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Very difficlut for young guys on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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erm,,,maybe go in chat sometimes...great way to get to know folk and folk to know you,,,be patient its not a sprint. 
try look at other guys profiles and see where you can improve yours,,its all about standing out from the masses.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your profile needs to stand out against the rest.
make it more positive, it's your oppotunity to sell yourself.
you ask us not to be put off by your age, yet admit it deters you from messaging. messaging is a good way to promote yourself, but just make sure you read a profile and that you and the person you message have the same goals/interests/desires.
you also say no pics, some women don't have them on their profile and keep them private until they know someone, and some women would read that as meaning that all you want are pics
above all, be positive!
(I hope that's helpful) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was having the same problem (all guys messaging me) and I only have pics of my face! I think it is harder for younger males but I supose you just have to hang in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol. As above...
What must I be doing wrong..
All help appreciated.."
Being a smoker will automatically rule some people out from meeting you.
Not being able to accommodate can be an issue for others - not just when they can't accommodate either but there's often a suspicion there's an undisclosed girlfriend/ wife in the background. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very difficult for young couples like us too 
Profiles like yours make it hard for others.
lol, make it hard for others to get intouch?  "
There's no reason why it should. It's easy to read and to the point. It says what you want and what you don't want and you don't rant and rave IN CAPITAL LETTERS (as some others do).
Happy Birthday Pretty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think i may have a cunning plan for the young male of the species. basically the profiles are all wrong there needs to be big headers saying your only here to chat and will not meet, bount to have a inbox bulging with quick meets and planned future meets after that. your only intrested in people miles and miles away this will entice the local swinger and if your into older fems specify you will only play with your age group, these older lassies will be bangin your door down now.make it well known you dont have pics and will never send any, thousands of women will be sending you pics of there tits n ass now. thee most important one clearly specify NO SINGLE WOMEN, your not gonna know what to do with your self once they see that like moths to the flame. anyways hopes this helps happy swinging x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imagine a female or a couple stood in the middle of the pitch at hampden, and the stands are full and full of single guys waving and shouting pick me,lol, thats kinda how spoilt for choice folks are on here, so maybe just having it in perspective may lessen yer anxiety bout it all?
T xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we recently spoke to a young guy , basically 4-5 years younger than us and found him to be a genuine guy.
very polite , asked questions about us and what other cpls were looking for , he also knew we were not interested but not because of his pics etc it was just the travelling.
we cant remember his username but we said he will do quite well on here with the ladies and cpls because of the way he acted with us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol. As above...
What must I be doing wrong..
All help appreciated.."
Been swinging for over 10yrs now, at no time did i ever think, "offt this is easy". |
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I have done both of those...
I did remove my 'nob pic' though, all I was getting was men lol..
I'll soldier on 
