We’d just had what I thought had been three magical weeks in Florida. Almost the second we landed she ended it and it took me by such surprise it completely crushed me. Turns out she had been seeing a work colleague of mine for 5 months and thought she’d get one last paid for holiday out of me.  |
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When my first husband walked out on me and our 3 kids, early January and went to live with someone he met at his works Christmas party and had been on 2 dates with. I hadn't gone because I had bad flu. X |
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He became needy and clingy, as I pushed away it became worse. I began to feel suffocated by his attention. Broke up with him, then he’d wait at my local pub for me, turn up randomly at my friends houses just in case I was it and would wait outside my work.
When he finally caught up with me told me he’d end his life if he didn’t have me. I told him he needed help. Luckily he got the help and I’ve not spoken or seen him since. I hope his new partner is what he needs. |
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When i was back at Uni.
Had spent a lovely evening with my ex with a passionate shag to close it off.
Woke up the next morning and the first rhing she says to me; completely out of the blue; that she was still in love with her ex and couldn't stay with me |
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After being together for 18 months, dealing with semi long distance (1.5hrs away from each each other), we both decided that I should move to where he was so we could be together properly (he had a better job and was generally happier where he was than I was where I was). So after giving up my job and my house and deciding to uproot for him, a week before I was meant to be move in with him he told me he didn’t want it anymore. Said he wanted to travel rather than settle down.
I was heartbroken, had to move back home with my parents and re-start my life all over again. Worst thing was is that he never travelled and I found out he was settled down with someone he met a few weeks after we split up. |
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I was working 2500 miles away from home, she was being off with communication and decided to end it with bullshit reasons.
The worst part, I planned to propose 2 weeks or so later.
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Oh my worst brake up.is ever so slightly amusing, he broke up with me I was good with that. 10 years later he still finds ways to contact me even though he is engaged with a family 
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"Oh my worst brake up.is ever so slightly amusing, he broke up with me I was good with that. 10 years later he still finds ways to contact me even though he is engaged with a family
Nothing like a taken man declaring his undying love for you! Gees peace muppet "
What a twat! You need to find yourself a nice southern man |
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"Oh my worst brake up.is ever so slightly amusing, he broke up with me I was good with that. 10 years later he still finds ways to contact me even though he is engaged with a family
Nothing like a taken man declaring his undying love for you! Gees peace muppet
What a twat! You need to find yourself a nice southern man"
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"He became needy and clingy, as I pushed away it became worse. I began to feel suffocated by his attention. Broke up with him, then he’d wait at my local pub for me, turn up randomly at my friends houses just in case I was it and would wait outside my work.
When he finally caught up with me told me he’d end his life if he didn’t have me. I told him he needed help. Luckily he got the help and I’ve not spoken or seen him since. I hope his new partner is what he needs. "
That's a bit heavy, especially the kill himself bit, emotional black mail is never good. |
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I am quite cold and matter of fact about break ups
People let others down
People change
People lie
It is what it is
Move on
Don't get stuck on the betrayal
It doesn't affect them and it only embitters you
I have been broken up with, I have broken up with others
None of them has been any better or worse than the other
Very few break ups are 'nice' |
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Not mine but my parents.
My Mum left my Dad with us when I small, she ran off with a Neighbour... Didn't even tell Dad face to face, just left him a note on the kitchen table. Poor man was heartbroken, and still had me and my two brothers to care for.
Sad thing is he would of had her back in a heart beat.
He died seven years later of a massive heart attack
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"I am quite cold and matter of fact about break ups
People let others down
People change
People lie
It is what it is
Move on
Don't get stuck on the betrayal
It doesn't affect them and it only embitters you
I have been broken up with, I have broken up with others
None of them has been any better or worse than the other
Very few break ups are 'nice'"
You always make such good points. I agree with all except for me that break ups aren't all the same.
Take back the 'power' and let go of any emotional hold they may have had...its freeing and necessary to move forward.
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"I am quite cold and matter of fact about break ups
People let others down
People change
People lie
It is what it is
Move on
Don't get stuck on the betrayal
It doesn't affect them and it only embitters you
I have been broken up with, I have broken up with others
None of them has been any better or worse than the other
Very few break ups are 'nice'
You always make such good points. I agree with all except for me that break ups aren't all the same.
Take back the 'power' and let go of any emotional hold they may have had...its freeing and necessary to move forward.
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I am aware that at times that my 'matter of factness' has a tinge of arrogance about it
I haven't quite worked out whether I self defend / self heal with logic or whether that's the way I am, a touch on the arrogant side
I do know though, that when I see people tearing themselves apart with emotion and turmoil and bitterness or never being able to let go of those things, it makes me sad |
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"I am quite cold and matter of fact about break ups
People let others down
People change
People lie
It is what it is
Move on
Don't get stuck on the betrayal
It doesn't affect them and it only embitters you
I have been broken up with, I have broken up with others
None of them has been any better or worse than the other
Very few break ups are 'nice'
You always make such good points. I agree with all except for me that break ups aren't all the same.
Take back the 'power' and let go of any emotional hold they may have had...its freeing and necessary to move forward.
I am aware that at times that my 'matter of factness' has a tinge of arrogance about it
I haven't quite worked out whether I self defend / self heal with logic or whether that's the way I am, a touch on the arrogant side
I do know though, that when I see people tearing themselves apart with emotion and turmoil and bitterness or never being able to let go of those things, it makes me sad"
It makes me sad too... and Bussy I have never found you arrogant x |
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"I am quite cold and matter of fact about break ups
People let others down
People change
People lie
It is what it is
Move on
Don't get stuck on the betrayal
It doesn't affect them and it only embitters you
I have been broken up with, I have broken up with others
None of them has been any better or worse than the other
Very few break ups are 'nice'
You always make such good points. I agree with all except for me that break ups aren't all the same.
Take back the 'power' and let go of any emotional hold they may have had...its freeing and necessary to move forward.
I am aware that at times that my 'matter of factness' has a tinge of arrogance about it
I haven't quite worked out whether I self defend / self heal with logic or whether that's the way I am, a touch on the arrogant side
I do know though, that when I see people tearing themselves apart with emotion and turmoil and bitterness or never being able to let go of those things, it makes me sad
It makes me sad too... and Bussy I have never found you arrogant x"
Thank You
That makes me 
I totally understand that people get angry about break ups
Get that anger out of your system and move on
To paraphrase Maya Angelou:
'Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. Anger is like fire, it burns it all clean' |
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Receiving a text en route to Barnsley, where we were going to announce our engagement to the family on Valentines Day. Text was to say that he was taking someone else who his brother would approve of. |
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"I am quite cold and matter of fact about break ups
People let others down
People change
People lie
It is what it is
Move on
Don't get stuck on the betrayal
It doesn't affect them and it only embitters you
I have been broken up with, I have broken up with others
None of them has been any better or worse than the other
Very few break ups are 'nice'
You always make such good points. I agree with all except for me that break ups aren't all the same.
Take back the 'power' and let go of any emotional hold they may have had...its freeing and necessary to move forward.
I am aware that at times that my 'matter of factness' has a tinge of arrogance about it
I haven't quite worked out whether I self defend / self heal with logic or whether that's the way I am, a touch on the arrogant side
I do know though, that when I see people tearing themselves apart with emotion and turmoil and bitterness or never being able to let go of those things, it makes me sad
It makes me sad too... and Bussy I have never found you arrogant x
Thank You
That makes me
I totally understand that people get angry about break ups
Get that anger out of your system and move on
To paraphrase Maya Angelou:
'Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. Anger is like fire, it burns it all clean'"
Amen x |
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The end of my marriage. It was a mutual decision, but we were such good friends that letting go was like having part of me ripped out. Plus there was the guilt of breaking up the children's home. It was the right decision in the long term though, and the kids now have two loving homes and an amazing step mum as well as a mum and a dad. |
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"I am quite cold and matter of fact about break ups
People let others down
People change
People lie
It is what it is
Move on
Don't get stuck on the betrayal
It doesn't affect them and it only embitters you
I have been broken up with, I have broken up with others
None of them has been any better or worse than the other
Very few break ups are 'nice'
You always make such good points. I agree with all except for me that break ups aren't all the same.
Take back the 'power' and let go of any emotional hold they may have had...its freeing and necessary to move forward.
I am aware that at times that my 'matter of factness' has a tinge of arrogance about it
I haven't quite worked out whether I self defend / self heal with logic or whether that's the way I am, a touch on the arrogant side
I do know though, that when I see people tearing themselves apart with emotion and turmoil and bitterness or never being able to let go of those things, it makes me sad
It makes me sad too... and Bussy I have never found you arrogant x
Thank You
That makes me
I totally understand that people get angry about break ups
Get that anger out of your system and move on
To paraphrase Maya Angelou:
'Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. Anger is like fire, it burns it all clean'"
Maya was a wise woman but some of the angriest people I know have that anger fuelled by bitterness in a never ending cycle |
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My ex husband to be, he announced he was seeing a young girl and wanted a relationship with her while still living at home. I somehow found the strength to ask him to leave as I wasn’t putting up with that but it was a nasty split. She has issues and has physically attacked me. Lots of things came out that he’s been up to and she’s not the first and won’t be the last. We have no contact with him and the divorce is going through x |
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My was my ex gf that cheated on me so I ended it.She stalked me damaged my car sent me threatening letters and when I met my bf she even scratched his car from front to back and tried to attack him as he was leaving my home.Things got that bad the police were involved and I got a court injunction x |
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Three to be honest. My son's mum firstly... I was working away, fell off a ladder and came home to her saying she'd had enough... Plus was fucking her next fella. Then weeks later I lost the house and dogs
Second, daughters mum! To this day I say msn messenger fucked that up. Messages can be taken totally the wrong way and this happened too much. Shame, as I still fancy her but she's married now.
Lastly the ex. Can't stand her and her bitchy meddling ways. I'm still stuck miles away from where I need to be because of her ( I moved to the Midlands from Essex ) Not spoken to her in a year, nor want to |
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