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By *eebz OP Man 44 weeks ago
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Thanks haha don’t seem to be making many flutter since I’ve joined lol yeah that veri is from a guy I got talking to he was telling me about the site and the club scene as this is all new to me,you think it make me look sketchy haha ? |
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The veri would make me wonder but only because I’m the curious type. The photos of unprotected sex with another woman would be an instant no-no for me though. May well have been with an established partner but on a swingers site, safe sex is everything for me and I wouldn’t have sex with someone who’s showing they haven’t used protection. That’s just me though. |
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By *hyme2020Woman 44 weeks ago
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"The veri would make me wonder but only because I’m the curious type. The photos of unprotected sex with another woman would be an instant no-no for me though. May well have been with an established partner but on a swingers site, safe sex is everything for me and I wouldn’t have sex with someone who’s showing they haven’t used protection. That’s just me though."
That’s not just you. Definitely puts me off as well. I don’t see the need for a single persons profile to show them having unprotected sex at all and I wouldn’t be interested, so maybe just something to think about OP. Welcome though and good luck finding what you are looking for  |
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"The veri would make me wonder but only because I’m the curious type. The photos of unprotected sex with another woman would be an instant no-no for me though. May well have been with an established partner but on a swingers site, safe sex is everything for me and I wouldn’t have sex with someone who’s showing they haven’t used protection. That’s just me though.
That’s not just you. Definitely puts me off as well. I don’t see the need for a single persons profile to show them having unprotected sex at all and I wouldn’t be interested, so maybe just something to think about OP. Welcome though and good luck finding what you are looking for "
Me three, it's a red flag.
Welcome to the forums, don't take things too seriously and you'll do fine  |
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By *eebz OP Man 44 weeks ago
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Damned if you do damned if you don’t,yeah I think a lot of people were hesitant to talk as I wasn’t verified at all,so he was just trying to help but it might have had the reverse effect lol I totally get your point about the picture it is with someone I know very well for a long time,very much appreciate the feedback thank you |
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"Thank you,just a laidback lad who’s looking to explore,a walking red flag is not the look I was going for lol "
Fab is tough for a single guy but I have a feeling that you'll do alright on here!
I'd go back to square one with a new profile, otherwise you'll look at your verifications in six months and see, "one man, two women, a TV and a few couples!"
Don't rush to get veri's.
good things cum to those that wait!
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"The veri would make me wonder but only because I’m the curious type. The photos of unprotected sex with another woman would be an instant no-no for me though. May well have been with an established partner but on a swingers site, safe sex is everything for me and I wouldn’t have sex with someone who’s showing they haven’t used protection. That’s just me though.
That’s not just you. Definitely puts me off as well. I don’t see the need for a single persons profile to show them having unprotected sex at all and I wouldn’t be interested, so maybe just something to think about OP. Welcome though and good luck finding what you are looking for
Me three, it's a red flag.
Welcome to the forums, don't take things too seriously and you'll do fine "
And for me too ..... I always add notes to single profiles displaying bareback pics & on couples profiles when they state pic isn't with their own partner as they often remove/hide them when it's pointed out.
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"Damned if you do damned if you don’t,yeah I think a lot of people were hesitant to talk as I wasn’t verified at all,so he was just trying to help but it might have had the reverse effect lol I totally get your point about the picture it is with someone I know very well for a long time,very much appreciate the feedback thank you "
It’s good feedback buddy, I think it’s mistakes most guys make when they join. The bareback photos could well have been you with a long term partner, but online to others it could have been how you paid for your taxi home last night.
I’d reduce the boaby photos man, you’ve a trunk for a Willy so youl be proud to show it off, one or two is all you need. Most women, and couples, don’t want to see it.
The veri had already been spoken about so no point in me doing it too.
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Bite the bullet. Show the veri. It's a cam veri so easily explained in your bio.
Also a red flag with the female in pics. I agree that single profiles should only have pics the person. I'm no meeting the random female arse on show.
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Thank you,just a laidback lad who’s looking to explore,a walking red flag is not the look I was going for lol "
Single profile with your only veri being a guy. However you have pictures of a woman on your profile. Is she ok with you sharing intimate pictures of her on a swinging site? |
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By *rogalCouple 44 weeks ago
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We mostly agree with everything said above. One thing to add is that you may want to visit a club, it is a great way to get verifications, even if it is just socialising and asking them to verify you are real |
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"Yeah I was booked to go to CJs a couple week back but had to cancel due to work,Definitely need to get booked up again asap,any other clubs that you would recommend?"
After Dark in Edinburgh is a great club. Friendly and welcoming! Fri night is a UV party night starting at 8pm. Sat is normal hours.
It's a learning curve but clubs are the way to go!
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