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Oral, yes or no?
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Isnt oral just the norm nowadays, met a girl who doesnt do it, from here, honestly the first ever, just point blank refusal, kinda makes it all sound a bit too borning for me now, she expects to receive tho, so im pretty much put off now.
Got blocked for saying its a bit selfish but hey ho was never gonna happen anyway, are there more out there like this? |
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As Chris Rock once said, there are three types of women in this world.
The first type will absolutely point blank refuse to suck your dick.
The second type, doesn't really enjoy sucking dick but will do it anyway, because she wants to please her guy.
The third type, loves nothing more than to suck your dick.
Now it's the third type who makes this world a better place to live
It's all about preference - either she will or won't |
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"Isnt oral just the norm nowadays, met a girl who doesnt do it, from here, honestly the first ever, just point blank refusal, kinda makes it all sound a bit too borning for me now, she expects to receive tho, so im pretty much put off now.
Got blocked for saying its a bit selfish but hey ho was never gonna happen anyway, are there more out there like this?"
So you found someone you weren't compatible with. It happens. |
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There's plenty of guys on here that aren't very good at returning the favour. It's definitely off putting especially as Mrs WL always puts lots of effort into giving. Never come across a woman that doesn't yet.
I suppose during a meet its more important they are comfortable and enjoying what they are doing, it is obvious if someone is going through the motions and not really enjoying it.
The best oral comes from those that love doing it.
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By *foru2Man 2 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
"There's plenty of guys on here that aren't very good at returning the favour. It's definitely off putting especially as Mrs WL always puts lots of effort into giving. Never come across a woman that doesn't yet.
I suppose during a meet its more important they are comfortable and enjoying what they are doing, it is obvious if someone is going through the motions and not really enjoying it.
The best oral comes from those that love doing it.
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This. Like anything else in life, if your heart (or your mouth) isn't in it, whats the point.
Personally, I enjoy receiving but not as much as I love giving to both women and men.
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I'm not sure what's more amusing to me - the idea that sex where a guy doesn't get a blowjob is 'boring' or that not reciprocating a specific sex act makes you 'selfish'.
Given how aggressive some guys get around shoving a dick down a throat it could very well be a result of unpleasant experience(s). |
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I love sucking dick . But I know a few guys that aren't all that good at returning the favour . I won't moan about it though , nothing to moan for 
However it doesn't nessisarily turn me off them . If we have a good time , we have a good time ! Xx |
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We had a meet with a VWE guy who lay back and received lots of foreplay and oral. Not only did he not do oral but did no foreplay at all.
Tried entering wife without warming her up. It was sore as he hadn’t prepared her. So she just ended the meet. |
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By *ee69Man 2 weeks ago
glasgow |
"We had a meet with a VWE guy who lay back and received lots of foreplay and oral. Not only did he not do oral but did no foreplay at all.
Tried entering wife without warming her up. It was sore as he hadn’t prepared her. So she just ended the meet. "
Don’t blame you guys
Everyone different a love giving oral but some folk don’t a guess , a love giving it to a girl then the sex is the better , I think anway lol
Nice to receive some but tbh ad rather get a nice ride lol |
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"I'm not sure what's more amusing to me - the idea that sex where a guy doesn't get a blowjob is 'boring' or that not reciprocating a specific sex act makes you 'selfish'.
Given how aggressive some guys get around shoving a dick down a throat it could very well be a result of unpleasant experience(s)."
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By *nverMan 2 weeks ago
....down the Rabbit Hole with a shotgun |
To be honest, I much prefer to give a lass oral rather than receive it. I get far too sensitive and it removes any enjoyment, for me, that might be had.
It's a definite "not bothered" over here lol
Not a deal breaker. |
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I'm.sure.im not the only woman that's had a message asking to sick their dick for absolutely nothing in return
They are the selfish ones op
The woman probably didn't like doing them and if you'd have gave her a chance probably would have pleased you in other ways |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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An ex partner never gave oral, she wasn’t comfortable with it, I love giving oral so I had no problem giving and took just as much from giving her pleasure as I would have had receiving. I’ve always said any sexual experience should be enjoyable and comfortable for all parties, being clear in boundaries is fine just don’t arrive with preconceived expectations. Giving pleasure can be pleasurable in itself, don’t be selfish, just enjoy the experience. |
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By *uffinMan 2 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Never had a bk for over 27 years. Never cum in someone's mouth either. If I did get one now I don't think I'd enjoy it.. way too stressful.
I love giving oral but again it's been 6 years since I've even had any opportunity to do it...
And I'm married!
I dunno... Any ladies want a challenge I honestly think the day of BJ's is no more..
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A bad experience can put someone off .. like guy thinking they're in a porno straight off the bat and trying to ram it down your throat , can leave a woman with a dislike for performing oral .
Just putting it out there, if she really dislikes it then why would she feel pressured or shamed into doing it ,it wouldn't be enjoyable for you nor her, no one should feel like it's something they need to do .
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I’d have thought this would have been discussed before your meet. Likes/dislikes etc?
For me, as part of the chat/social you can start to understand what turns them on, and just as importantly, what turns them off |
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Oral is just another element in the arsenal of sexual intimacy.
It's not required if you are able to substitute it with other elements.
But communication, likes, dislikes, and boundaries are the most important parts.
If compatibility isn't there, i.e., oral is a deal breaker.
Then there is no point continuing.
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"Going by the OP's name it may have been to big and put her off.
I personally love giveing oral and if its big all the more fun trying to take it all the way down  "
And I can testify she’s not too bad at it  |
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Wow, guys that don't like giving oral. Hang your head in shame and may your bellends fall off with leprosy.
For me it's the best part of sex. Do I get it right all the time? Do I bollocks. Sometimes I'm rewarded fairly quickly, other times whilst trying to breath through my ears and ass, with my jaw hanging off and my tongue about to curl up like a funfair blowy thing, she's still there trying to break me! |
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I've never had any complaints giving oral which I enjoy - even more so if it's a beautiful one and belongs to someone I'm attracted to!
I also enjoy receiving oral - and not all blokes know what they're doing  |
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Just for the record im not shaming or demending it, i have honestly never came across it before, well not scince my teens anyway, its a must do for me tho, just my thing, we all have things we like and cant do without |
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By *ndy edinMan 2 weeks ago
Edinburgh and Fife |
I'll add myself to enjoying Giving more than Receiving, there is no fun that gets me more turned on than giving to a receptive partner. Not at all fussed on expecting a return, it's a wee bonus - 90% of my fun is giving!! |
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