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No luck (advice welcome)
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Out of 12 pics, 9 are of your cock. No written profile and a meaningless warning that wouldn't stand up in any court in the land.
Ignoring the fact that you're miles away from me, I would pass your profile by, absolutely no effort put into it. |
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"Out of 12 pics, 9 are of your cock. No written profile and a meaningless warning that wouldn't stand up in any court in the land.
Ignoring the fact that you're miles away from me, I would pass your profile by, absolutely no effort put into it."
I agree. Overly graphic pics, nonsense legal disclaimer and no personality in bio.
It’s a huge challenge on here for single guys esp when you live in a less populated area.
Your profile is an ad for you, you need to sell yourself and also inc what you have to offer potential meets. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Vast majority of women will read your profile before they will even open a message. If your profile has nothing to capture their interest then they are unlikely to even open the message.
You are quite young for this site. You also live in a fairly remote location where I suspect there aren't exactly hoards of swingers.
Your profile definitely needs work |
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over a year ago
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Reading profile's all the way through and reading preferences helps. Just looking at pictures and firing a hope n hell message or wink will get you ignored.
Your face is on your profile so as much as it might not be what you want to hear if someone fancies you they will reply. |
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You can have the perfect profile (if there is such a thing) and still have the same result. It's hard getting any sort of connection going through this online thing.
I think best thing to do is to get yourself out there. There are frequently social events, or go to a swingers club x |
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"I do fancy club fun but not sure if i would have the confidance to go on my own. And dont have any friends to go with  "
Catch 22 then. Or grow a pair and just go.
There's a social only area in the Scottish clubs, where it's got more of a pub feel to it.
To avoid disappointment if you're counting on a shag, it's not guaranteed you'll get one. But it is a great way to meet lots of fellow fabbers x |
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Much better but keep working on it as you gain experience etc
I’m sure my first one was shite! It’s been honed many times over the years I did a cull of pics a couple months ago as I was reaching the max limit and a few were the very first I posted, the tech/cameras then weren’t great (over 10 years ago) and my own skills and knowledge have improved too, people on fab have suggested ideas and ways to take good pics.
Bio develops over time too as you learn what you do and don’t like, what pisses you off! And what you have to offer others.
Don’t worry about the dyslexia, hope this doesn’t sound weird but I’m the opposite as it’s my profession and I don’t judge if what people write online isn’t perfect grammatically etc as there are people who’s sight isn’t great or have dyslexia or English isn’t their first language etc. as long as what’s there can be understood that’s cool.
Not a fan of lack of effort or text speak nonsense though.
Review regularly add new pics when you get chance - whenever I’m dressing for a meet or a night out etc I use the opportunity to take some pics to post here. |
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"We are finding it difficult to meet couples and we don’t know why? We don’t fancy club fun! "
As you're quite new, unless there's a good reason, I'd show the verifications you have rather than have them hidden in the summary. So many people put fake verifications so it's good if they're shown so people can check them out. |
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Like the above advice delete the warning about pics….it means absolutely nothing!
Definitely check out if there are any group socials in your area or fairly close to you….I find it so much easier to get to know someone in person and you’ll get a feel for the scene that way too. Socials are usually super welcoming and I would recommend them 
Good luck on your fab journey OP!  |
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"We are finding it difficult to meet couples and we don’t know why? We don’t fancy club fun!
As you're quite new, unless there's a good reason, I'd show the verifications you have rather than have them hidden in the summary. So many people put fake verifications so it's good if they're shown so people can check them out. "
Not everyone hides them sometimes the person who has left the verification has left the site so the person cant show it as it goes too |
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Keep an eye out for the socials on the forums, it's a great way to meet other people. We have all been there, making some good friends is half the battle. Also try the clubs, people organise pre-drinks which is good for nerves and if you don't want to go alone x |
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im starting to lose interest now because no matter what i do no one seems to be interested in young single straight males 
anyone able to help out with some advice ? Thanks in advance 
i will always defend myself for spelling and stuff. Concidering i couldnt read or write in high school. I think i have came a long good so far 