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When do the alarm bells ring?
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"must be his age??? maybe the new knees and hips are seizing up "Nothing wrong with the movement of my hips matey  | |||
"You mean there are some single girls you havent met yet steve? ffs your slacking lol" Thought id leave a couple for you Greig.......... | |||
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As long as they have a verified pic then thats good enough for us. If they havent bothered to do that then we prob wouldnt even reply. | |||
"havent really thought about it. We must have been here more than three months so we better get verified soon! Anyone wanna call us
As long as they have a verified pic then thats good enough for us. If they havent bothered to do that then we prob wouldnt even reply."Im no too sure even a look this pic really is me verification is very reassuring, cant beat reading one or two nifty meet verifications, T xx | |||
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"Im no too sure even a look this pic really is me verification is very reassuring, cant beat reading one or two nifty meet verifications, T xx" The idea of the photo verification is for a member (couple,guy,gal,fugy) to send in a pic of them holding a piece of paper with their profile name on and fabswingers written on it. Site admin will review these pics and give the status of pic verified to the profile. Obviously, this type of veri doesnt give any sort of indication to the personallity of the member but least it should prove that they are real people (unless they ask someone in the street to hold up a piece of paper with basically im a swinger written on it, lol). Same as veri's by phone or cam. Phone veri's can be good to show that at least there is a female present on the profile and web cam veri's can show the same plus be able to indicate that the pics are genuinly of the couple seen on cam. Steve | |||
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" verifications my point with verifications is phone chat dont prove nothin u could be talking to tom dick or harry or even mary cam dosent prove nothing just there is a person there but who now verifications should be made only after meeting now that proves they are real "just the same as i met this guy a while back ???/ | |||
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"I'll call you! Seriously, I think there are plenty of people who spend a long time watching and working out how the whole online swinging scene works, after joining the site. I've met people without verifications, and of course they in turn can't verify you - and others who don't want to verify you as that removes their anonymity." well said. That's the boat were in. Just looking around and chatting to a few folk. Not really had that much intrest and not really that bothered to be honest. We where going to go chat to some folk on cam next week when we are both off work and hopefully get verified. But now that seems rather pointless as the swinging hierarchy seem to deem these as pointless verifications. So were doomed as we have passed the 3 month limit without verification so are defo iffy | |||
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"i agree after a certain time if not verified put them off site far to many people been on here over a yr without any verications or there not here to meet just for chat as there is more sites for them to go and chat after all this is for swinging " After thinking about it I don't think us swines without verification should be banned. That's not very nice. But we should be activly encouraged to cancel our membership and leave this place for the hardened swingers. So what should we set the limit to 6 months? 1 year? A year seems a bit long. Not sure how long we have been on here. Think we joined in July. So fast approaching a 6 month limit. But we will lead by example and stop clogging this place up and leave it for folk like you. | |||
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"Jeez give the peeps a break! we all start off unverified, it takes time and a little effort to get verified. I see no harm in starting off with phone and cam veris as long as it's stated thats what they are, they to me are like temporary verifications till you can get in a social or actual swinging meet. They can be removed as and when you become more experienced and gain more meets and verifications. Not everyone has time in their busy workaday lives to stop and have a coffee meet or a social meet 3 times a week, but please don't be putting 3 month time limits on them, ffs you can be working flat out and that's gone in no time! " LOL, the first veri on this account was from Mr44 and read "met steve a few times he's real and he'ds a big lad lol lol lol and ah dont mean in his troosers lol".... was enough to get the green tick etc. For some reason I dont display it on profile now, lol Steve | |||
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"We have been hear for over a year and not yet verified, altho we have been to 3 socials and had a gr8 time we as a couple have not had fun after them so no verification. I Feel there is not many looking for soft fun or not many we have clicked with. I am verified on my own profile (allycat) but that doesn't count because it is a different profile so I hope I dont have 2 go back 2 playing on my own altho I do enjoy it lol as a couple we dont get banned. We r going 2 the xmas social so look out I will b the one going around snogging all the girls asking then 2 verify me LOL" someone from the other social could verify you ally.. I remember you both sitting in the last booth ( hope I am right lol ) you both genuine | |||
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"Thx view, u did well 2 remember any time I have spoken 2 u you've been pissed lol Ally -x-"  aye pissed but still perving.....
view = professional perve | |||
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"if you see someone on cam does that prove its the right person no dont think so a voice on a fone no dont mean nothin a social verifcation should be the only way round it get rid of the time wasters and thoses who aint here to swing" here here | |||
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"Get the pitchforks out and let's van everyone that's not been verified after a certain time limit. Let's say 6 months? A year?" thats a brilliant idea. why didnt someone think of it before.well done. | |||
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"We really only meet after having a chat on cam. Always surprised at the number of unverified people, looking to meet us who don't have a cam and aren't willing to invest in one (as they aren't expensive at all). Surely it's a simple way for them to verify themselves?" Maybe their spouses hold the purse strings? xxx | |||
mmmm strange
auds | |||
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"we are a verified cpl... pics on our profile auds on cam in the scots chatroom yet just been called a bitch on msn tonight for not sending a pic to a "cpl" with no pics n no verifications on their profile
mmmm strange
auds "At least you are a verified genuine bitch... so stuff them! 
p.s I don't think you are a bitch at all, you are lovely Auds and very very genuine xxxx | |||
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auds xxx | |||
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"struggling to understand why this thread has turned into a single guy bashathon "Yep, did go off point a tad,lol,sorry. | |||
"struggling to understand why this thread has turned into a single guy bashathon "Don't all threads turn into that? | |||
"Bitching about others can never be described as trying to keep it fun, just enjoy what fun you are having and ignore the rest, now that is keeping it fun, and without having to try "Na, its a bit self-governing, those guys who dont mess folks about wont bat an eye at what i said, those who do might be a bit bothered and then theres those too busy timewasting to have a look in here to be bothered,lol T xx | |||
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