This is by far a complaint in fact I like the idea of a deleted message by way of a polite no thank you from a member.
I wish though that habit was encouraged more by the admin. I cannot imagine the volume of messages the better half (well I suspect more like 1/8th) of fab receive and as a male seeking female friends I don’t expect a response unless a member is interested . I wish though that if I send a message and it’s read then the member just quickly delete, I think it would keep inboxes clear. |
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By *sWyldWoman 5 days ago
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"Why do you look at your sent messages?
To see if they have been read or not. That may u know if folk either haven't read ur msg or aren't interested "
But surely if someone's interested they will reply so you're just making yourself feel bad needlessly.
Send and forget. |
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"Why do you look at your sent messages?
To see if they have been read or not. That may u know if folk either haven't read ur msg or aren't interested
But surely if someone's interested they will reply so you're just making yourself feel bad needlessly.
Send and forget. "
Oh I don’t feel bad, I don’t like the idea of bulk sending messages to members, but at the same time I’ll clear out my inbox and sent messages regularly so before I do like to know if the person is not interested in chatting. |
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