Not one for posting on forums however this something that’s crossed my mind a few times during foreplay but never happened so figured I’d ask on here…
Ladies, once you have a few fingers in and are really wet would you prefer to aim for orgasm or try for more?
Given time and plenty lube do you/would you want to work up to taking a fist - is there gain?
I guess this will be down to personal preference however generally is more inside more pleasurable or is there a happy medium?
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Personally there’s a happy medium for me to be able to orgasm, but I find working up to a fist (or almost that) pleasurable, but more because I get a kick out of it rather than it feels good, if that makes sense? To orgasm, 2-3 shall do it  |
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I've never had it, but it's something that I'd love to try when I'm in a really dirty submissive play mood. Just need someone that makes me feel relaxed enough and has patience and possibly smallish hands 🙈.
On the flip side I sometimes just want gentle and sensual so it would entirely depend on my mood. My needs, wants and desires change like the weather 🤣 xx Mrs |
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"It's very much personal preference... I don't like fingers at all let alone a hand... it was done to me once and just yuck.
Quite sure other ladies love it... communication is key here!"
That’s something I hadn’t really considered before writing the post as there has almost always been foreplay with fingering before sex with anyone I’ve been with - completely agree on communication! Thanks |
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It’s a bit like butt stuff, if she is in the mood to push boundaries then you might get the green light.
It’s more popular on Fab than I was expecting though. But even if it’s an interest it’s more than likely going to be a response in the moment. |
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Yeh its a very personal thing to answer, are you aiming to fist someone?
Always best to communicate expecially while playing n if it goes that way it can, some guys just fingers feel so boney and just not pleasurable even with 1 finger n some guys fingers feel like magic lol its totally a unique experience to the people involved like all aspecs of fun
I always say i may have ticked all the boxes (on fab) but that doesnt mean im up for all my boxes being ticked |
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"Yeh its a very personal thing to answer, are you aiming to fist someone?
Always best to communicate expecially while playing n if it goes that way it can, some guys just fingers feel so boney and just not pleasurable even with 1 finger n some guys fingers feel like magic lol its totally a unique experience to the people involved like all aspecs of fun
I always say i may have ticked all the boxes (on fab) but that doesnt mean im up for all my boxes being ticked "
Totally agree with what you've said, but especially the last sentence. Sex isn't a one trick thing, sometimes you want one thing, next time you might want another. It all depends on mood.
While footings never something I've really sought out, it's something that I have indulged with my current partner. It just happened naturally for us while having sex. I'm also fortunate to have relatively small hands 🙈 |
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Fisting is great
Been with ladies that only like 2 fingers
Others ive managed whole hand in a rhythmic turning motion
Patience, rhythm and lubrication
Its down to the lady being comfortable so not alway possible |
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When I'm in the mood I love to be fisted and it's the most intense full body orgasm I've experienced. I've also fisted another woman and that was an incredible feeling. Lots of communication, patience and lube!! |
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Not that only one or 2 fingers feel bad but I always want kore, I love to feel full. It's very rare that any kind of penetrative o it's own will make me cum, but I cum so much harder and longer when I can have both internal and external stimulation |
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By *igad999Man 8 weeks ago
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Wife loves oral and fingering and that’s always the foreplay
When really turned on 3 fingers turns into 4 etc and I will push inside fully. She pushes back and once in literally she’s gushing
It’s not always a regular thing but when it happens wow
And the gape when pulling out too is such a turn on |
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"I prefer to remain tight and with a grip...
maybe if I was ran through and had a busted any pole for the hole..I'd be like those that require to be fisted "
Wow, clearly require another biology lesson, ignorant misinformed comment.  |
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"I prefer to remain tight and with a grip...
maybe if I was ran through and had a busted any pole for the hole..I'd be like those that require to be fisted "
I always look at comments after posting but this seems like the norm 👊…… sorry 🤞 |
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