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What's been the highlight of 2023 for you in the swinging world?
Did you try something for the 1st time? Had a meet that stands out over the rest? Learn something new about yourself or partner?
For us it was our first MFM that stands out the most. Mr arranged for another guy to come round as Mrs was blindfolded, tied up with porn playing on the earphones. All the Mrs knew was another guy was going to be joining in at some point.
Ended up an extremely hot night, learnt a lot about what turns us on as a couple and one we are very keen to sample again.
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"What's been the highlight of 2023 for you in the swinging world?
Did you try something for the 1st time? Had a meet that stands out over the rest? Learn something new about yourself or partner?
For us it was our first MFM that stands out the most. Mr arranged for another guy to come round as Mrs was blindfolded, tied up with porn playing on the earphones. All the Mrs knew was another guy was going to be joining in at some point.
Ended up an extremely hot night, learnt a lot about what turns us on as a couple and one we are very keen to sample again.
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That's exactly it, a 3some isn't just a 3 some, there are so many different ways and levels.
Even blindfolded thinking somethings going to happen but not knowing when and then being touched but are you thinking, heart racing, 'is it just your man or a stranger' and again, so many other variations of MSF
Sounds a perfect fun reminder of swinging 2023   |
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"What's been the highlight of 2023 for you in the swinging world?
Did you try something for the 1st time? Had a meet that stands out over the rest? Learn something new about yourself or partner?
For us it was our first MFM that stands out the most. Mr arranged for another guy to come round as Mrs was blindfolded, tied up with porn playing on the earphones. All the Mrs knew was another guy was going to be joining in at some point.
Ended up an extremely hot night, learnt a lot about what turns us on as a couple and one we are very keen to sample again.
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Actually a couple of highlights.
One was invited by a couple who had been messed about by timewasters and ended up having fun and later, another couple arrived with another female, ffs never left until the morning lolol
Another one, not really me playing but with a female friend who told me she her fantasy which was to try a few cocks at the same time, so about a week later found out about a party and took her, she was a little nervous but not showing but definitely excited but once she started she would stop lol, I do remember she was having 3 at the same time and looking at me taking one out of her mouth to say, "Thank you". I never played as I just wanted to make sure she had a great time, which oh, she really did lol
a lot of enjoyable fun 2023 but those two were class  |
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"Last two greedy girls events. Has been my highlight of this year.
Got me seriously thinking that's the way to go now. Solo meets can't live up to that now.  "
We need to try one of these nights I think. It brought up some sexy conversations.
We would love for there to be a glory hole at Cjs, Mrs loves the thought as long as I'm there to keep her safe and ready to step in if needed. Then walking around the club with no idea of who has just fucked her. |
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"Not getting locked in a cupboard and left there for 20 minutes like I did the year before."
You need to expand on that story! Unless it's a traumatic one, don't want to drag something out of you if you didn't want to share. |
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"Got to be going to a club on my own - no chaperone in tow! "
I do admit when you walk into a room full of people they all go wowww, so think you can go in alone anytime you want and feel good about yourself |
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"Got to be going to a club on my own - no chaperone in tow!
I do admit when you walk into a room full of people they all go wowww, so think you can go in alone anytime you want and feel good about yourself "
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"Last two greedy girls events. Has been my highlight of this year.
Got me seriously thinking that's the way to go now. Solo meets can't live up to that now. "
Greedy girl events sound amazing, I think most of these are during the day that appeals to me due to childcare and obviously the lovely lady’s. I think I would get really turned on just watching if possible as never been to events. |
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"Got to be going to a club on my own - no chaperone in tow! "
Stuff like this may seem small but in reality they are big personal achievements.
Not really one you can share with friends and family but this year has taught me to appreciate and be proud of the small victories and don't beat myself up over stuff I hadn't been able to achieve. |
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"Got to be going to a club on my own - no chaperone in tow!
Stuff like this may seem small but in reality they are big personal achievements.
Not really one you can share with friends and family but this year has taught me to appreciate and be proud of the small victories and don't beat myself up over stuff I hadn't been able to achieve. "
Agreed - as a super confident person it was never a decision that took me forever to make. Just never really had time or opportunity but looking back it’s a big achievement! Would do it again and again now! |
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Attending the first Liberty Tea Party at AD. It’s really odd to see folk having cupcakes and tea in their lingerie and kink attire but it’s also extremely wholesome and friendly. That’s by far been my best experience, the open and welcoming atmosphere easily beats any kind of physical sexual encounter I’ve had…this year |
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"What's been the highlight of 2023 for you in the swinging world?
Did you try something for the 1st time? Had a meet that stands out over the rest? Learn something new about yourself or partner?
For us it was our first MFM that stands out the most. Mr arranged for another guy to come round as Mrs was blindfolded, tied up with porn playing on the earphones. All the Mrs knew was another guy was going to be joining in at some point.
Ended up an extremely hot night, learnt a lot about what turns us on as a couple and one we are very keen to sample again.
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Jesus Christ; that’s one helluva hot scenario! |
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"Attending the first Liberty Tea Party at AD. It’s really odd to see folk having cupcakes and tea in their lingerie and kink attire but it’s also extremely wholesome and friendly. That’s by far been my best experience, the open and welcoming atmosphere easily beats any kind of physical sexual encounter I’ve had…this year "
That actually sounds fun |
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After a tough year I'm all about small personal victories regardless if you are confident or not. For a long time I was to hard myself trying to live up to expectations from myself, people I love and society in general. Now I take things as they come and look to celebrate small steps in myself and the people around me.
It's also about being open to new experiences like having tea parties in a sexy environment with like minded folk. Sounds like a lot of fun and something different from the norm. Will keep an eye out for stuff like this |
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"Attending the first Liberty Tea Party at AD. It’s really odd to see folk having cupcakes and tea in their lingerie and kink attire but it’s also extremely wholesome and friendly. That’s by far been my best experience, the open and welcoming atmosphere easily beats any kind of physical sexual encounter I’ve had…this year "
I went to the Saturday one, hadn’t been to any club before, everyone was really nice and it helped with being nervous about going myself.
Hopefully things work out and I can get to go again in evening in 2024. Also saw a few things that were interesting and er, educational but fun.
Looking forward to after the holidays finish and getting to somewhere else for first time too
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Had one meet since I joined so I’m pretty stoked as I don’t go to socials and I was working away non stop since May. Will see what 2024 beholds got next 6 months off so I’m sure I will get to meet some more people. |
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"Attending CJs for the first time and being watched in the Voyeur room
That night definitely opened my eyes "
Where you not on edge people watching you, never done it just curious. Would love to get into two woman think that would be amazing. |
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"Attending CJs for the first time and being watched in the Voyeur room
That night definitely opened my eyes
Where you not on edge people watching you, never done it just curious. Would love to get into two woman think that would be amazing. "
Two women? What you hiding under that beanie bold yin? |
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"Attending CJs for the first time and being watched in the Voyeur room
That night definitely opened my eyes
Where you not on edge people watching you, never done it just curious. Would love to get into two woman think that would be amazing. "
We love playing in the open rooms, we tend to only do it on couples nights though as unfortunately one or two guys usually ruin it as they think it's appropriate to try and get involved without even a thought of asking or being invited just because it's an open room. |
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"Attending CJs for the first time and being watched in the Voyeur room
That night definitely opened my eyes
Where you not on edge people watching you, never done it just curious. Would love to get into two woman think that would be amazing.
Two women? What you hiding under that beanie bold yin? "
Not hiding much  just think it would be hot fantasy  |
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"Attending CJs for the first time and being watched in the Voyeur room
That night definitely opened my eyes
Where you not on edge people watching you, never done it just curious. Would love to get into two woman think that would be amazing.
We love playing in the open rooms, we tend to only do it on couples nights though as unfortunately one or two guys usually ruin it as they think it's appropriate to try and get involved without even a thought of asking or being invited just because it's an open room. "
I think it would be better on couples nights, I could definitely see guys getting carried away. Is there not door men might sound funny saying this. I know I would like to watch I have came across people in the past having sex and I did like watching and never even thought about getting involved. |
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At Cjs the staff are always floating about and take action if they are made aware.
We were playing with another guy in the dungeon room but we've known him for a while and it was prearranged. Had to tell two guys to back off because they thought it would be ok to get close and try to start to rub J's arm.
Watching at a respectful distance is fine with us we like it. But start inching forward in the hope you may get dragged into it or try to start touching is not ok.
In the end we sacked it off and it's just a reminder why we tend to do it on couples nights.
NYE hopefully the same guy is there and we can grab a free room |
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"At Cjs the staff are always floating about and take action if they are made aware.
We were playing with another guy in the dungeon room but we've known him for a while and it was prearranged. Had to tell two guys to back off because they thought it would be ok to get close and try to start to rub J's arm.
Watching at a respectful distance is fine with us we like it. But start inching forward in the hope you may get dragged into it or try to start touching is not ok.
In the end we sacked it off and it's just a reminder why we tend to do it on couples nights.
NYE hopefully the same guy is there and we can grab a free room "
Sounds good to me |
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By *eebzMan 19 weeks ago
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"At Cjs the staff are always floating about and take action if they are made aware.
We were playing with another guy in the dungeon room but we've known him for a while and it was prearranged. Had to tell two guys to back off because they thought it would be ok to get close and try to start to rub J's arm.
Watching at a respectful distance is fine with us we like it. But start inching forward in the hope you may get dragged into it or try to start touching is not ok.
In the end we sacked it off and it's just a reminder why we tend to do it on couples nights.
NYE hopefully the same guy is there and we can grab a free room "
Yeah I was awful cautious of this being it was the first time I had attended a club so didn’t want to offend anyone.
I was enjoying watching a couple from the other side of the room and they smiling at me enjoying themselves,the first time I’ve ever experienced anything like this.
But then a guy came in and literally walked to within an inch of them unbuttoned his jeans and started whispering at them.
I was sat there thinking what is is this behaviour or does he know them but no he completely ruined the vibe in the room.
I got chatting to the couple afterwards and they were not comfortable with him doing this.I don’t understand why someone would think it was ok to get involved without an invite to do so.
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"At Cjs the staff are always floating about and take action if they are made aware.
We were playing with another guy in the dungeon room but we've known him for a while and it was prearranged. Had to tell two guys to back off because they thought it would be ok to get close and try to start to rub J's arm.
Watching at a respectful distance is fine with us we like it. But start inching forward in the hope you may get dragged into it or try to start touching is not ok.
In the end we sacked it off and it's just a reminder why we tend to do it on couples nights.
NYE hopefully the same guy is there and we can grab a free room
Yeah I was awful cautious of this being it was the first time I had attended a club so didn’t want to offend anyone.
I was enjoying watching a couple from the other side of the room and they smiling at me enjoying themselves,the first time I’ve ever experienced anything like this.
But then a guy came in and literally walked to within an inch of them unbuttoned his jeans and started whispering at them.
I was sat there thinking what is is this behaviour or does he know them but no he completely ruined the vibe in the room.
I got chatting to the couple afterwards and they were not comfortable with him doing this.I don’t understand why someone would think it was ok to get involved without an invite to do so.
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Unfortunately that's the attitude of some men. I've been to a few greedy girls events and guys think because you're there you have no standards and will fuck anyone. |
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"At Cjs the staff are always floating about and take action if they are made aware.
We were playing with another guy in the dungeon room but we've known him for a while and it was prearranged. Had to tell two guys to back off because they thought it would be ok to get close and try to start to rub J's arm.
Watching at a respectful distance is fine with us we like it. But start inching forward in the hope you may get dragged into it or try to start touching is not ok.
In the end we sacked it off and it's just a reminder why we tend to do it on couples nights.
NYE hopefully the same guy is there and we can grab a free room
Yeah I was awful cautious of this being it was the first time I had attended a club so didn’t want to offend anyone.
I was enjoying watching a couple from the other side of the room and they smiling at me enjoying themselves,the first time I’ve ever experienced anything like this.
But then a guy came in and literally walked to within an inch of them unbuttoned his jeans and started whispering at them.
I was sat there thinking what is is this behaviour or does he know them but no he completely ruined the vibe in the room.
I got chatting to the couple afterwards and they were not comfortable with him doing this.I don’t understand why someone would think it was ok to get involved without an invite to do so.
Unfortunately that's the attitude of some men. I've been to a few greedy girls events and guys think because you're there you have no standards and will fuck anyone. "
We've never been to the greedy girls as much as we want to try it because of how some, not all, but a few guys behave.
Respect for everyone involved is one of the biggest things we look for when deciding if we want to play. Just because you are at a club doesn't mean it's literally a free for all. |
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Unfortunately that's the attitude of some men. I've been to a few greedy girls events and guys think because you're there you have no standards and will fuck anyone. "
One of my friends is a stunning fem half of a couple and had this attitude from a guy at pre drinks before cj’s a few weeks back. She was in disbelief when it happened, I was hoping it was someone who wasn’t part of the group but it’s still shite.
I guess we can only control how we behave ourselves and if we see the negative behaviours we all have that duty to flag it up. It’s the only way it can improve |
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"At Cjs the staff are always floating about and take action if they are made aware.
We were playing with another guy in the dungeon room but we've known him for a while and it was prearranged. Had to tell two guys to back off because they thought it would be ok to get close and try to start to rub J's arm.
Watching at a respectful distance is fine with us we like it. But start inching forward in the hope you may get dragged into it or try to start touching is not ok.
In the end we sacked it off and it's just a reminder why we tend to do it on couples nights.
NYE hopefully the same guy is there and we can grab a free room
Yeah I was awful cautious of this being it was the first time I had attended a club so didn’t want to offend anyone.
I was enjoying watching a couple from the other side of the room and they smiling at me enjoying themselves,the first time I’ve ever experienced anything like this.
But then a guy came in and literally walked to within an inch of them unbuttoned his jeans and started whispering at them.
I was sat there thinking what is is this behaviour or does he know them but no he completely ruined the vibe in the room.
I got chatting to the couple afterwards and they were not comfortable with him doing this.I don’t understand why someone would think it was ok to get involved without an invite to do so.
Unfortunately that's the attitude of some men. I've been to a few greedy girls events and guys think because you're there you have no standards and will fuck anyone. "
The clubs aren't my thing but this is another reason why I wouldn't consider going to one. The way some men conduct themselves via pm or the chat rooms is ridiculous and I see no reason why they would be any better behaved when confronted by a semi naked female in a swingers club. |
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Id been to one of the clubs a bit over a year ago. Had an amazing time with the partner I went with, but while the singles we met there were respectful and friendly, seeing some behaviour towards others I can understand the concerns and issues others have had at them.
Shouldn't be an issue, but unfortunately you can't screen all attitudes fully at the door.
That said, it's been my only club night so far and a great experience I'm not going to forget for a very long time! |
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We took a couple to CJs, it was their first time there, so we showed them around the place, had a wee laugh at the torture room with the stock and a paddle, chatted downstairs, then moved back upstairs for some fun. Entered the couples room and it was empty but got busier as we were playing, to the point there was roughly 16 people in the room getting it on. Now, both our girls are squirters. I got one of the girls squirting all over my hand and arm. She's screaming.....I'm drenched.....my hand and arm were soaked.... and I shouted " oh shit, my fitbit's not waterproof! It's ruined!"
The whole room paused mid-fuck and there was silence for 2 seconds, then everyone erupted in laughter. It was hysterical! I'm still chuckling away to myself |
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By *eebzMan 19 weeks ago
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"Attending the first Liberty Tea Party at AD. It’s really odd to see folk having cupcakes and tea in their lingerie and kink attire but it’s also extremely wholesome and friendly. That’s by far been my best experience, the open and welcoming atmosphere easily beats any kind of physical sexual encounter I’ve had…this year "
That actually sounds brilliant mate especially for a tea addict like myself haha |
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It's so hard to pick just one... I think it's gotta be the moment when a friend and I stepped into a playroom at CJ's, only for another woman glistening with cum and high on post-gangbang euphoria to immediately begin ecstatically worshipping her tits. Just everything I love about the scene. |
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