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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few updates to your profile could really help out:
1. Don't just have 4 pics of your cock from different angles.
2. Put a bit more effort into your profile content and add some punctuation.
3. If you are so annoyed by males contacting you, use the provided filters. |
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"Really not quite sure what the problem is here op. You have been verified 8 times in three months.
That looks busy to me... My humble opinion.
What's your secret? "
I was thinking the exact same! |
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By *ilkand2Couple
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"Really not quite sure what the problem is here op. You have been verified 8 times in three months.
That looks busy to me... My humble opinion.
What's your secret? "
His secret is going to clubs just from reading his verifications.
We find trying to arrange meets on here very tedious so we really just stick with attending clubs. |
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"For some reason as a single male you hardly ever get a reply and although I'm straight I still get mail from men
How dose a genuine guy actually stand a chance on fab let me no"
The site has given you tools so use them ie block single men from messaging you .
As uve already had some meets mostly from clubs I’d guess that possibly you don’t come across too well on here but face to face your fine so perhaps continue with the clubs and maybe try get along to some socials .
Also posting in the forums can sometimes get you noticed too so chat in here .
Good luck ! |
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"Thanks for your input don't get me wrong I'm rubbish with punctuation but I am very smart I just find it hard to type and as for pics can't post face pics what other p8cs would you like to see"
More to your body than just the cock... A bit of imagination goes a long way |
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You have 8 verifications in 3 months which is more than many single men have.
Other than that, you need punctuation in your bio as it's just a words wall, and all 4 pics are of your cock. Nothing there to interest me so I'd pass you by.
Your profile is your shop window, you want people to stop and look, and hopefully chat. Do you genuinely think your profile is the best that it could be? |
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By *.T.Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
You have to be yourself and not what you think women want. Then you have to appeal to someone and be worthy of consideration.
Then bear in mind that men outnumber women by a disproportionate amount so set your expectations of breaking through very low.
And finally, remember no one owes you anything. Anticipate getting no meets then any meet is a bonus! |
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Yeah I always do when I go to club I'm there to meet people who have chosen the same lifestyle as myself and if anything happens it happens and I'm always my self problem is I just am rubbish with websites lol |
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Eight verifications is great. Can I borrow your aftershave?
In my profile, I try to appear "interesting" and to stand out.
I want a woman to see that I keep fit, travel and can wear a smart shirt if I was going out for a social drink.
I try not to use my phone too often for messaging.
If I was applying for a job, I would make notes and then take my time to apply using a desktop PC.
Get an extra tool in your toolbox. Shibari, Tantra and personal risque poetry are what I use to stand out.
Lastly, keep looking on other dating sites where there is a more balanced ratio of men to women.
Good luck and happy snagging!
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As others have said, the fact you’ve been verified already puts you ahead of most men! I’ve been in about six weeks now and still no joy with meeting. I think as a male, you’re just always going to be at disadvantage… there’s just too many of us on here! |
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By *eg2509Woman
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
Us women are like the FBI. We are all over profiles looking for a reason to delete or block. Sadly for guys we get inundated with messages and we need to separate the wheat from the chaff. Things like only D pics, a childish username, willing to be with women 18-99, lack of punctuation are all reasons for us to not bother with a guy. Make yourself different. It’s the same when you message women. Don’t just say hi, have some imagination make her want to message back. Good luck |
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