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By *ozcd OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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This might be a bit of a moan but does anyone else wish the Aberdeen club would relax their door policy. I asked if a male/tranny couple would be admitted and the answer was no. Just wondering others thoughts.  |
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"I like the fact that single guys are not allowed. Means it's not a sausage fest like other clubs  x"
That's true, but I do also enjoy playing with a few guys at once.
Aberdeen does actually allow a small number of single guys, they just need to email and ask. I keep telling the single guys this but I'm fed up of repeating myself now so not doing it anymore.
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"Seemed to be lots of single guys last night. I got followed and grabbed by a guy a few times. Made me feel uncomfortable. Mrs "
I agree. Felt the same last night. A great night had by all but was a little on edge by the extra men. One in particular not taking the hint! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have zero experience of any swingers club. Although it seems quite scary that some men think that because they are in a club environment, it's somehow OK to behave that way. |
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"I have zero experience of any swingers club. Although it seems quite scary that some men think that because they are in a club environment, it's somehow OK to behave that way."
The majority don't, it's only a very small minority. And I've rarely had any hassle at Aberdeen. Went to After8 in Edinburgh once and was a little harassed by the barman who then shoved his tongue down my throat when I decided to leave, so not in a hurry to go back there. All the single guys I've encountered in CJs have seemed respectful but I'm aware an incident happened last time while I was in another room so can't comment.
The good thing about clubs is that if you're obviously receiving persistent and unwanted attention, other people will intervene. We have each other's backs, and that's a good thing.
The majority of people who go to clubs, and who are on here, are pretty decent folk. |
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"Seemed to be lots of single guys last night. I got followed and grabbed by a guy a few times. Made me feel uncomfortable. Mrs
I agree. Felt the same last night. A great night had by all but was a little on edge by the extra men. One in particular not taking the hint! "
May be the last line of the reply above gives you the answer why single guys are restricted. As usual, one pratt's actions impact on others. I hope he was howked and banned for ever. |
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"I wasn't asking about attending as a single guy. I would like to attend en femme with a male friend as a couple."
Would you arrive in full dress? And would you want to play as a straight couple or play wit other men? There are other days f the week you can attend if so.
I know Cj's do a tv admirer day especially as it's a different dynamic. Just don't know if there's scope to do that in Aberdeen. |
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"I wasn't asking about attending as a single guy. I would like to attend en femme with a male friend as a couple."
No one is saying you did. I answered your question by saying I didn't know but I would enquire what the policy is next time I'm there. |
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By *ozcd OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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Thanks for the offer to ask about the policy next time you are there...much appreciated x
But the thread seems to have been taken over by people complaining about single guys....which I would not be. |
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By *ozcd OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Threads tend to go off track a bit, that's normal.
The only way we'll know what Aberdeen's policy is is to ask them. I would assume for the moment that no one knows."
I did ask them last night....a woman answered the phone and didn't know when I asked...she went to ask someone then came back and said "he says no"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm gonna take a wild guess and say perhaps if they did let Cd/tv/tg is that some single men who are desperate to try the club may pop on a dress and attempt his luck at it. Not saying that should stop them letting cd/tv/tg in but it could be one of the reasons. |
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"I'm gonna take a wild guess and say perhaps if they did let Cd/tv/tg is that some single men who are desperate to try the club may pop on a dress and attempt his luck at it. Not saying that should stop them letting cd/tv/tg in but it could be one of the reasons. "
Really? You think a guy would be that desperate?
I've seen guys hang around outside hoping someone will take pity on them, but wouldn't think anyone would do that. |
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By *ozcd OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'm gonna take a wild guess and say perhaps if they did let Cd/tv/tg is that some single men who are desperate to try the club may pop on a dress and attempt his luck at it. Not saying that should stop them letting cd/tv/tg in but it could be one of the reasons. "
Damn i've been rumbled......lol
Seriously though I said to them on the phone that I wanted to attend as part of a couple with a guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm gonna take a wild guess and say perhaps if they did let Cd/tv/tg is that some single men who are desperate to try the club may pop on a dress and attempt his luck at it. Not saying that should stop them letting cd/tv/tg in but it could be one of the reasons.
Really? You think a guy would be that desperate?
I've seen guys hang around outside hoping someone will take pity on them, but wouldn't think anyone would do that."
I honestly wouldn't put it past some guys on here, not saying thats what abzsissy is about, I agree they should be more open towards mixed couples rather than the usual mf couples. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also! |
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also! "
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort"
So maybe 'The Club' needs to be run like a proper club like the one's south of the border then, so men can't just turn up with a different female everytime, as the home page is always full of men requesting partners for the night the week running up to the first Saturday of the month! |
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"Yes I would arrived dressed...i'm assuming that wouldn't be a problem?
I would play as a couple with my partner...or with anyone that might want to join in."
I have no idea. I don't know if it's ever been brought up before it's probably a grey area they would be unsure how to deal with.
If there is a demand it's maybe something for them to consider. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort"
Bald headed creepy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey all,
Being a single guy and part of the club scene I have always fancied going to the Aberdeen club but really never got round to it. I think it good to have single guys but as you say as long as they behave and don't make people uncomfortable. This is where you need to have strong owners who will tell them to leave, I was recently at a club in England.well what an experience, but I look forward to chatting to some of you lovely people next time at the club. hopefully |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Did anyone report the person causing concern and allow the management to establish who and take action in the moment.
Pointless complaining after the event and possibly tarring wrongly a very, very small grouping who are keen to get involved in the Club.
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort
Bald headed creepy? "
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Threads tend to go off track a bit, that's normal.
The only way we'll know what Aberdeen's policy is is to ask them. I would assume for the moment that no one knows.
I did ask them last night....a woman answered the phone and didn't know when I asked...she went to ask someone then came back and said "he says no" "
This is direct from their website page:
Q: As a single male, how can I get in?
A: We advise that you find a single female to bring you along to one of our nights. Please do not ask us to find someone for you, we are not that kind of service.
you can also Email direct with questions and they will reply |
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort
Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses"
Neither of these are who I'm talking about for Saturday past. He was a big guy with dark hair but no specs, I'd say close to 50.
Maybe we do need to buck up and say if someone is making us uncomfortable rather than hoping it'll go away. |
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort
Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Neither of these are who I'm talking about for Saturday past. He was a big guy with dark hair but no specs, I'd say close to 50.
Maybe we do need to buck up and say if someone is making us uncomfortable rather than hoping it'll go away. "
I usually say it to their face, but not in front of everyone because I'm not mean. The guy I'm thinking of was blatantly staring at my boobs in the jacuzzi. Not just looking, actually doing the neck sticking out thing. He said "I want to, but I won't" meaning he wanted to touch me. I just looked at him and said "don't". |
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort
Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses"
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol |
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort
Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol"
That's the dude!  |
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By *ozcd OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Threads tend to go off track a bit, that's normal.
The only way we'll know what Aberdeen's policy is is to ask them. I would assume for the moment that no one knows.
I did ask them last night....a woman answered the phone and didn't know when I asked...she went to ask someone then came back and said "he says no"
This is direct from their website page:
Q: As a single male, how can I get in?
A: We advise that you find a single female to bring you along to one of our nights. Please do not ask us to find someone for you, we are not that kind of service.
you can also Email direct with questions and they will reply"
I did e-mail through the week and they did not reply, and again I am not a single male. |
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort
Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol"
That's a bit personal. We're not all tall slim and well endowed x |
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I've never been to any club but from reading this thread it sounds to me like Aberdeen just simply want to host traditional wife swapping parties and TV/TS and no doubt other groups doesn't fit in with their business model. I imagine there are other clubs around the country that do cater for various fetishes so maybe best to just attend these than try infiltrate others. |
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"I've never been to any club but from reading this thread it sounds to me like Aberdeen just simply want to host traditional wife swapping parties and TV/TS and no doubt other groups doesn't fit in with their business model. I imagine there are other clubs around the country that do cater for various fetishes so maybe best to just attend these than try infiltrate others."
why single females then if thays the case lol
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"I wouldn't go to the club because I am a single straight female and would want to choose my own single men!
But on a side track, I have been informed that there wasn't a lot a single guys last night it was actually a guy who was part of a supposed couple that was causing the problems, so maybe just maybe the Club has it's own areas to tackle and not just on the TV/TS system but trying to entice single female also!
I'm wondering if it's the same guy who's been there the last couple of times I've attended, he didn't say anything but the way he was letching at some of the women made us uncomfortable. And he stood a little too close for comfort
Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol
That's a bit personal. We're not all tall slim and well endowed x "
How would you discribe him? X |
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Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol
That's a bit personal. We're not all tall slim and well endowed x
How would you discribe him? X"
Exactly as _oobsandballs did. Big guy, dark hair, glasses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol
That's a bit personal. We're not all tall slim and well endowed x
How would you discribe him? X
Exactly as _oobsandballs did. Big guy, dark hair, glasses. "
Ok next time il just say very creepy sleazy big guy with glasses
Him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol
That's a bit personal. We're not all tall slim and well endowed x
How would you discribe him? X
Exactly as _oobsandballs did. Big guy, dark hair, glasses.
Ok next time il just say very creepy sleazy big guy with glasses
Him x"
I'm like catchphrase. Say what you see. Why sugar coat it x |
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Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol
That's a bit personal. We're not all tall slim and well endowed x
How would you discribe him? X
Exactly as _oobsandballs did. Big guy, dark hair, glasses.
Ok next time il just say very creepy sleazy big guy with glasses
Him x
I'm like catchphrase. Say what you see. Why sugar coat it x"
I just prefer to be a decent human being.
Never judge a book by its cover. Can't say anything nice, say nothing. Things aren't always what they seem... Hakuna Matata.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bald headed creepy?
No. Big guy, dark hair, glasses
Ah yeah big belly wee willy always standing in doorways and rooms with doors over lol
That's a bit personal. We're not all tall slim and well endowed x
How would you discribe him? X
Exactly as _oobsandballs did. Big guy, dark hair, glasses.
Ok next time il just say very creepy sleazy big guy with glasses
Him x
I'm like catchphrase. Say what you see. Why sugar coat it x
I just prefer to be a decent human being.
Never judge a book by its cover. Can't say anything nice, say nothing. Things aren't always what they seem... Hakuna Matata.
Love a bumper sticker me. "
I'm not judging a book by it's cover. I'm saying what the book cover looks like. That's all
Him x |
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By *azallCouple
over a year ago
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i have just enjoyed reading this whole thread, our policy of no single males is at our customers request, some like not to be harassed by the ones who don't adhere to the 'rules' but there are singles who meet up to come in as a couple, their choice and we will occasionally allow a couple to bring a single as long as they vouch for them.....as happened on a special lady's birthday, we do answer emails unless we are away sitting in the sun, we try to make a welcoming atmosphere for all our customers but as is human nature we cannot do that 100% of the time, come and join us and have some fun, love from me and him xxxxx |
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