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By *rincessvenus OP   Couple  over a year ago

Hull

wil he wont he have a job on friday

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By *uddy laneMan  over a year ago

dudley


"wil he wont he have a job on friday "

He will still be an mp will he not.

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By *irldnCouple  over a year ago

Brighton

He’ll get a ticking off but nothing substantive will happen to him.

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By *ercuryMan  over a year ago

Grantham

And out he goes!

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"And out he goes! "

It will be very interesting to see the report after he said the bar was set very low....

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

You mean he was a bully.. well colour me shocked!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday "

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie "

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

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By *mateur100Man  over a year ago

nr faversham

He's been found guilty, he said he would resign if found guilty and he has resigned. Personally, I believe that under such circumstances there should be a by-election but then I hold that belief for MPs who cross the floor.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie "

He didn't need to ask him. Raab said he would resign if the report concludes he had bullied.

That he has done.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?"

Anything to have a jibe, that's all

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple  over a year ago

Watford

I can't stand Raab, but the bullying allegations are probably, mostly, thin-skinned people who can't handle some robust criticism or challenge.

The term "Bullying" should be reserved for primary school. Grown adults claiming that they have been bullied really do need to grow up.

We need a reset. People from universities are wrapped in cotton wool and have 'safe spaces' and have to have 'trigger warnings' that a book may contain some non PC content. If you're wrapped in cotton wool and treated like a toddler your whole educational life, then a criticism or an overheard swear word might be 'scary' and lead to allegations of 'bullying'.

These are the people who now find themselves in the civil service and politics. People wholly unprepared for the robustness of high-pressure work environments.

In this modern world where words can mean whatever you want, then you can say you are being 'bullied' just because your manager said that your work was not up to scratch.

There's no proper definition of bullying in the workplace, so anybody who feels aggrieved can say they are being bullied.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Anything to have a jibe, that's all "

Raab is definitely a bully, IMHO he is a cunt and Sunak is weak , feel free to disagree

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By *mateur100Man  over a year ago

nr faversham


"I can't stand Raab, but the bullying allegations are probably, mostly, thin-skinned people who can't handle some robust criticism or challenge.

The term "Bullying" should be reserved for primary school. Grown adults claiming that they have been bullied really do need to grow up.

We need a reset. People from universities are wrapped in cotton wool and have 'safe spaces' and have to have 'trigger warnings' that a book may contain some non PC content. If you're wrapped in cotton wool and treated like a toddler your whole educational life, then a criticism or an overheard swear word might be 'scary' and lead to allegations of 'bullying'.

These are the people who now find themselves in the civil service and politics. People wholly unprepared for the robustness of high-pressure work environments.

In this modern world where words can mean whatever you want, then you can say you are being 'bullied' just because your manager said that your work was not up to scratch.

There's no proper definition of bullying in the workplace, so anybody who feels aggrieved can say they are being bullied.

"

Couldn't have put it better

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?"

He didn’t sack a bully yesterday

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"I can't stand Raab, but the bullying allegations are probably, mostly, thin-skinned people who can't handle some robust criticism or challenge.

The term "Bullying" should be reserved for primary school. Grown adults claiming that they have been bullied really do need to grow up.

We need a reset. People from universities are wrapped in cotton wool and have 'safe spaces' and have to have 'trigger warnings' that a book may contain some non PC content. If you're wrapped in cotton wool and treated like a toddler your whole educational life, then a criticism or an overheard swear word might be 'scary' and lead to allegations of 'bullying'.

These are the people who now find themselves in the civil service and politics. People wholly unprepared for the robustness of high-pressure work environments.

In this modern world where words can mean whatever you want, then you can say you are being 'bullied' just because your manager said that your work was not up to scratch.

There's no proper definition of bullying in the workplace, so anybody who feels aggrieved can say they are being bullied.

"

I can't support this view, bullying can destroy a persons confidence and impact their family and friends forever.

I have seen a confident self starter friend who was constantly challenged on everything he did by a manager. He then started to question everything he was doing, he never knew if he was doing the right thing and it spilled into his family life. It broke him after just 12 months, he left his job, lost his wife and home.

Bullying comes in many flavours.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can't stand Raab, but the bullying allegations are probably, mostly, thin-skinned people who can't handle some robust criticism or challenge.

The term "Bullying" should be reserved for primary school. Grown adults claiming that they have been bullied really do need to grow up.

We need a reset. People from universities are wrapped in cotton wool and have 'safe spaces' and have to have 'trigger warnings' that a book may contain some non PC content. If you're wrapped in cotton wool and treated like a toddler your whole educational life, then a criticism or an overheard swear word might be 'scary' and lead to allegations of 'bullying'.

These are the people who now find themselves in the civil service and politics. People wholly unprepared for the robustness of high-pressure work environments.

In this modern world where words can mean whatever you want, then you can say you are being 'bullied' just because your manager said that your work was not up to scratch.

There's no proper definition of bullying in the workplace, so anybody who feels aggrieved can say they are being bullied.

"

There were numerous cases of bullying against him, there was an investigation that found him guilty of bullying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can't stand Raab, but the bullying allegations are probably, mostly, thin-skinned people who can't handle some robust criticism or challenge.

The term "Bullying" should be reserved for primary school. Grown adults claiming that they have been bullied really do need to grow up.

We need a reset. People from universities are wrapped in cotton wool and have 'safe spaces' and have to have 'trigger warnings' that a book may contain some non PC content. If you're wrapped in cotton wool and treated like a toddler your whole educational life, then a criticism or an overheard swear word might be 'scary' and lead to allegations of 'bullying'.

These are the people who now find themselves in the civil service and politics. People wholly unprepared for the robustness of high-pressure work environments.

In this modern world where words can mean whatever you want, then you can say you are being 'bullied' just because your manager said that your work was not up to scratch.

There's no proper definition of bullying in the workplace, so anybody who feels aggrieved can say they are being bullied.

I can't support this view, bullying can destroy a persons confidence and impact their family and friends forever.

I have seen a confident self starter friend who was constantly challenged on everything he did by a manager. He then started to question everything he was doing, he never knew if he was doing the right thing and it spilled into his family life. It broke him after just 12 months, he left his job, lost his wife and home.

Bullying comes in many flavours."

Exactly, well said,

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

He didn’t sack a bully yesterday

"

Considered or knee jerk, I know which one I would pick.

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple  over a year ago

Watford


" there should be a by-election but then I hold that belief for MPs who cross the floor. "

Absolutely this if an MP crosses the floor.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?"

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report "

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Anything to have a jibe, that's all

Raab is definitely a bully, IMHO he is a cunt and Sunak is weak , feel free to disagree "

That doesn't answer the question. I know you've answered further down but do you really want knee jerk reactions in politics? Or would you prefer to see considered reactions?

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

He will be back in a few months.

Would like to know the specifics and see how much of a “bully” he is meant to be.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"He will be back in a few months.

Would like to know the specifics and see how much of a “bully” he is meant to be.

"

Well he has taken a list of everything he didn’t do… he is claiming it is not bullying, but people being able to keep up to his exacting standards….

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple  over a year ago

Watford

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked."

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple  over a year ago

Watford


" There were numerous cases of bullying against him, there was an investigation that found him guilty of bullying "

I'm not saying he was not 'guilty' but if we go by what you just said; since only 2 of the claims were upheld, he was therefore found 'not guilty' of 75% of the 8 official complaints made against him.

This, I feel, rather supports my point that most of these accusations were either vexatious, or made by people unable to withstand a high pressure environment.

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

"

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

"

How dare he take 24hrs to read a report. Its not like the man has anything else to do

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


" There were numerous cases of bullying against him, there was an investigation that found him guilty of bullying

I'm not saying he was not 'guilty' but if we go by what you just said; since only 2 of the claims were upheld, he was therefore found 'not guilty' of 75% of the 8 official complaints made against him.

This, I feel, rather supports my point that most of these accusations were either vexatious, or made by people unable to withstand a high pressure environment.

"

Vexatious actions over a period could create an environment of intimidation.

High pressure environments require support and team work to get the best out of people and reduce the knee jerking that causes most high pressure environments. The old days of barking until you get your own way are long gone.

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

How dare he take 24hrs to read a report. Its not like the man has anything else to do "

Maybe those that are calling Sunak weak, or took to long to make a decision are little Raab's and don't know it

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

How dare he take 24hrs to read a report. Its not like the man has anything else to do

Maybe those that are calling Sunak weak, or took to long to make a decision are little Raab's and don't know it "

I just think some people will moan about anything tbh.

Sunak said he'd wait for the report, that was weak of him.

Sunak received the report, Raab is gone within 24hrs (regardless of how), that's weak of him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line."

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie "

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

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By *orleymanMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie "

Can you share the report you've seen?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Can you share the report you've seen?"

No,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter? "

He resigned

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By *rDiscretionXXXMan  over a year ago

Gilfach


"... the evidence against Raab was overwhelming ... "

The BBC are currently saying that 6 of the 8 complaints were not upheld, and the other 2 were only partially upheld. That doesn't sound like overwhelming evidence to me.

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"... the evidence against Raab was overwhelming ...

The BBC are currently saying that 6 of the 8 complaints were not upheld, and the other 2 were only partially upheld. That doesn't sound like overwhelming evidence to me."

has that been reported outside of the resignation letter ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter? "

Because Raab resigned, he is a bully and IMHO a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... the evidence against Raab was overwhelming ...

The BBC are currently saying that 6 of the 8 complaints were not upheld, and the other 2 were only partially upheld. That doesn't sound like overwhelming evidence to me."

Bullying one person is bad, 2 is just as bad, he is a bully

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

Because Raab resigned, he is a bully and IMHO a cunt "

I'm really not sure what your point is. Rabb resigned as he said he would if the report indicated he was in any way found to be a bully.

You are blaming Sunak for being weak by not sacking him before he could resign, it isn't a race.

The report is not in the public domain as far as I'm aware, you could take a leaf out of Sunak's book, maybe

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By *orleymanMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"... the evidence against Raab was overwhelming ...

The BBC are currently saying that 6 of the 8 complaints were not upheld, and the other 2 were only partially upheld. That doesn't sound like overwhelming evidence to me.has that been reported outside of the resignation letter ?"

The tolley report is out

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By *orleymanMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter? "

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released."

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign "

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him."

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell "

He resigned because the report found him to have bullied. That's what he said he'd do.

When you put 'and' in the same sentence it looks like you're saying he resigned because of your opinion.

Have you read the report?

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By *orleymanMan  over a year ago

Leeds


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell

He resigned because the report found him to have bullied. That's what he said he'd do.

When you put 'and' in the same sentence it looks like you're saying he resigned because of your opinion.

Have you read the report?"

I'm not even really sure the report found that

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell

He resigned because the report found him to have bullied. That's what he said he'd do.

When you put 'and' in the same sentence it looks like you're saying he resigned because of your opinion.

Have you read the report?

I'm not even really sure the report found that"

Tbf, I haven't read it myself but it's been said that 2 complaints were upheld and he said he'd resign if found to have bullied so I put 2+2 together

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon

Anyone who has digested it more than me worked out where the 2 came from?

DxEU was a cleared.

FCDO was found.

MoJ (a group plus 5 others) was treated as a wider group it seems. Yet then said that it couldnt be used as it was a group complaint. But 5 weren't. Was the second found buried in here.

I didn't find it a easy report to skim thru.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell

He resigned because the report found him to have bullied. That's what he said he'd do.

When you put 'and' in the same sentence it looks like you're saying he resigned because of your opinion.

Have you read the report?"

No, have you? He resigned because he is a bully, IMHO he is a cunt aswell,

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell

He resigned because the report found him to have bullied. That's what he said he'd do.

When you put 'and' in the same sentence it looks like you're saying he resigned because of your opinion.

Have you read the report?

No, have you? He resigned because he is a bully, IMHO he is a cunt aswell, "

I've already said I haven't.

How do you know he resigned because he is a bully?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell

He resigned because the report found him to have bullied. That's what he said he'd do.

When you put 'and' in the same sentence it looks like you're saying he resigned because of your opinion.

Have you read the report?

I'm not even really sure the report found that"

He has previously stated that he would resign if the report found ‘any’ instances of bullying, so, why did he resign?

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"Anyone who has digested it more than me worked out where the 2 came from?

DxEU was a cleared.

FCDO was found.

MoJ (a group plus 5 others) was treated as a wider group it seems. Yet then said that it couldnt be used as it was a group complaint. But 5 weren't. Was the second found buried in here.

I didn't find it a easy report to skim thru. "

Page 27 onwards: The character and ways of working with considerations towards his expectations being reasonable, I think sheds the most light on Raab.

The report does not go into specifics as far as I can tell to protect confidentiality.

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"wil he wont he have a job on friday

Raab is a bully and a cunt, unfortunately, he is still an MP.

Sunak stated that he didn’t ask him to resign, this makes him look weak, Mr Softie

Why does it make Sunak look weak?

Well sunak didn’t sack him, raab fell on his own sword… he probably had word of what was in the report

If that is the case then it is no reflection on Sunak, surely.

Sunak saying he did not ask for his resignation if correct is a simple matter of record and Raab jumoped before being sacked.

In which case how long did he need to read the report before making a decision… they received the report yesterday morning… raab also received a copy!

Sunak had the report at lunch time yesterday, the matter has come to a conclusion the following morning, that is a healthy time line.

Tbf to Sunak he sacked Zahawi immediately, the evidence against Raab was overwhelming, why wait? If he comes out and condemns Raabs behaviour then that shows strong leadership , if he doesn’t, weak, Mr Softie

Where are you getting the evidence against him was overwhelming?

Do you know what time Sunak picked up the report, read it and spoke to advisors on the matter?

The tolley report was releases an hour ago. And doesn't really suggest much evidence.

No idea why Raab resigned unless asked to.

Bi idea how fabtastic read the report an hour before it was released.

Raab resigned because he is a bully and IMHO a cunt, Sunak has stated he didn’t ask him to resign

I don't think Raab resigned because of your opinion of him.

Of course not, he resigned because he is a bully, ‘IMHO’ he is a cunt aswell

He resigned because the report found him to have bullied. That's what he said he'd do.

When you put 'and' in the same sentence it looks like you're saying he resigned because of your opinion.

Have you read the report?

No, have you? He resigned because he is a bully, IMHO he is a cunt aswell,

I've already said I haven't.

How do you know he resigned because he is a bully?"

he undertook to resign if any findings of bullying were under made, and is keeping his word, as he feels duty bound to accept the outcome.

To paraphrase parts of his resignation letter.

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By *irldnCouple  over a year ago

Brighton

I see there is the usual “have you seen the report” and “what is bullying” posts. The key issues here are:

1. The allegations were considered serious enough to be investigated (do some people on here REALLY believe the Civil Service has nothing better to do then undertake investigations into Ministers!)

2. Raab obviously felt they were serious enough to not battle against and resigned. He doesn’t strike me as someone who would not put up a fight and go quietly.

3. Not like me to defend Sunak but I think his approach was right. Wait and see and give due consideration (and give his colleague time to do the honourable thing...something missing from politics since Johnson arrived in top jobs).

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"I see there is the usual “have you seen the report” and “what is bullying” posts. The key issues here are:

1. The allegations were considered serious enough to be investigated (do some people on here REALLY believe the Civil Service has nothing better to do then undertake investigations into Ministers!)

2. Raab obviously felt they were serious enough to not battle against and resigned. He doesn’t strike me as someone who would not put up a fight and go quietly.

3. Not like me to defend Sunak but I think his approach was right. Wait and see and give due consideration (and give his colleague time to do the honourable thing...something missing from politics since Johnson arrived in top jobs)."

Only to the one person who has a lot to say having no idea whatsoever

1. All allegations should be taken seriously.

2. Raab stuck to his word, that's actually quite refreshing.

3. I agree with you

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"Anyone who has digested it more than me worked out where the 2 came from?

DxEU was a cleared.

FCDO was found.

MoJ (a group plus 5 others) was treated as a wider group it seems. Yet then said that it couldnt be used as it was a group complaint. But 5 weren't. Was the second found buried in here.

I didn't find it a easy report to skim thru.

Page 27 onwards: The character and ways of working with considerations towards his expectations being reasonable, I think sheds the most light on Raab.

The report does not go into specifics as far as I can tell to protect confidentiality."

Page 42 provides the conclusion.

Skimming the report, it appears he wants swift accurate information, accountability and if he doesn't get it he is direct in feeding that back.

His directness made some people feel it was a personal attack on them. My opinion, it is clear in the report he puts the completion of a task as a priority, without consideration to the person completing the task.

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"Anyone who has digested it more than me worked out where the 2 came from?

DxEU was a cleared.

FCDO was found.

MoJ (a group plus 5 others) was treated as a wider group it seems. Yet then said that it couldnt be used as it was a group complaint. But 5 weren't. Was the second found buried in here.

I didn't find it a easy report to skim thru.

Page 27 onwards: The character and ways of working with considerations towards his expectations being reasonable, I think sheds the most light on Raab.

The report does not go into specifics as far as I can tell to protect confidentiality."

agreed. I'm struggling to support th statement that only two were found to be upheld and six dismiss. There didn't feel like a finding on MoJ either which way other than an overview view of behaviour that neither was said to be bullying or not bullying but left almosy to interpretation.

Indeed, I'm not even sure which two were found to be true.

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"Anyone who has digested it more than me worked out where the 2 came from?

DxEU was a cleared.

FCDO was found.

MoJ (a group plus 5 others) was treated as a wider group it seems. Yet then said that it couldnt be used as it was a group complaint. But 5 weren't. Was the second found buried in here.

I didn't find it a easy report to skim thru.

Page 27 onwards: The character and ways of working with considerations towards his expectations being reasonable, I think sheds the most light on Raab.

The report does not go into specifics as far as I can tell to protect confidentiality.agreed. I'm struggling to support th statement that only two were found to be upheld and six dismiss. There didn't feel like a finding on MoJ either which way other than an overview view of behaviour that neither was said to be bullying or not bullying but left almosy to interpretation.

Indeed, I'm not even sure which two were found to be true. "

176 2 (b)

176 3 (d)

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"Anyone who has digested it more than me worked out where the 2 came from?

DxEU was a cleared.

FCDO was found.

MoJ (a group plus 5 others) was treated as a wider group it seems. Yet then said that it couldnt be used as it was a group complaint. But 5 weren't. Was the second found buried in here.

I didn't find it a easy report to skim thru.

Page 27 onwards: The character and ways of working with considerations towards his expectations being reasonable, I think sheds the most light on Raab.

The report does not go into specifics as far as I can tell to protect confidentiality.agreed. I'm struggling to support th statement that only two were found to be upheld and six dismiss. There didn't feel like a finding on MoJ either which way other than an overview view of behaviour that neither was said to be bullying or not bullying but left almosy to interpretation.

Indeed, I'm not even sure which two were found to be true.

176 2 (b)

176 3 (d)"

Agreed. However do you agree 176 could cover some or all of the MOJ complaints (eg six of the the eight) given they are all batched into one.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London

As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548"

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?

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By *mateur100Man  over a year ago

nr faversham


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?"

Or those whose work wasn't up to scratch?

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?"

which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?

Or those whose work wasn't up to scratch? "

He resigned because he is a bully

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it. "

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out."

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?

Or those whose work wasn't up to scratch? "

He is a bully.

True or false?

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London

Don't worry. The Braverman defence means that he can come back whenever he wishes, as long as he says he's sorry.

That will show the woke, thin-skinned, civil service blob.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance."

Fancy answering the question?

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By *idnight RamblerMan  over a year ago

Pershore

You can't make an omelette without cracking eggs as they say. The job of government is difficult and it's not hard to see that lazy, obstructive civil servants might need a tough taskmaster.

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out."

as far as I can see it is only one that has been stated as unfounded.

I think I've been consistent there.

Even with the help of others I haven't been able to see either way how many or the DoJ 6 are founded or not.

Hence querying the claim he's amde of "only 2" and that already seems to be taken as read.

Having one out of 8 as unfounded gives a different view of the findings than 6 out of 8 as unfounded. Although arguably ones enough to be called a bully.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.as far as I can see it is only one that has been stated as unfounded.

I think I've been consistent there.

Even with the help of others I haven't been able to see either way how many or the DoJ 6 are founded or not.

Hence querying the claim he's amde of "only 2" and that already seems to be taken as read.

Having one out of 8 as unfounded gives a different view of the findings than 6 out of 8 as unfounded. Although arguably ones enough to be called a bully.

"

As I stated earlier, u haven't read the report, just going from your replies.

I was responding to Easy who says:

"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully."

The bully can be a bully and some people can be 'soft', it's not as black and white as he'd like to make it.

If 1,2 or 6 were unfounded then it can be argued that those people are indeed a bit soft.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?"

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing."

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"You can't make an omelette without cracking eggs as they say. The job of government is difficult and it's not hard to see that lazy, obstructive civil servants might need a tough taskmaster. "

Yep. Victims have to toughen up or leave.

There's no such thing as a bully, and if there was, they'd probably get the best results.

Unpleasant worldview, but not uncommon.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question."

Dance

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma

One part of the report that I found interesting that has not been mentioned, is those interviewed said his behaviour changed once the inquiry was announced, and if his behaviour had been as it is now there would be no reason to have complained about him.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance"

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.as far as I can see it is only one that has been stated as unfounded.

I think I've been consistent there.

Even with the help of others I haven't been able to see either way how many or the DoJ 6 are founded or not.

Hence querying the claim he's amde of "only 2" and that already seems to be taken as read.

Having one out of 8 as unfounded gives a different view of the findings than 6 out of 8 as unfounded. Although arguably ones enough to be called a bully.

As I stated earlier, u haven't read the report, just going from your replies.

I was responding to Easy who says:

"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully."

The bully can be a bully and some people can be 'soft', it's not as black and white as he'd like to make it.

If 1,2 or 6 were unfounded then it can be argued that those people are indeed a bit soft."

I have skimmed through the report. Hence my questions above about the MoJ grouping.

I disagree. If 7 cases of bullying are found, then I'd say that these people aren't soft. It would suggest the majority of people would only complain if bullying has happened.

And one of those cases wasnt just one opreson but a group complaint. So who knows how many incidents happened.

I do agree that you can say both raab is a bully and some people felt bullied when they werent. However one needs to be careful with context lest it implies thsoe who were bullied are labelled as soft and so raab is not a bully. Especially as that is what he is currently whistling towards.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.as far as I can see it is only one that has been stated as unfounded.

I think I've been consistent there.

Even with the help of others I haven't been able to see either way how many or the DoJ 6 are founded or not.

Hence querying the claim he's amde of "only 2" and that already seems to be taken as read.

Having one out of 8 as unfounded gives a different view of the findings than 6 out of 8 as unfounded. Although arguably ones enough to be called a bully.

As I stated earlier, u haven't read the report, just going from your replies.

I was responding to Easy who says:

"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully."

The bully can be a bully and some people can be 'soft', it's not as black and white as he'd like to make it.

If 1,2 or 6 were unfounded then it can be argued that those people are indeed a bit soft.I have skimmed through the report. Hence my questions above about the MoJ grouping.

I disagree. If 7 cases of bullying are found, then I'd say that these people aren't soft. It would suggest the majority of people would only complain if bullying has happened.

And one of those cases wasnt just one opreson but a group complaint. So who knows how many incidents happened.

I do agree that you can say both raab is a bully and some people felt bullied when they werent. However one needs to be careful with context lest it implies thsoe who were bullied are labelled as soft and so raab is not a bully. Especially as that is what he is currently whistling towards.

"

I think you may have misinterpreted what I was saying, or I wrote it completely wrote.

I would say any unfounded cases, it could be argued those people are soft.

In the cases where the victim was found to have been bullied then I wouldn't disagree.

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By *idnight RamblerMan  over a year ago

Pershore


"You can't make an omelette without cracking eggs as they say. The job of government is difficult and it's not hard to see that lazy, obstructive civil servants might need a tough taskmaster.

Yep. Victims have to toughen up or leave.

There's no such thing as a bully, and if there was, they'd probably get the best results.

Unpleasant worldview, but not uncommon."

Well if you can't stand the heat and all that. Civil servants at that level are highly paid to do a tough job and be robust. Was it bullying are arse-kicking to get a job done?

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.as far as I can see it is only one that has been stated as unfounded.

I think I've been consistent there.

Even with the help of others I haven't been able to see either way how many or the DoJ 6 are founded or not.

Hence querying the claim he's amde of "only 2" and that already seems to be taken as read.

Having one out of 8 as unfounded gives a different view of the findings than 6 out of 8 as unfounded. Although arguably ones enough to be called a bully.

As I stated earlier, u haven't read the report, just going from your replies.

I was responding to Easy who says:

"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully."

The bully can be a bully and some people can be 'soft', it's not as black and white as he'd like to make it.

If 1,2 or 6 were unfounded then it can be argued that those people are indeed a bit soft.I have skimmed through the report. Hence my questions above about the MoJ grouping.

I disagree. If 7 cases of bullying are found, then I'd say that these people aren't soft. It would suggest the majority of people would only complain if bullying has happened.

And one of those cases wasnt just one opreson but a group complaint. So who knows how many incidents happened.

I do agree that you can say both raab is a bully and some people felt bullied when they werent. However one needs to be careful with context lest it implies thsoe who were bullied are labelled as soft and so raab is not a bully. Especially as that is what he is currently whistling towards.

I think you may have misinterpreted what I was saying, or I wrote it completely wrote.

I would say any unfounded cases, it could be argued those people are soft.

In the cases where the victim was found to have been bullied then I wouldn't disagree."

I may have read a context based on other posters.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you "

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"You can't make an omelette without cracking eggs as they say. The job of government is difficult and it's not hard to see that lazy, obstructive civil servants might need a tough taskmaster.

Yep. Victims have to toughen up or leave.

There's no such thing as a bully, and if there was, they'd probably get the best results.

Unpleasant worldview, but not uncommon.

Well if you can't stand the heat and all that. Civil servants at that level are highly paid to do a tough job and be robust. Was it bullying are arse-kicking to get a job done?"

What does the report say?

Why did he resign?

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance."

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"One part of the report that I found interesting that has not been mentioned, is those interviewed said his behaviour changed once the inquiry was announced, and if his behaviour had been as it is now there would be no reason to have complained about him. "

The performance of the MoJ must have suffered considerably as a result of this change in behaviour.

It's a tough environment and as a consequence Not shouting and humiliating people must have allowed everyone to be slack and lazy because they are in no way motivated to do a good job themselves.

I believe that is the corollary of Dominic Raab's apologists.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

I better be careful. I’m always interrupting my staff in meetings.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate "

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"I better be careful. I’m always interrupting my staff in meetings. "

Who said that on its own was was bullying?

Is making light of actual bullying (investigated over several months) one of the reasons it continues?

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin."

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin "

Be careful words are violence

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin "

If they weren't bullied, then they weren't the victims of bullying, were they?

You and many others have, on several occasions, insisted that there essentially is no such thing as bullying in the workplace and if there is the victim should go.

"Bullying" is a meaningless term to you.

I assume that remains your position.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin

Be careful words are violence "

...and bullying is illusory?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I better be careful. I’m always interrupting my staff in meetings. "

My staff?? Do you own the company where you work?

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin

If they weren't bullied, then they weren't the victims of bullying, were they?

You and many others have, on several occasions, insisted that there essentially is no such thing as bullying in the workplace and if there is the victim should go.

"Bullying" is a meaningless term to you.

I assume that remains your position."

Oh I maintain that if I felt I was being bullied I would leave, easy, no two ways about it.

I have never ever said that workplace bullying isn't a thing. I have said that in general society is soft.

Do me a favour and do not accuse me of things that haven't happened.

Your very first statement on this subject today was completely one sided and at no point have you been willing to acknowledge that Raab has been found innocent of some of these accusations.

As I said, one side as always.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"I better be careful. I’m always interrupting my staff in meetings.

My staff?? Do you own the company where you work? "

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By *idnight RamblerMan  over a year ago

Pershore


"You can't make an omelette without cracking eggs as they say. The job of government is difficult and it's not hard to see that lazy, obstructive civil servants might need a tough taskmaster.

Yep. Victims have to toughen up or leave.

There's no such thing as a bully, and if there was, they'd probably get the best results.

Unpleasant worldview, but not uncommon.

Well if you can't stand the heat and all that. Civil servants at that level are highly paid to do a tough job and be robust. Was it bullying are arse-kicking to get a job done?

What does the report say?

Why did he resign?"

The report says Raab was aggressive and intimidating. I've had managers like that. They got things done.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin

If they weren't bullied, then they weren't the victims of bullying, were they?

You and many others have, on several occasions, insisted that there essentially is no such thing as bullying in the workplace and if there is the victim should go.

"Bullying" is a meaningless term to you.

I assume that remains your position.

Oh I maintain that if I felt I was being bullied I would leave, easy, no two ways about it.

I have never ever said that workplace bullying isn't a thing. I have said that in general society is soft.

Do me a favour and do not accuse me of things that haven't happened.

Your very first statement on this subject today was completely one sided and at no point have you been willing to acknowledge that Raab has been found innocent of some of these accusations.

As I said, one side as always."

So leaving a workplace with a bully is tough, but standing up to them and then having to go into work and face them every day until there is a resolution is soft?

You never said that bullying is unacceptable until now not did you qualify it was what you would do.

So no, I will do you no favours in the same way that I will do a bully no favours.

I don't care if he was found innocent of some accusations.

He is still a bully. Something that apparently you cannot bring yourself to acknowledge even now.

I can imagine just how a bully a bully and victim would be treated in an organisation with that attitude in senior management. What an organisational culture.

"Toxic" is the normal description.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You can't make an omelette without cracking eggs as they say. The job of government is difficult and it's not hard to see that lazy, obstructive civil servants might need a tough taskmaster.

Yep. Victims have to toughen up or leave.

There's no such thing as a bully, and if there was, they'd probably get the best results.

Unpleasant worldview, but not uncommon.

Well if you can't stand the heat and all that. Civil servants at that level are highly paid to do a tough job and be robust. Was it bullying are arse-kicking to get a job done?

What does the report say?

Why did he resign?

The report says Raab was aggressive and intimidating. I've had managers like that. They got things done. "

Were they government ministers? i will ask you again, why did he resign?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I better be careful. I’m always interrupting my staff in meetings.

My staff?? Do you own the company where you work?

"

You own the company? Fair play,

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"You can't make an omelette without cracking eggs as they say. The job of government is difficult and it's not hard to see that lazy, obstructive civil servants might need a tough taskmaster.

Yep. Victims have to toughen up or leave.

There's no such thing as a bully, and if there was, they'd probably get the best results.

Unpleasant worldview, but not uncommon.

Well if you can't stand the heat and all that. Civil servants at that level are highly paid to do a tough job and be robust. Was it bullying are arse-kicking to get a job done?

What does the report say?

Why did he resign?

The report says Raab was aggressive and intimidating. I've had managers like that. They got things done. "

Actually the report said that:

Raab acted in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'

Raab's conduct "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates".

Did you have managers like that who "got things done"?

https://news.sky.com/story/dominic-raab-resigns-the-key-findings-from-the-bullying-investigation-that-sealed-his-fate-12861896

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin

If they weren't bullied, then they weren't the victims of bullying, were they?

You and many others have, on several occasions, insisted that there essentially is no such thing as bullying in the workplace and if there is the victim should go.

"Bullying" is a meaningless term to you.

I assume that remains your position.

Oh I maintain that if I felt I was being bullied I would leave, easy, no two ways about it.

I have never ever said that workplace bullying isn't a thing. I have said that in general society is soft.

Do me a favour and do not accuse me of things that haven't happened.

Your very first statement on this subject today was completely one sided and at no point have you been willing to acknowledge that Raab has been found innocent of some of these accusations.

As I said, one side as always.

So leaving a workplace with a bully is tough, but standing up to them and then having to go into work and face them every day until there is a resolution is soft?

You never said that bullying is unacceptable until now not did you qualify it was what you would do.

So no, I will do you no favours in the same way that I will do a bully no favours.

I don't care if he was found innocent of some accusations.

He is still a bully. Something that apparently you cannot bring yourself to acknowledge even now.

I can imagine just how a bully a bully and victim would be treated in an organisation with that attitude in senior management. What an organisational culture.

"Toxic" is the normal description."

Nice of you to continue to try twisting my words.

I'll ask again, can you learn to read please.

I have continually in the past said if Raab was found to have bullied he should go.

I also said above he has been found to have bullied and I won't argue with that.

I'll throw this out there, you're a bully. It's plain to see.

You continually try to mansplain, gaslight and talk down to people.

That's bullying.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin

If they weren't bullied, then they weren't the victims of bullying, were they?

You and many others have, on several occasions, insisted that there essentially is no such thing as bullying in the workplace and if there is the victim should go.

"Bullying" is a meaningless term to you.

I assume that remains your position.

Oh I maintain that if I felt I was being bullied I would leave, easy, no two ways about it.

I have never ever said that workplace bullying isn't a thing. I have said that in general society is soft.

Do me a favour and do not accuse me of things that haven't happened.

Your very first statement on this subject today was completely one sided and at no point have you been willing to acknowledge that Raab has been found innocent of some of these accusations.

As I said, one side as always.

So leaving a workplace with a bully is tough, but standing up to them and then having to go into work and face them every day until there is a resolution is soft?

You never said that bullying is unacceptable until now not did you qualify it was what you would do.

So no, I will do you no favours in the same way that I will do a bully no favours.

I don't care if he was found innocent of some accusations.

He is still a bully. Something that apparently you cannot bring yourself to acknowledge even now.

I can imagine just how a bully a bully and victim would be treated in an organisation with that attitude in senior management. What an organisational culture.

"Toxic" is the normal description.

Nice of you to continue to try twisting my words.

I'll ask again, can you learn to read please.

I have continually in the past said if Raab was found to have bullied he should go.

I also said above he has been found to have bullied and I won't argue with that.

I'll throw this out there, you're a bully. It's plain to see.

You continually try to mansplain, gaslight and talk down to people.

That's bullying."

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By *idnight RamblerMan  over a year ago

Pershore

Yes, I did thank God. Sometimes feathers need ruffling and arses kicking. You'd know that if you had a dog in the race.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin

If they weren't bullied, then they weren't the victims of bullying, were they?

You and many others have, on several occasions, insisted that there essentially is no such thing as bullying in the workplace and if there is the victim should go.

"Bullying" is a meaningless term to you.

I assume that remains your position.

Oh I maintain that if I felt I was being bullied I would leave, easy, no two ways about it.

I have never ever said that workplace bullying isn't a thing. I have said that in general society is soft.

Do me a favour and do not accuse me of things that haven't happened.

Your very first statement on this subject today was completely one sided and at no point have you been willing to acknowledge that Raab has been found innocent of some of these accusations.

As I said, one side as always.

So leaving a workplace with a bully is tough, but standing up to them and then having to go into work and face them every day until there is a resolution is soft?

You never said that bullying is unacceptable until now not did you qualify it was what you would do.

So no, I will do you no favours in the same way that I will do a bully no favours.

I don't care if he was found innocent of some accusations.

He is still a bully. Something that apparently you cannot bring yourself to acknowledge even now.

I can imagine just how a bully a bully and victim would be treated in an organisation with that attitude in senior management. What an organisational culture.

"Toxic" is the normal description.

Nice of you to continue to try twisting my words.

I'll ask again, can you learn to read please.

I have continually in the past said if Raab was found to have bullied he should go.

I also said above he has been found to have bullied and I won't argue with that.

I'll throw this out there, you're a bully. It's plain to see.

You continually try to mansplain, gaslight and talk down to people.

That's bullying."

You said exactly what you meant more than once and on more than one thread.

I really have no tolerance for anyone who tries to deny or minimise the consequences of bullying.

Gaslighting is an interesting term to use considering what you've just written.

You must have just got as soft as "society" then.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, I did thank God. Sometimes feathers need ruffling and arses kicking. You'd know that if you had a dog in the race.

"

Eh?

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Yes, I did thank God. Sometimes feathers need ruffling and arses kicking. You'd know that if you had a dog in the race.

"

?

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By *mateur100Man  over a year ago

nr faversham

What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment "

That’s just the tip of the iceberg mate. He was throwing tomatoes into the bin in an aggressive manner as well.

Simply not on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment "

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment "

Just to be clear, the behaviour described below is "being a hard taskmaster"?

Raab acted in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'

Raab's conduct "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates".

https://news.sky.com/story/dominic-raab-resigns-the-key-findings-from-the-bullying-investigation-that-sealed-his-fate-12861896

Does bullying exist at all or is it imagined?

If it does, is it serious?

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

That’s just the tip of the iceberg mate. He was throwing tomatoes into the bin in an aggressive manner as well.

Simply not on "

Again, is bullying a serious matter or funny?

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma

[Removed by poster at 21/04/23 17:44:19]

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"As usual the victims of bullying are soft and should toughen up or leave

The bully cannot possibly be a bully.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

What about the ones that were unfounded?

Did he bully them too?which ones? As far as I can see only one was stated clearly as being unfounded. Despite how he has spun it.

Any that were unfounded.

As far as I can see by your replies, you're now trying to spin it by saying 'only one' whereas earlier you were saying you couldn't work it out.

Dance on the head of a pin as much as you like.

He is a bully. Good riddance.

Fancy answering the question?

I'm not spinning anything. That's your accusation and I am responding to your change of subject.

I made a straightforward post which you've been unable to address directly. Your spin.

Keep dancing.

I didn't accuse you of spin. Do learn to read.

I asked:

What about any that were unfounded, did he bully them too?

It's a really simple question.

Dance

Can't even answer a simple question

Not really that uncommon for you

Is Raab a bully or is he not?

Spin and dance.

Of course you answer a question with a question. Because you're incapable of conversing like an adult.

Single point of view as per. Good day mate

I posted what was stated in the report.

1 incidence of bullying and 7 of not bullying = Not a bully?

Bully? Not a bully?

Are there multiple points of view?

Dance an spin.

Bullied some people. Didn't bully others, those people he didn't bully are still victims though according to your first statement.

Dance and spin "

The inquiry basically parked some complaints due to group discussions having taken place about Raab and his behaviour. The only elements of bullying that made the cut were the the actions or words of Raab that would effect an individual.

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By *otMe66Man  over a year ago

Terra Firma


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment "

Banging a desk in a show of emotion, can be written: He lost control and in anger hit a desk.

That is not a good look for anyone over the age of 5. Controlling emotion and being in clear in the objective would certainly speed things up, remove ambiguity within the task and provide a quality outcome, which were the things he was getting emotional about.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts "

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers. "

Please just think of the tomatoes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

Banging a desk in a show of emotion, can be written: He lost control and in anger hit a desk.

That is not a good look for anyone over the age of 5. Controlling emotion and being in clear in the objective would certainly speed things up, remove ambiguity within the task and provide a quality outcome, which were the things he was getting emotional about. "

Do you want human leadership or robotic leadership? I'm not saying that it's a good thing to have leaders who can't have a grip on their emotions and be clear-headed in their dealings and interactions, but humans have emotions and humans will always potentially lose control when it comes to things they care the most about/invested in the most mentally and personally.

The alternative is to have technocrat leaders who are cold and dispassionate and will never offend anybody, precisely because they don't even see the societies they rule and administrate as being consisted of human beings. To them everything and everyone will be just numbers, up for rationalisation and cuts, and success/failure measured in KPI statistics that mean nothing to greater human society at large.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

Please just think of the tomatoes "

Good thing I don't like tomatoes!

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

Please just think of the tomatoes

Good thing I don't like tomatoes! "

That’s what got Raab into trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

Please just think of the tomatoes

Good thing I don't like tomatoes!

That’s what got Raab into trouble. "

Then the country and Raab are better off without each other. Raab's not a faultless individual nor a paragon of virtue and enlightened leadership, but at this point British society and the Civil Service are nigh ungovernable and nobody in their right minds will want to stick their head up for public office.

Joke's on those who brought Raab down. Dude's set for life, he needn't work a single day for the rest of his life if he chooses not to. They brought down somebody who has nothing material to lose. And they just opened the gates for future maneouvres against their figureheads in political power with this precedent.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers. "

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?"

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets. "

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets. "

You come to the wrong place for objectivity my guy.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved. "

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me".

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

You come to the wrong place for objectivity my guy. "

I understand. Bullying is funny to you.

Even if just to try to bait me it's an interesting way to portray yourself.

Does doubling down make it a "joke"?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?"

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me"."

You call it victim blaming. I call it giving equal human agency and responsibility to all parties without letting someone off the hook with victimisation narratives.

My view is my prerogative. If you disagree, that's up to you. If you want to accuse me of not being able to see from your perspective, try looking in a mirror because you've got no interest in considering mine either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

By the way, humanity IS dysfunctional. Go read some Hobbes. He hit the nail on the head when he said that life is nasty, brutish, and short.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me".

You call it victim blaming. I call it giving equal human agency and responsibility to all parties without letting someone off the hook with victimisation narratives.

My view is my prerogative. If you disagree, that's up to you. If you want to accuse me of not being able to see from your perspective, try looking in a mirror because you've got no interest in considering mine either. "

Welcome to the character insinuation club mate pull up a chair.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business. "

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?"

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me".

You call it victim blaming. I call it giving equal human agency and responsibility to all parties without letting someone off the hook with victimisation narratives.

My view is my prerogative. If you disagree, that's up to you. If you want to accuse me of not being able to see from your perspective, try looking in a mirror because you've got no interest in considering mine either. "

You're happy to let Billy's off the hook with a "that's life narrative" though.

I'm very much considering your perspective and describing it far more succinctly, it seems.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me".

You call it victim blaming. I call it giving equal human agency and responsibility to all parties without letting someone off the hook with victimisation narratives.

My view is my prerogative. If you disagree, that's up to you. If you want to accuse me of not being able to see from your perspective, try looking in a mirror because you've got no interest in considering mine either.

Welcome to the character insinuation club mate pull up a chair. "

You're enjoying yourself today mate

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

"

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me".

You call it victim blaming. I call it giving equal human agency and responsibility to all parties without letting someone off the hook with victimisation narratives.

My view is my prerogative. If you disagree, that's up to you. If you want to accuse me of not being able to see from your perspective, try looking in a mirror because you've got no interest in considering mine either.

Welcome to the character insinuation club mate pull up a chair.

You're enjoying yourself today mate "

Life is good.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing "

Time to take your own advice or that of the "soft" civil servants.

Brave Sir Robin runs away or he reports me to the mods for being a bully.

Have a think and make your decision

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me".

You call it victim blaming. I call it giving equal human agency and responsibility to all parties without letting someone off the hook with victimisation narratives.

My view is my prerogative. If you disagree, that's up to you. If you want to accuse me of not being able to see from your perspective, try looking in a mirror because you've got no interest in considering mine either.

You're happy to let Billy's off the hook with a "that's life narrative" though.

I'm very much considering your perspective and describing it far more succinctly, it seems."

No, what you're doing is maliciously simplifying what I'm saying to try and score a "gotcha" against me and my argument through generalisation and word-twisting.

Most people in here would just roll over and let someone like you steamroll them with your arrogance and partisan political moral high horse. I'm not most people. You're not even a real swinger. You just come off as someone who decided to make a Fab account and be only active on the Politics sub forum because you got banned from commenting on The Guardian where people like you rightly belong.

And if I eat a ban for calling you out on this, so be it.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing

Time to take your own advice or that of the "soft" civil servants.

Brave Sir Robin runs away or he reports me to the mods for being a bully.

Have a think and make your decision "

I'm not 'soft' enough to report you

I like you being here, it provides some light entertainment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing "

I know that's his thing. It's not my first clash with him. I don't say anything much in this sub forum since my last clash with him, doesn't mean I don't lurk and read. And today's the day when I have had it with him. Why do such users even get permitted to exist on Fab?

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing

I know that's his thing. It's not my first clash with him. I don't say anything much in this sub forum since my last clash with him, doesn't mean I don't lurk and read. And today's the day when I have had it with him. Why do such users even get permitted to exist on Fab? "

I'm just off to grab the popcorn. Need any?

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers.

A seemingly never ending queue of non-apologists.

https://news.sky.com/video/adam-tolleys-investigation-found-that-dominic-raab-acted-in-an-intimidating-fashion-with-unreasonably-and-persistently-aggressive-conduct-in-a-work-place-meeting-12862548

Has your "professional" work required acting in an 'intimidating' fashion - with 'persistently aggressive conduct'?

Has it "involved an abuse or misuse of power in a way that undermines or humiliates"?

One of my past work experience/environment has. It was also in a key industry.

And you can moralise all you want about how that's not on, that's not right, but when it comes to toxic power dynamics and leadership behaviour, it takes two hands to clap. Leaders are not predisposed to be assholes to others, it takes way more effort to be one than to be nice and get along with others you're working with harmoniously. But there will always be workers, subordinates, and factions within a work environment that thrive on being obstructive, manipulative, and exploitative of goodwill "soft touch" management on them. Give an inch, they take a mile.

Machiavelli is right. It is far better to be feared than to be loved.

Then it was a dysfunctional workplace. A failure, not a success.

That's a beautifully crafted piece of victim blaming.

The description of an abusive relationship.

"I wouldn't treat you like this if you didn't make me".

You call it victim blaming. I call it giving equal human agency and responsibility to all parties without letting someone off the hook with victimisation narratives.

My view is my prerogative. If you disagree, that's up to you. If you want to accuse me of not being able to see from your perspective, try looking in a mirror because you've got no interest in considering mine either.

You're happy to let Billy's off the hook with a "that's life narrative" though.

I'm very much considering your perspective and describing it far more succinctly, it seems.

No, what you're doing is maliciously simplifying what I'm saying to try and score a "gotcha" against me and my argument through generalisation and word-twisting.

Most people in here would just roll over and let someone like you steamroll them with your arrogance and partisan political moral high horse. I'm not most people. You're not even a real swinger. You just come off as someone who decided to make a Fab account and be only active on the Politics sub forum because you got banned from commenting on The Guardian where people like you rightly belong.

And if I eat a ban for calling you out on this, so be it. "

"Someone like me"?

Really? Describe "someone like me" relative to "someone like you".

Already getting a bit complicated now that you've been talking about mirrors...

You are welcome to think what you like about why I am on Fab.

You certainly seem like a catch though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing

I know that's his thing. It's not my first clash with him. I don't say anything much in this sub forum since my last clash with him, doesn't mean I don't lurk and read. And today's the day when I have had it with him. Why do such users even get permitted to exist on Fab?

I'm just off to grab the popcorn. Need any? "

Yes please, salt and butter please thank you.

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By *AFKA HovisMan  over a year ago

Sindon Swingdon Swindon


"What's being described as bullying is no more than being a hard taskmaster. If you can't stand someone banging a desk in a show of emotion, I suggest you find alternative employment

PMSL, he is a bully, he resigned because he is a bully , these are facts

How can someone be called a "bully" if the very report about him being a bully found not a single instance in the four and a half years in question whereby he lost his temper or swore and shouted directly at somebody in the Civil Service? Without explicit examples of explicit targeting, accusations of bullying gets reduced to "he said she said" between ministers and a Civil Service which runs itself like an internal state and often finds itself in conflict with its political masters because the art of separating personal politics from professional work seems to have been utterly lost by the current Civil Service.

My sympathy is very much with Raab. The way he's been effectively forced to jump before being pushed by "No Fingerprints" Sunak is disgraceful, and Raab is right to warn that this kind of selective sniping of key government ministers with accusations that more often than not date back years in the past, sometimes even before they took their current positions of high office, is going to be weaponised by people with political ends and opposition towards any sitting government.

Statutes of limitations exist for a reason. Same as that question uttered during every wedding, "Does anybody object to this union? Speak now or forever hold your peace". If you don't dare speak up for yourself at the immediate time where you're being mistreated, don't expect people to white knight for you when you finally talk about it in the distant future when it's convenient for you to do so against your target of complaint who's not at his peak of power. You'll just look duplicitous and a useful idiot pawn for bigger powers. "

do you disagree that the report found him to have bullied? Or is it that you have a different definition they failed to meet ?

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing

I know that's his thing. It's not my first clash with him. I don't say anything much in this sub forum since my last clash with him, doesn't mean I don't lurk and read. And today's the day when I have had it with him. Why do such users even get permitted to exist on Fab?

I'm just off to grab the popcorn. Need any?

Yes please, salt and butter please thank you. "

You cretin. Sweet for the win

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

"Someone like me"?

Really? Describe "someone like me" relative to "someone like you".

Already getting a bit complicated now that you've been talking about mirrors...

You are welcome to think what you like about why I am on Fab.

You certainly seem like a catch though."

Well thanks, at least I have physical evidence to back that up on my profile verification list compared to yours.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

I wish they still did buttery popcorn at cinemas.

A bit of a tangent to the thread but an important point I feel strongly about

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"P.S. by the way, surprising that Raab's hauled up by the Civil Service and lefty Grauniad shit-stirring reportage for "bullying behaviour", but nothing was ever said against Gordon Brown for throwing and breaking stuff in his office when he was in power.

One rule for the Tories, one rule for Labour? When it's your guy you support, he gets a free pass. When it's someone else you despise, out comes the moral high horses! Since Raab's case has proven that no statute of limitations exists for accusations of impropriety or bullying behaviour against any individual in society or in positions of power, then let's see the same scrutiny applied on Gordon Brown now.

I bet you, the only sound coming from the liberals in the Civil Service and Fleet Street will be that of crickets.

If Gordon Brown was a bully then he should have been investigated. Perhaps people were moved on or paid off or too intimidated to report him. Would that have been a good thing?

Was anyone in the Thatcher, Major or Cameron governments accused of bullying?

Why do only "liberals" join the civil service? Not lucrative enough for "non-liberals"? Not a tough enough environment?

Well, as I said in my earlier comment, since statute of limitations does not exist in black and white codifying, you get this kind of partisan bias whereby it's fine to take certain people and behaviour to task now, for things that are far milder than what others have done in the past but were more permissible/swept under the carpet because they were of the right political leaning.

As to why only "liberals" join the civil service? Firstly, because it's usually "liberals" who are judged to be worthy and smart enough to join the civil service. Secondly, because it's usually "liberals" who have idealistic ideas about wanting to contribute and change society. Which as Mencken said, is almost always just a smokescreen excuse for the desire to rule.

"Non liberals" have no time nor inclination for that. For the most part they just want to make good money, have a stable life, and mind their own business.

I get the point though, from your perspective bullying, abuse and intimidation in the workplace are fine.

You don't think that position needs any justification.

Just write that rather than a word salad.

Is that the same for all interactions between people?

Don't put words in my mouth. I never said it was fine. Saying it's understandable WHY it happens, is a million MILES away from saying that it's "fine".

You'll just waste your time. That's his thing

I know that's his thing. It's not my first clash with him. I don't say anything much in this sub forum since my last clash with him, doesn't mean I don't lurk and read. And today's the day when I have had it with him. Why do such users even get permitted to exist on Fab?

I'm just off to grab the popcorn. Need any?

Yes please, salt and butter please thank you.

You cretin. Sweet for the win "

Mmm, not when I'm already drinking a sweet soda drink or a beer to go with it!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"do you disagree that the report found him to have bullied? Or is it that you have a different definition they failed to meet ? "

The former, but honestly a bit of both. From the report it reads like Raab was described to have been a bully purely from what the civil servants who interacted with him described about their perspective of his behaviour towards them. A case of "if they say it is, then it is, never mind the fact that there was not a single obvious instance that can be used as evidence".

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London

Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?"

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?"

Mate, nobody's rallying for a group attempt to "bully" you in here. None of those in here commenting and supporting me against you even interact with me in other parts of the forum where I am active on. I believe in the existence of forum cliques and bullying within the forum, but I can reassure you that in this case it's none of the sort that you're describing.

Go make whatever threads you wish to. Not my concern, and I never ever step into any thread made by you as a matter of principle. You've already made me break one of my principles on here specially just for you today: that I don't talk to anybody in the forums that exist on my block list.

Does that make you feel better about yourself?

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?"

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?"

No, you attempted to earlier but I'd never allow that, you're just someone who likes to throw their 'intellect' around.

Do you feel I'm 'group bullying' you? If so, I suggest you report me.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Mate, nobody's rallying for a group attempt to "bully" you in here. None of those in here commenting and supporting me against you even interact with me in other parts of the forum where I am active on. I believe in the existence of forum cliques and bullying within the forum, but I can reassure you that in this case it's none of the sort that you're describing.

Go make whatever threads you wish to. Not my concern, and I never ever step into any thread made by you as a matter of principle. You've already made me break one of my principles on here specially just for you today: that I don't talk to anybody in the forums that exist on my block list.

Does that make you feel better about yourself? "

Neither do children in a school playground. It's still bullying if the intention is to harass somebody.

That is your intention.

No, I won't report you. Your behaviour is more interesting.

Why have I "made" you do anything? What power do I have over you?

Why ever would you preemptively put me on your block list? That's weird, although someone else said they'd done that as if it said something about me rather than them.

I feel fine about myself. I'm not having a rant.

You've already expended a lot of words over me. I do feel special, but I'm curious to know why I seem to get you so aroused.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Mate, nobody's rallying for a group attempt to "bully" you in here. None of those in here commenting and supporting me against you even interact with me in other parts of the forum where I am active on. I believe in the existence of forum cliques and bullying within the forum, but I can reassure you that in this case it's none of the sort that you're describing.

Go make whatever threads you wish to. Not my concern, and I never ever step into any thread made by you as a matter of principle. You've already made me break one of my principles on here specially just for you today: that I don't talk to anybody in the forums that exist on my block list.

Does that make you feel better about yourself?

Neither do children in a school playground. It's still bullying if the intention is to harass somebody.

That is your intention.

No, I won't report you. Your behaviour is more interesting.

Why have I "made" you do anything? What power do I have over you?

Why ever would you preemptively put me on your block list? That's weird, although someone else said they'd done that as if it said something about me rather than them.

I feel fine about myself. I'm not having a rant.

You've already expended a lot of words over me. I do feel special, but I'm curious to know why I seem to get you so aroused."

*gag* ??

You think far too highly of yourself to think that you can get me "so aroused".

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?

No, you attempted to earlier but I'd never allow that, you're just someone who likes to throw their 'intellect' around.

Do you feel I'm 'group bullying' you? If so, I suggest you report me."

Yet here you are, proving "something".

Why would I need to report you? I don't feel intimidated by you.

I'd only report someone for posting links to something like a holocaust denying website, which I have done, or sending me a directly abusive email. No, nobody from any thread is blocked until that happens.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Mate, nobody's rallying for a group attempt to "bully" you in here. None of those in here commenting and supporting me against you even interact with me in other parts of the forum where I am active on. I believe in the existence of forum cliques and bullying within the forum, but I can reassure you that in this case it's none of the sort that you're describing.

Go make whatever threads you wish to. Not my concern, and I never ever step into any thread made by you as a matter of principle. You've already made me break one of my principles on here specially just for you today: that I don't talk to anybody in the forums that exist on my block list.

Does that make you feel better about yourself?

Neither do children in a school playground. It's still bullying if the intention is to harass somebody.

That is your intention.

No, I won't report you. Your behaviour is more interesting.

Why have I "made" you do anything? What power do I have over you?

Why ever would you preemptively put me on your block list? That's weird, although someone else said they'd done that as if it said something about me rather than them.

I feel fine about myself. I'm not having a rant.

You've already expended a lot of words over me. I do feel special, but I'm curious to know why I seem to get you so aroused.

*gag* ??

You think far too highly of yourself to think that you can get me "so aroused". "

You definitely missed something there.

Carry on though. I don't know where you're going with this, but still curious to know why the little vein in your temple is pumping away so furiously...

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"wil he wont he have a job on friday "

Apologies, by-the-way. Just in case I was responsible for the hijacking of the thread.

Pretty sure I wasn't, but there it is anyway

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?

No, you attempted to earlier but I'd never allow that, you're just someone who likes to throw their 'intellect' around.

Do you feel I'm 'group bullying' you? If so, I suggest you report me.

Yet here you are, proving "something".

Why would I need to report you? I don't feel intimidated by you.

I'd only report someone for posting links to something like a holocaust denying website, which I have done, or sending me a directly abusive email. No, nobody from any thread is blocked until that happens."

I'm not trying to intimidate you. You really do think a lot of yourself don't you. I've told you before and I'll tell you again, you're not special

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?

No, you attempted to earlier but I'd never allow that, you're just someone who likes to throw their 'intellect' around.

Do you feel I'm 'group bullying' you? If so, I suggest you report me.

Yet here you are, proving "something".

Why would I need to report you? I don't feel intimidated by you.

I'd only report someone for posting links to something like a holocaust denying website, which I have done, or sending me a directly abusive email. No, nobody from any thread is blocked until that happens.

I'm not trying to intimidate you. You really do think a lot of yourself don't you. I've told you before and I'll tell you again, you're not special "

Why keep telling me then?

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

All this talk of throbbing and arousal

The sexual tension in this thread is quite something.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?

No, you attempted to earlier but I'd never allow that, you're just someone who likes to throw their 'intellect' around.

Do you feel I'm 'group bullying' you? If so, I suggest you report me.

Yet here you are, proving "something".

Why would I need to report you? I don't feel intimidated by you.

I'd only report someone for posting links to something like a holocaust denying website, which I have done, or sending me a directly abusive email. No, nobody from any thread is blocked until that happens.

I'm not trying to intimidate you. You really do think a lot of yourself don't you. I've told you before and I'll tell you again, you're not special

Why keep telling me then?"

Because you clearly didn't get it the last time, or the time before that.

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By *rDiscretionXXXMan  over a year ago

Gilfach


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying."

What you're seeing is not group bullying. It's people calling out the bully.

You really should go back and read some of your own posts, and see how many times you belittle others. That's bullying.

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

What you're seeing is not group bullying. It's people calling out the bully.

You really should go back and read some of your own posts, and see how many times you belittle others. That's bullying."

Welcome. Couldn't help yourself eh?

Just need a version of Pat and we'll have the whole collection

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By *mateur100Man  over a year ago

nr faversham


"I can't stand Raab, but the bullying allegations are probably, mostly, thin-skinned people who can't handle some robust criticism or challenge.

The term "Bullying" should be reserved for primary school. Grown adults claiming that they have been bullied really do need to grow up.

We need a reset. People from universities are wrapped in cotton wool and have 'safe spaces' and have to have 'trigger warnings' that a book may contain some non PC content. If you're wrapped in cotton wool and treated like a toddler your whole educational life, then a criticism or an overheard swear word might be 'scary' and lead to allegations of 'bullying'.

These are the people who now find themselves in the civil service and politics. People wholly unprepared for the robustness of high-pressure work environments.

In this modern world where words can mean whatever you want, then you can say you are being 'bullied' just because your manager said that your work was not up to scratch.

There's no proper definition of bullying in the workplace, so anybody who feels aggrieved can say they are being bullied.

Couldn't have put it better "

I suggest you read, or re-read, the above post which is spot on, irrelevant of your political leanings

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By *asyukMan  over a year ago

West London


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?

No, you attempted to earlier but I'd never allow that, you're just someone who likes to throw their 'intellect' around.

Do you feel I'm 'group bullying' you? If so, I suggest you report me.

Yet here you are, proving "something".

Why would I need to report you? I don't feel intimidated by you.

I'd only report someone for posting links to something like a holocaust denying website, which I have done, or sending me a directly abusive email. No, nobody from any thread is blocked until that happens.

I'm not trying to intimidate you. You really do think a lot of yourself don't you. I've told you before and I'll tell you again, you're not special

Why keep telling me then?

Because you clearly didn't get it the last time, or the time before that. "

Then you're just going to have to keep choosing to spend your time writing the blah blah.

You are choosing to be annoyed. Perhaps you'll learn to not let it bother you and it will be a valuable life lesson, but I doubt it

Who's keeping a window open and desperately hoping to have the last word then?

Enjoy

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By *ohnnyTwoNotesMan  over a year ago

golden fields


"I can't stand Raab, but the bullying allegations are probably, mostly, thin-skinned people who can't handle some robust criticism or challenge.

The term "Bullying" should be reserved for primary school. Grown adults claiming that they have been bullied really do need to grow up.

We need a reset. People from universities are wrapped in cotton wool and have 'safe spaces' and have to have 'trigger warnings' that a book may contain some non PC content. If you're wrapped in cotton wool and treated like a toddler your whole educational life, then a criticism or an overheard swear word might be 'scary' and lead to allegations of 'bullying'.

These are the people who now find themselves in the civil service and politics. People wholly unprepared for the robustness of high-pressure work environments.

In this modern world where words can mean whatever you want, then you can say you are being 'bullied' just because your manager said that your work was not up to scratch.

There's no proper definition of bullying in the workplace, so anybody who feels aggrieved can say they are being bullied.

Couldn't have put it better

I suggest you read, or re-read, the above post which is spot on, irrelevant of your political leanings "

In fairness. Bullying in the work place is well defined under the Equality Act 2010.

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By *astandFeistyCouple  over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Interesting turn to attempt group bullying in a thread about someone having to resign for bullying.

Do you know that this is what you're doing, or do you think that it's something else?

Possibly a thread about the denial of bullying or excusing bullying.

Can't say that it hurts to be attacked by a group of people who hold these views and behave in this way.

Does it make you feel better about yourselves?

Are you accusing me of bullying you? As part of a group?

I'm clearly not bullying you as you're still here and you have said that you'd leave any situation like that.

Only attempting group bullying.

You don't think that is what you're doing?

No, you attempted to earlier but I'd never allow that, you're just someone who likes to throw their 'intellect' around.

Do you feel I'm 'group bullying' you? If so, I suggest you report me.

Yet here you are, proving "something".

Why would I need to report you? I don't feel intimidated by you.

I'd only report someone for posting links to something like a holocaust denying website, which I have done, or sending me a directly abusive email. No, nobody from any thread is blocked until that happens.

I'm not trying to intimidate you. You really do think a lot of yourself don't you. I've told you before and I'll tell you again, you're not special

Why keep telling me then?

Because you clearly didn't get it the last time, or the time before that.

Then you're just going to have to keep choosing to spend your time writing the blah blah.

You are choosing to be annoyed. Perhaps you'll learn to not let it bother you and it will be a valuable life lesson, but I doubt it

Who's keeping a window open and desperately hoping to have the last word then?

Enjoy "

Keeping the qindow open is normally your trick. I'll let you have it

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