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Woman is holding my mid arm during conversation.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say either she's a tactile person who subconsciously feels direct contact strengthens bonds, or she wants your meat. I'm often wrong though OP lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say either she's a tactile person who subconsciously feels direct contact strengthens bonds, or she wants your meat. I'm often wrong though OP lol "
That is right it can mean different thing |
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Years ago a new barmaid started in my local pub. She held my hand when giving me my change and my mind went into overdrive.
I found out later that she was waiting for new contacts and didn't like wearing specs. The hand holding was to stop her dropping change all over the floor  |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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I’m a very tactical person and I do have a tendency to grab some part of the person I’m talking to. No you perves not their sexy bits their hands arms shoulders. It just something I do and I’m sure other people do the same. This woman OP may just be checking you out to see how wide your arm is just go with the flow. If she wants to fuck you, next time she will grab your cock and you’ll know for sure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon she’s holding your arm to stop you from walking away from her.
I often get women stand close to me that their boobs brush my arm. I always think its them but I’ve been told I could be the one moving close sub-consciously.
Therefore take what you want from it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do it all the time to virtually everyone!! I'm part Italian and extremely tactile so hello kisses are the normal natural greeting for me and when I talk to anyone I tend to touch their mid forearm! It's normal and natural for some people that's all I'd read it as or you might put your foot in it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."
Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home |
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."
Probably feeling a bit dizzy sounds like she's using you as a walking frame to steady herself  |
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I used to go to an evening class in which an older lady used to rub the arm of the youngish male tutor and stand really close to him. Turned out she was very recently widowed and just wanted human contact.
I don't know why your lady is holding your mid arm. She might be trying to send out sexual signals or she might not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My neighbour does this. She moves in really close and holds my arm when talking. Turns out her husband of over 20 years in quite deaf and its just a habit she has developed from the years of trying to help him hear her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"She does sound tactile, I always use my hands in conversations but I am clear in my intentions with it, I don't want to send misleading signals."
Yes she might be tactile as well.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I reckon she’s holding your arm to stop you from walking away from her.
I often get women stand close to me that their boobs brush my arm. I always think its them but I’ve been told I could be the one moving close sub-consciously.
Therefore take what you want from it "
Yes it feels that as well that she dont want me to walk away from her, which is nice too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.
Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home "
In the group there are many nationalities and yes she is spanish as well and you are right there, they do like to get close. I dont mind it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is she holding the arm of other people and standing close to them too? That may just be her way with everyone."
No I havnt seen her hold the arm with the others. I have just noticed that she does it with me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.
Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home In the group there are many nationalities and yes she is spanish as well and you are right there, they do like to get close. I dont mind it."
You've just answered your own question, she's Spanish and that means for her it's just the most natural way of talking to people! I seriously wouldn't read anything into it in the slightest or it'll come across as completely you're interpreting it all wrong and she'll get embarrassed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.
Is she mainland European, we tend to get closer in for conversation and touch and hold a lot lol, I’m not sure why, I think personal space is much more up for grabs back home In the group there are many nationalities and yes she is spanish as well and you are right there, they do like to get close. I dont mind it.
You've just answered your own question, she's Spanish and that means for her it's just the most natural way of talking to people! I seriously wouldn't read anything into it in the slightest or it'll come across as completely you're interpreting it all wrong and she'll get embarrassed "
That is right as it is their culture to do it. I like the moments we have |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ask to paint her naked and see what she says.
She will probably say
" wear what you like "
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Yes that would be fun to do but probably best not to do that. |
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."
Do you want it to go further ?
Ask her if she'd like to go for a drink after class or you'll always think what if. |
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"Maybe she thinks you have a disability and is making sure you dont fall over! "
I had an older lady grab my arm at a cash point asking me if i could check her balance as she had bad eyesight
So I pushed her over
The police eventually saw that it was a genuine misunderstanding  |
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"Ask to paint her naked and see what she says.
She will probably say
" wear what you like "
jYes that would be fun to do but probably best not to do that."
No keep your socks on, You need somewhere to put your spair brushes  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice.
Do you want it to go further ?
Ask her if she'd like to go for a drink after class or you'll always think what if."
Yes I might want to take it further not sure yet but yeah a drink with her one day would be nice too and a chat. |
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."
If it's longer than 4 "Mississippi's", your definitely in there. |
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"In the art class I do there is an older woman that I talk with and she often holds my mid arm and standing close, do anyone else have an experience of this and what does it mean in body language? We also cheek kiss which is nice."
It’s a diversion technique-she’s had ya wallet, mate! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We need an update
Have you had another art class yet ? "
Yes I had I go few times a week and we still give each other a cheek when we start and finish the class |
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