Dedicate time to make a life size effergy of the person responsible for said broken heart, then build a massive bonfire, so big they'd see it from Space. Then climb it and pop that effergy on top. Then burn it, as you watch you'll be overwhelmed with relief.

And you'll be too knackered to think about him for at least a week.

Just remember. This too shall pass.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just go through the stages until it no longer hurts. Might be on the inward stage now where you think of things you could have done, then you'll have the hope stage where you hope for a reconciliation, maybe the realisation stage where it all sinks in but these stages can happen in any order. Just know that you won't feel like you are forever. If your future self could have a word with you now she'd tell you that this will pass and you will feel good again.

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By *weetyorkieMan over a year ago

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Get someone on top of you to take your mind of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feeling very fragile...Any remedies guys and girls? "

penis

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Get someone on top of you to take your mind of it "

I don't work like that unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surround yourself with friends and those that do love you.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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You'll get stronger each day and eventually you will find yourself sighing instead of crying.

Keep busy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Feeling very fragile...Any remedies guys and girls? "
Give yourself time out alone,come to terms that it is over & try to accept that.Time will do the rest x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Time is the only real cure but, stay active, stay positive and surround yourself with the right people!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like everyone else has said, time is the best healer. Lots of cuddles and support from friends can help in the meantime too.

If you need to talk or anything I'm always around 3

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't shut yourself away. Worst thing you can do. Just be with people you trust.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a great fan of counselling - talking to someone who doesn't know you is often very helpful. Got me through both of my divorces.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You'll get stronger each day and eventually you will find yourself sighing instead of crying.

Keep busy "

This exactly

Sending gentle hugs, OP xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone 3

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By *lmostthereMan over a year ago

Southampton

Take care of you.

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

Cheshire

"Feeling very fragile...Any remedies guys and girls? "

Turn to your creative side, write down your thoughts, the good and the bad and turn them into poetry or song lyrics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men: watch tits out Tuesday

Women: watch torso Tuesday

Perv 3 times a day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Feeling very fragile...Any remedies guys and girls?

Turn to your creative side, write down your thoughts, the good and the bad and turn them into poetry or song lyrics"

I do this anyway...not sure it eases the pain though tbh

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

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It hurts but have faith that time does dull the pain.

Walking in the countryside helps me clear my head a little when things are tough, and also putting my situation in perspective and remembering all I have to be thankful for, plus that fate knows how things should be and usually has my back, helps gives me strength.

Hugs xxx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No word's of advice as you know yourself only time will make you recover,hopefully that's soon for you.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

There is a lot of truth in an old saying

"The best way to get over a man is to get under another one"

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Oh it’s such a horrible feeling. Unfortunately, you can’t forward time to the point where you’ll be feeling better, but in the meantime fill your days with friends and hobbies or new challenges. Chin up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is a lot of truth in an old saying

"The best way to get over a man is to get under another one"

This is true just use him though for his body

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Anyone got a time machine?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"There is a lot of truth in an old saying

"The best way to get over a man is to get under another one"

Sound's a bit early to be doing that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There is a lot of truth in an old saying

"The best way to get over a man is to get under another one"

Sound's a bit early to be doing that."

Definitely is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have yourself a little holiday. Nothing like time away and some sun on your body to reflect and move forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have yourself a little holiday. Nothing like time away and some sun on your body to reflect and move forward

If only that were an option!

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

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There is a book that I found really helpful that is called "It is called a breakup because it's broken". It is written with a humorous perspective but lots of really good tips.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There is a book that I found really helpful that is called "It is called a breakup because it's broken". It is written with a humorous perspective but lots of really good tips."

Thanks for the recommendation...might check it out if I'm still sobbing into my pillow in a week or two.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"There is a lot of truth in an old saying

"The best way to get over a man is to get under another one"

Sound's a bit early to be doing that."

Nah, the quicker you do it the better it works

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

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"There is a book that I found really helpful that is called "It is called a breakup because it's broken". It is written with a humorous perspective but lots of really good tips.

Thanks for the recommendation...might check it out if I'm still sobbing into my pillow in a week or two."

See if your library has it, or if you can get a copy for a couple of pounds on Amazon. Even if you are not at all sobbing into your pillow it's still really is worth your time.

It has made a difference to me and also too many friends I have recommended it to you in their time of turmoil.

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