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By (user no longer on site) OP 19 weeks ago
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Does anyone else read a profile and think, that sounds like someone I would get on with, possibly. But you just feel that its a waste of time messaging? How do you deal with the feeling of apathy?
I'm not saying women should replynto all messages or anything like that, its not about the reciever of the message. |
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If I like a person's profile I'll always maeesge back. Its usually them messaging me and I check them out if they message catches my attention
Your probably throwing away a change at something good op. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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We all know women receive 100’s of messages, but if you don’t message you have zero chance of building anything and her seeing you. Sometimes the stars need to align - is the recipient online, checking their messages and does yours catch the eye? There’s plenty of threads in the forum on how to stand out - many I need to adopt myself!  |
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"If I like a person's profile I'll always maeesge back. Its usually them messaging me and I check them out if they message catches my attention
Your probably throwing away a change at something good op."
I message someone on here recently who I thought I’d never get a reply from and was very pleasantly surprised- go for it as long as your respectful and non pushy why not |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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I’m not good at writing messages always been a hands on guy and feel awkward writing to people I sometimes find it hard to put words down on paper so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 19 weeks ago
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"If I like a person's profile I'll always maeesge back. Its usually them messaging me and I check them out if they message catches my attention
Your probably throwing away a change at something good op.
I message someone on here recently who I thought I’d never get a reply from and was very pleasantly surprised- go for it as long as your respectful and non pushy why not "
Its more of a case of it being pointless, feels like a waste of time and effort.
Possibly time for me to leave. |
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Does anyone else read a profile and think, that sounds like someone I would get on with, possibly. But you just feel that its a waste of time messaging? How do you deal with the feeling of apathy?
I'm not saying women should replynto all messages or anything like that, its not about the reciever of the message."
I messaged a profile on here a good while back now because I thought their status update was quite funny and made me laugh.
To my surprise I got a reply now after I would say a few years on we message every other day and have chats about random things and what’s happening in our life’s.
The moral of this is if you never message then you won’t know what comes of it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 19 weeks ago
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Does anyone else read a profile and think, that sounds like someone I would get on with, possibly. But you just feel that its a waste of time messaging? How do you deal with the feeling of apathy?
I'm not saying women should replynto all messages or anything like that, its not about the reciever of the message.
I messaged a profile on here a good while back now because I thought their status update was quite funny and made me laugh.
To my surprise I got a reply now after I would say a few years on we message every other day and have chats about random things and what’s happening in our life’s.
The moral of this is if you never message then you won’t know what comes of it "
Have you ever met? |
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