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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having read a lot of profiles and numerous meet details it seems this site is denigrating into just another sex site on the internet.
We always thought that swinging was defined as :
Swinging or partner swapping is a non-monogamous[1] behavior, in which both partners in a committed relationship agree, as a couple, for both partners to engage in sexual activities with other couples as a recreational or social activity
Before everyone jumps on the bandwagon shouting " its their choice to do as they wish" then fine let it be that. But this is a SWINGERS site. The clue is in the name FABSWINGERS.
There are other sites that cater for those just looking for sex.
Just our observations no offence or criticisms to anyone intended.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No offence intended, but a bit surprised that it's taken you over a year to discover this!
Yes there are a fair few people on here simply looking for NSA sex, and if that doesn't fit with your idea of swinging then fine, but I don't think that's been a recent change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The swinging umbrella now overs a very wide range of interests and diversitys now
Not so limited a range as when i started on the scene
I certainly accept the umbrella has widened and as long as all enjoy themselves then i cant really see a problem
When i started on the scene the word swinging was getting more popular than the phase wife swapping which was kinda limited in scope lol
And no doubt the word swinging will eventually evolve to another word suitable for the new diverse range xx  |
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your quoted definition also says nothing about the social element you feel is so important to swinging so i am a bit confused.
you will always get those who just want sex on here, not everyone wants or needs the social element in their swinging activities and sites like this allow them to add the bit of spce into their lives however they choose to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people are happy to use any part of the site how they want and are enjoying it then I can't see a problem
I don't class myself as a "swinger" to be honest but im sticking around as its a lot of fun
I don't really worry too much about what other people think,Ill just carry on with what I want to do,which is make friends,meet them and then explore some fabulous fantasies and experiences with them,you can just carry on spending your time moaning about people that you feel don't fit into your perception of what swinging is all about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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am i here for sex ? ultimately, yes
am i happy to socialise ? yes
it's one thing to look for sex, it is another to make it your raison d'etre
am quite happy to bumble along, being happy daft (and occasionally sensible) and then once in a while have myself some fun
quite what label you want to attach to that i don't know
moreover, am not really that bothered ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own at the end of the day.
Don't care, won't care what people's views about what I do is right or wrong with regard to "swinging".
I define myself, not by other people, that much is true FAB or otherwise.
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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Understand what the OP is saying...
I much prefer the "social" side of things that (could) lead up to "Fun" meaning group meets with 6 or more others involved (and no I dont mean 6 or more MEN) rather than just meeting some guy for sex...
Meeting for 1-1 social/sex is not swinging in my opinion....
So all you singles and yes, even couples, get out into the social side of things and enjoy your swinging lifestyle
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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agree in principle with the OP's definition, wherever it came from, but that is for us. Doesn't mean everyone sees it the same way and would never dream of telling anyone else what they want out of the scene I think it is called fredom of choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinda see the point made, but things change certainly,, its a bit like walkin into Tesco for just a pint of milk, you start resenting the long walk by,, the electrical goods section, the homeware, the cafe, the clothing,the toys, to eventually get what you want, hope folks see my comparable and dont just think im crap at shopping,,lol  |
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