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By *iimon OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
What is everyone thinking when it’s allowed?
Personally, I would meet up with some close friends and family but as clubs / meeting strangers for some fun goes, I’ll be giving it 2 months at least.
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"What is everyone thinking when it’s allowed?
Personally, I would meet up with some close friends and family but as clubs / meeting strangers for some fun goes, I’ll be giving it 2 months at least.
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Why 2 months? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life goes on, 1st meet is normally a coffee so pretty much minimal risk anyway when rules allow.
Not sure what difference 2 months will make, we've had a year and it's still around.
I've been out working constantly since the beginning and still safe.
Then let's add the adult factor into the equation, would a potential meet turn up or even arrange a meet in the first place if they had any symptoms.
The fear is strong in some people.
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I agree with Zest. It's not going anywhere, so you can't just put your life on hold. Well, that's my opinion anyway. And as Zest says, have a bit of common sense, and respect, and don't turn up to the meet if you're unwell xx |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
As has been said, we've all been driven into a culture of fear and uncertainty.
Blood clots? I believe you can get blood clots from taking the 'pill', doen't stop ladies taking it.
The vaccine? I get it every year for the flu, there's vaccines given to young children for measles etc.
The time's fast approaching when people are going to be asking, what's the point of getting vaccinated if we can't do as we used to do. The so called 'experts' are going to have to give way or there'll be anarchy.
It's time the Prime and First Ministers resumed governing, and sacked these so called 'experts'.
Here endeth!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why 2 months 
Life is for living, we are all over due some fun. We will be straight back out, but it's a personal choice, you wait the extra 2 months if that some how makes you feel better |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
No plans to meet anyone any time soon to be honest. In fact I have pretty much written off 2021 other than possibly meeting up with some long term fab friends in the autumn, only once we have all had two doses of the vaccine though.
I guess everyone has different priorities, which is absolutely as it should be, Fab meets are pretty low on my list. |
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"I’d so love to start meeting again "
Me too the thought of even just meeting up with old friends for a coffee is exciting enough for me lol but as I’d normally have a social meet before any play and if honest tended to play in clubs I don’t see me bed hopping anytime soon.  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I've had both my vaccines but have no plans on meeting anyone off here anytime soon. I'd sooner spend time with friends and family first and when I do start meeting off here it will be with friends I have already made  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll be spending time with my friends first and foremost. To be fair though I think we are at the point where life has to go on and people need to make their own choices. |
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By *iimon OP Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
I say 2 months because I’ve got 2 high risk and 1 baby in my immediate family. None of us have had jags yet.
When time allows I’ll meet close friends and family. I’m not hiding out at home, I’ve still got work but I’m not meeting strangers.
You can trust friends and family but you’ve no idea what others are up to. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
near Glasgow |
"I say 2 months because I’ve got 2 high risk and 1 baby in my immediate family. None of us have had jags yet.
When time allows I’ll meet close friends and family. I’m not hiding out at home, I’ve still got work but I’m not meeting strangers.
You can trust friends and family but you’ve no idea what others are up to. "
But do you know who your friends have been in contact with? Or their friends?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Life goes on, 1st meet is normally a coffee so pretty much minimal risk anyway when rules allow.
Not sure what difference 2 months will make, we've had a year and it's still around.
I've been out working constantly since the beginning and still safe.
Then let's add the adult factor into the equation, would a potential meet turn up or even arrange a meet in the first place if they had any symptoms.
The fear is strong in some people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Life goes on, 1st meet is normally a coffee so pretty much minimal risk anyway when rules allow.
Not sure what difference 2 months will make, we've had a year and it's still around.
I've been out working constantly since the beginning and still safe.
Then let's add the adult factor into the equation, would a potential meet turn up or even arrange a meet in the first place if they had any symptoms.
The fear is strong in some people.
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*adult factor
Made me laugh there....x |
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We wont be meeting or anything else for a good while yet even if we've had both jags.
Our son is vulnerable as are some of our family memebers. Lifes been shit over the last year but Id never forgive myself if I passed the virus on to any of them.
As hard as it is we can wait a while longer
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Once 2nd jags done plus a month for it to get into system will contemplate meets.
The virus will still be knocking about this time next year in some form or an other as regards mutations. Not intending waiting that long! |
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
glasgow |
"I’d so love to start meeting again
Me too the thought of even just meeting up with old friends for a coffee is exciting enough for me lol but as I’d normally have a social meet before any play and if honest tended to play in clubs I don’t see me bed hopping anytime soon. "
I mean coffee is just a euphemism for me |
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"I'll be spending time with my friends first and foremost. To be fair though I think we are at the point where life has to go on and people need to make their own choices. "
I agree with this, had my 1st jag but life has to go on |
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There is no reason not to have outside socially distanced meetings if you follow the guidance.
It is an oportunity to network and lay the ground work for the future.
Regarding close contact physical meets - until you are able to get up close and personal in clubs, you probably shouldn't be meeting.
But certain individuals are selfish and will disregard all for a fuck or a suck! |
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By *innMan
over a year ago
edinburgh |
I think most people will be cautious about meeting, I know I am.
Each to their own and people will take risks (lifestyle choices).
Lots of people have been meeting throughout the last year.
I’m not judging anyone. This lifestyle has always had its risks and I have found that people drift into associations or friendships with like minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single man, my wanting to meet and my chances of meeting are dictated by women, not the virus
Until ladies are willing to meet me, a hermit will have a busier diary than I have! |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
As soon as we are vaccinated we will be out again, we will have a vaccine probably around the same time night clubs open. At least we don't have any moral dilemmas to weigh up. Perks of being the end of the queue! |
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"As has been said, we've all been driven into a culture of fear and uncertainty.
Blood clots? I believe you can get blood clots from taking the 'pill', doen't stop ladies taking it.
The vaccine? I get it every year for the flu, there's vaccines given to young children for measles etc.
The time's fast approaching when people are going to be asking, what's the point of getting vaccinated if we can't do as we used to do. The so called 'experts' are going to have to give way or there'll be anarchy.
It's time the Prime and First Ministers resumed governing, and sacked these so called 'experts'.
Here endeth!! "
"Sack the experts" brought to you by the same numpties that gave you Brexit  |
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Seems normality has returned Last minute let down Friday last minute let down Saturday First d we xcuse early start ... did they not know Second excuse A n E aye that old chestnut ... how long they been waiting Gggrrrr so to answer OP not meeting despite our best efforts |
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