny and not sexy at all. 