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over a year ago
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Has anyone ever stumbled across people they know while on Fab. A lot of profiles are discreet for obviously reasons and initially we don't always know who we are talking to at first. |
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"Has anyone ever stumbled across people they know while on Fab. A lot of profiles are discreet for obviously reasons and initially we don't always know who we are talking to at first. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever stumbled across people they know while on Fab. A lot of profiles are discreet for obviously reasons and initially we don't always know who we are talking to at first.
Hello aunty "
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I’ve come across profiles where I knew the person and just blocked them to save any hassles.
There was one guy who messaged me asking if I went to a certain school which I did but since I didn’t know who I was chatting to I didn’t reply. I’m not embarrassed but would like to know who I am talking to if it’s personal. If he had introduced himself explaining who he was I would have chatted. He probably just didn’t think so now I will never know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy I know has his face as his profile I’ll never mention it to him and we’ll never message each other on this with both being straight.
But a girl who is local too me agreed to face pics and when I sent mine she knew me and never sent me a pic back and hasn’t told me who she is. She says she’s engaged and I know her and her fiancé. |
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"A guy I know has his face as his profile I’ll never mention it to him and we’ll never message each other on this with both being straight.
But a girl who is local too me agreed to face pics and when I sent mine she knew me and never sent me a pic back and hasn’t told me who she is. She says she’s engaged and I know her and her fiancé. "
I’m sure someone mentioned before that when they sent their pic to a couple they replied that they couldn’t take things further as they went to the same gym but he never knew which couple at the gym it was |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A guy I know has his face as his profile I’ll never mention it to him and we’ll never message each other on this with both being straight.
But a girl who is local too me agreed to face pics and when I sent mine she knew me and never sent me a pic back and hasn’t told me who she is. She says she’s engaged and I know her and her fiancé. "
That's actually a bit crappy on her part to do that to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have noticed other people that we recognised but not spoken to. We are a couple so nothing really to hide other then we just prefer that most people know our business. However, we have came across single profiles who we know to be married. Not that's any of our business also, we just find it curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple of people yes, my (mrs) curiosity gets the better of me, I'm forever pressing the who's near me button, I shouldn't really as I got quite a shock once  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A guy I know has his face as his profile I’ll never mention it to him and we’ll never message each other on this with both being straight.
But a girl who is local too me agreed to face pics and when I sent mine she knew me and never sent me a pic back and hasn’t told me who she is. She says she’s engaged and I know her and her fiancé.
That's actually a bit crappy on her part to do that to you. "
Yeah still pisses me off, whatever she gets up to is her business I’m hardly going to out her when I’m wanting my fab life to stay out of my private life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been here a few years, and looking back, sent so many face pics. Every one in asda and tesco must recognise me....
I did see a certain sexy female in one of these shops a couple of weeks ago, but obviously cant wave or say hi...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads of folk actually lol
And typically the assumption by most of the males on here is that because you’re a single female on here and they know you by name that you’re going to instantly want to jump into bed with them, even the folk who think they know you don’t even take time to read your profile 
It makes for a good chat over a coffee as well though especially for newbies to chat to someone who’s been on and off for years so if you know me and want to JUST chat then I’m 100% up for that  |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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Yes. A pal who I see in the pub regularly clicked me and made a few comments one night when pissed. Nothing came of it though.
But a female friend who joined (now left) was recognised by a guy she new and he played it hard and wound her up no end. Total narcissist. Spilled over in to other sites. Understandably put her off. How the arse wipe reads this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. A pal who I see in the pub regularly clicked me and made a few comments one night when pissed. Nothing came of it though.
But a female friend who joined (now left) was recognised by a guy she new and he played it hard and wound her up no end. Total narcissist. Spilled over in to other sites. Understandably put her off. How the arse wipe reads this. "
Shitty thing to do
How do you know he's a narcissist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads of people. We went to a party and us and 2 other couples had kids in the same class at school.
We’ve seen ex’s, friends, and people we know from the local area on here. Thankfully no family lol.
To be honest it doesn’t really bother us much as we are relatively open anyway and most of our friends and some of our family know we are on here |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Yes. A pal who I see in the pub regularly clicked me and made a few comments one night when pissed. Nothing came of it though.
But a female friend who joined (now left) was recognised by a guy she new and he played it hard and wound her up no end. Total narcissist. Spilled over in to other sites. Understandably put her off. How the arse wipe reads this.
Shitty thing to do
How do you know he's a narcissist?"
She confided in me and shared some information. I am familiar with narcissists and he was clearly one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few who I really don’t like in real life but I’d still never tell anyone, not my style.
I’ve had a couple peep recognise me and been nice about it but also had a couple folk try be manipulative about it.. they were told to GTF.
Also I have seen my ‘straight’ uncle on here as a TV offering suck and go services - that was a shock but again... I seen nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple of dad's from the kids school.
Wanted to point out on several occasions to them that the selfie taken looking down at your phone is the least flattering angle.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been a few from near by just tell them I’m not interested and when I pass them in the street I just act normal one of the guys compliments one of my pictures and it’s a guy I usually have a pint with in the pub which is a bit weird now lol |
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Ive come accross a guy who sent a pic which is the spitting image of a relative ,still not sure its him so politely said no thanks and moved on as blocking might have seemed weird if it is him ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I have come across 3 guys that I have known. 2 ex employees that I used to manage and 1 guy that I've known for many years. One of them I'm still chatting too. |
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Yeah, we've chatted to loads of people we know. Bumped into a few at CJs aswell lol. I don't mind it as long as there's absolute discretion.
I've had the worst of it though too. More than a year ago, a guy messaged me saying he had always wanted to fuck me. He knew my name, my husband's name, our surname, where I lived, where I worked. Said he had known me and hubby for years and had always wanted to get with me and would I fuck him?! Wow! Well, now you've creeped me out, eh naw! I got defensive and asked him to tell me who he was and that he had creeped me out. Once he realised I was angry, he wouldn't tell me who he was. Still, to this day, have no clue who it was. And no suspicions xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Twice I have sent face pics to woman who have responded saying that they know me. Both times ended up being woman who worked in the same building as myself. Felt awkward at first but they both agreed to be discreet and told me who they were. Actually ended up meeting them both over the years which was great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I, but I find myself looking at people and wondering if they’re on fab. Esp the girl that makes my coffee in the west end of Glasgow who looks at me with a glint in her eye.... "
Maybe she just genuinely fancies you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never seen anyone I recognise but no problem with it if anyone recognises me. We are all here for the same thing and all need discretion as much as each other. If anyone does recognise me, feel free to say hello. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A good mixture of different experiences here!. Which was the reason we had been curious.
Agree with the point being made by some. We are all here for same reason and need to approach it like adults.
However, feel for the people who have had bad experiences! You guys didnt deserve that xx |
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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago
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I’ve been recognised on here before and saw some friends on here too, come to think of it quite a few actually, some old work friends, some old school friends, some people I’ve met in the pubs, also used to walk passed a fab user who I recognised regularly and we chatted but nothing materialised.
The worst one though was someone came into my old work and recognised me, and then started trying to use it against me, demanding money off and things of that ilk, so they were reported swiftly and told to never come into my work again
Just like anything there can be good examples of it happening and bad ones I guess |
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Yep, bumped into a few folk we know either at socials or clubs. After initial shock as is well lol
Also know a couple of people on here that don't know that we know members of their family and linked via Facebook.
Discretion is always key factor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My horrific former neighbor! He's married to an equally terrible woman and was on here without her.
Made our lives hell in the surrounding flats. I wish I was meaner, I would have told her. It's not my business. |
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"A certain very prominent forum poster popped up via a friends FB... but I’d never say anything to either of them. "
A particular line from a particular song sung at particular persons funeral only last week or week before springs to mind.. |
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Lots of people we know in the vanilla world,
From a dads mate to the neighbour behind the bar at a fab social , to work mates and friends 
But it’s a lifestyle choice and It’s going to happen you just need to hope they are discreet and respect we are all in it together so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once went to a social and someone from my work turned up .........made a very swift exit !
Someone locally recognised me but I’ve never seen their face pic but did get a bit creeped out when they messaged referring to a fb post I had put up............ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met an old childhood friend, an ex girlfriend and an old boss with his wife at cjs , everyone on here for the same reason so usually its pretty uneventful and a bit of a turn on at same time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes... I’ve stumbled across many people I know on here.
I’ve also met Some of them for fun!
I’ve also had a family member message me - I didn’t even know he was bi sexual... but there you go! Learn something new every day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We haven't found anyone we know one here. Maybe where we live isn't that wild! Will have to move to Fife cause that seems to be where most fabbers are from |
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Just seen two people I know. One is my best friends nephew, who is on here looking for Tvs, not sure if his fiance knows. The other is a guy I play sports with every week. Recognised him from the tattoo. He is on as a couple. Not mentioned to either of them. |
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Had a meet and she turned out to be a nutter, telling everyone I knew about me being on here etc. Also seen a few profiles of people I know , always unsure whether to say hi or just send a facepic and see how they take it. If I’ve sent a pic and you know me say hello and we can have a laugh about it. Nothing to be ashamed of here |
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Not happened to me yet. Closet I've had is someone who wnt to the same school I did a year or so apart, but I don't know them. It's bound to happen sooner or later, but as long as we're both completely discreet about it I don't see a problem. It might wierd me out if it's someone really close, but I say might because then again it might also lead to something really good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we actually know a good few from
Friends back in the day
Neighbours
Our daughters work colleague ( who we have met with her husband ) x
But as we say all minding our own business and enjoying life x
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"Have had a few messages from people I know. I'm sure they know it is me before they message as I have my face in my avatar. It could also just be that it is quite a small place where we stay. "
After thinking about about messaging you for quite a while because I knew who it was, I was so glad I plucked up the courage to do so. |
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By *otnew12Man
over a year ago
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It’s a shame I’ve been talking to someone I know both on and off of this site but we can never seem to get our timing right of when we are free lol.
Also was chatting to a female on here that messaged and said that it would turn her on so much for me to know who she was, know her name and to have her on Fbk, then we could be chatting on messenger and see we were both on fab and it would turn her on.
Then she blocked me for some reason :-s
Part of me thinks it may be someone I have on messenger that recognised me and then bottled it tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw a few we know but haven’t been contacted by them... some are on and off
Good luck to them and hope they are enjoying their fun
We do like the who’s near facility |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes seen several, one of my ex’s friends and her husband who have been on and off as a couple (he comes on himself now and then) he’s a creepy fucker that talks shit so they get blocked whenever they reappear.
Also people that work in the same building as me and a e of people I went to school with I block both these groups as well I like to keep fab and normal life separate |
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"Have had a few messages from people I know. I'm sure they know it is me before they message as I have my face in my avatar. It could also just be that it is quite a small place where we stay.
After thinking about about messaging you for quite a while because I knew who it was, I was so glad I plucked up the courage to do so. "
So glad also. Loving your avatar, that was the night I set you the dare. I was so surprised you did it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A girl i went to school with used to be on here amd messaged me. Nothing happened between us but had good chats and catch up.
I dont mind if someone i know sees me. They can message me if they like lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can also go the other way too.
I met a guy on here years ago..it was a one off really. Anyway,I forgot about him until I ended up in a meeting with him at work.
That was awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God i can imagine that.
Once had some girl when i was previously on here message me telling me she knew my sister (which she did seem to) and that she was gonna show her the pics if i never sent her £100. She got swiftly blocked and nothing ever came from it. |
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"Loads of folk actually lol
And typically the assumption by most of the males on here is that because you’re a single female on here and they know you by name that you’re going to instantly want to jump into bed with them, even the folk who think they know you don’t even take time to read your profile
It makes for a good chat over a coffee as well though especially for newbies to chat to someone who’s been on and off for years so if you know me and want to JUST chat then I’m 100% up for that "
Uck I've seen you ridding loads of times so think you should just geez your hole xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep a few times childhood friends sister had a wee chat with her we both seen the funny side nothing happened n the wife’s cousin n his Mrs bad me had a perv at his Mrs pics then when out at a event out having a smoke brought it up he looked shocked his Mrs just looked n went oh fuck also didn’t do anything as to close to home n would be a bit awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once arranged a meet with a couple just outside of Inverness, had only spoken with the husband, arrangement was I'd arrive have a chat with him, once he was happy she would come downstairs and then get straight to business with me while he just watched and filmed. I arrived and had a long chat with the guy who'd I'd never met in my life, once he was happy I got undressed and he called her downstairs, walking into the room I inatantly realised and so did she that we used to work together, we laughed it off and a good evening was had. In fact I visited them on many more occasions over the years until they moved away. |
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Know a couple of single males whom I’ve known as friends for years in vanilla world.
Think Ian’s met a fair few friends/relatives over the years as he’s been on the scene longer.
Main thing is discretion and we’re all on the site for honest fun.
Millie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone ever stumbled across people they know while on Fab. A lot of profiles are discreet for obviously reasons and initially we don't always know who we are talking to at first. "
I know a guy on here worked with him for 20 years knew he was gay but he dosnt know I'm bi. His profile had a silhouette and no pics we were on the brink of setting up a meet and I asked for face pic.Thank Fuck!Lesson Learned. |
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By *lanMDMan
over a year ago
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Not on this site but another, I got a message from a lady who said she knew me - intrigued I asked who and she told me ( after all if she knows who I am there is no point in denying it) She told me she had a pal who fancied me so was a good result as we got together ( her pal and self) and had some damned good sex |
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"I’ve come across profiles where I knew the person and just blocked them to save any hassles.
There was one guy who messaged me asking if I went to a certain school which I did but since I didn’t know who I was chatting to I didn’t reply. I’m not embarrassed but would like to know who I am talking to if it’s personal. If he had introduced himself explaining who he was I would have chatted. He probably just didn’t think so now I will never know "
So is this why your Profile is hidden so no one can see your profile that might know who you are |
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I know of a couple of people on here one female that up to recently was dating my mate no I never told him he found her in bed with some guy lol and the other is a guy that lives near me that is in a new relationship |
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"I know of a couple of people on here one female that up to recently was dating my mate no I never told him he found her in bed with some guy lol and the other is a guy that lives near me that is in a new relationship "
Did you find her on here 1st or did she get caught 1st?
If you knew first then hes not really a mate then lol |
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