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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had one couple asking for gifts....saying it's a fetish thing. To be brought anything from Chanel by a complete stranger apparently drives her crazy.
Personally I'd call that being a chancer?! lol |
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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"I've had one couple asking for gifts....saying it's a fetish thing. To be brought anything from Chanel by a complete stranger apparently drives her crazy.
Personally I'd call that being a chancer?! lol"
 it would drive me crazy too  what a chancer |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I've had one couple asking for gifts....saying it's a fetish thing. To be brought anything from Chanel by a complete stranger apparently drives her crazy.
Personally I'd call that being a chancer?! lol"
A quick 'exit stage left' I would have thought.   |
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I've had someone buy me lingerie and a few other naughty items before but that was someone I met on a semi-regular basis rather than a one off meet.
Surprisingly I've had quite a few offers on here to buy me stuff but I've never taken anyone up on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the women who've met me have brought gifts, from chocolate body paint to several of their girlfriends!
Of course the people I've met so far have been theoretical, but good sports nonetheless! |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Yes.
But only silly things and only because we are friends 
What like? "
I've been given furry dice, cakes, a yorkie bar, a pair of boxer shorts a while back.......
Personal, silly gifts that whilst they don't cost a lot, show we are friends and that our friendship is important
I'm waiting for plastic knives and scissors now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
But only silly things and only because we are friends
What like?
I've been given furry dice, cakes, a yorkie bar, a pair of boxer shorts a while back.......
Personal, silly gifts that whilst they don't cost a lot, show we are friends and that our friendship is important
I'm waiting for plastic knives and scissors now "
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Never done, nor experienced it, but I do know of one profile on here where they ask for a monetary contribution towards travel/petrol costs, clothes upkeep and makeup used for the meet. Plus something from their Amazon wish-list.
If anything it's a good way to keep some folk away. |
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"Yes.
But only silly things and only because we are friends
What like?
I've been given furry dice, cakes, a yorkie bar, a pair of boxer shorts a while back.......
Personal, silly gifts that whilst they don't cost a lot, show we are friends and that our friendship is important
I'm waiting for plastic knives and scissors now
Noted "
Not even plastic ones for goodness sake he's getting crayons not that he'll have much to do with them no paper in case he cuts himself with that |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Yes.
But only silly things and only because we are friends
What like?
I've been given furry dice, cakes, a yorkie bar, a pair of boxer shorts a while back.......
Personal, silly gifts that whilst they don't cost a lot, show we are friends and that our friendship is important
I'm waiting for plastic knives and scissors now
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Not even plastic ones for goodness sake he's getting crayons not that he'll have much to do with them no paper in case he cuts himself with that "
Bitch  |
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"Yes.
But only silly things and only because we are friends
What like?
I've been given furry dice, cakes, a yorkie bar, a pair of boxer shorts a while back.......
Personal, silly gifts that whilst they don't cost a lot, show we are friends and that our friendship is important
I'm waiting for plastic knives and scissors now
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Not even plastic ones for goodness sake he's getting crayons not that he'll have much to do with them no paper in case he cuts himself with that
Bitch "
Brave words oh short one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im out a fecking fortune with Women ..
Chocolates wine food baby oil blindfolds handcuffs skooshy cream ..the list is endless ..honestly ..ya couldnae make it up ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I finally met someone after speaking for ages. He was Irish and we didn't think it would ever happen but suddenly he got the chance to work here and we met regularly as much as we could for three mad months. When he left he bought me a silver necklace which was so sweet but by that time we did consider each other friends too. Another regular friend bought me a rather nice bottle of champange but again someone that became a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had one couple asking for gifts....saying it's a fetish thing. To be brought anything from Chanel by a complete stranger apparently drives her crazy.
Personally I'd call that being a chancer?! lol"
Definitely  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"Personally ..I dont see any need to exchange gifts...
The only special gift you can give and recieve is both your undivided attention.
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I agree. But sometimes a little silly gift can make the world of difference to a friend |
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"Personally ..I dont see any need to exchange gifts...
The only special gift you can give and recieve is both your undivided attention.
I agree. But sometimes a little silly gift can make the world of difference to a friend "
You promised shoes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally ..I dont see any need to exchange gifts...
The only special gift you can give and recieve is both your undivided attention.
I agree. But sometimes a little silly gift can make the world of difference to a friend "
Definitely... especially when it's unexpected  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally ..I dont see any need to exchange gifts...
The only special gift you can give and recieve is both your undivided attention.
I agree. But sometimes a little silly gift can make the world of difference to a friend
You promised shoes "
Ohhhh shoes |
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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Personally ..I dont see any need to exchange gifts...
The only special gift you can give and recieve is both your undivided attention.
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Of course there isn't any need. People do have friends on here or regular play mates so there's no harm |
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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"I've been given an emoji poo pillow and slippers
Lol that's lovely "
Aww it really is.
I'd never expect anything from a one off meet but when it's someone you know well it's a lovely surprise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been given an emoji poo pillow and slippers
Lol that's lovely
Aww it really is.
I'd never expect anything from a one off meet but when it's someone you know well it's a lovely surprise "
Exactly it's utterly charming and thoughtful when it's from someone you know well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was giving a cock extension because my cock was to small !
I appreciated the honesty , but cried myself to sleep the same night , I'm not afraid to admit ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry Gifts on a meet ...Naw..
A site for consenting Adults too participate in sexual explorian ..
Its not Swap Shop Thanks Giving Day or Pass the Parcel ...
Its Swinging ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a woman who flew in to meet me, hired a car and rented a country cottage for 3 days. I bought her some flowers for the cottage. God what a cheep bastard. "
lolol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres Two Lesbians live across the road from me..i was over-whelmed when they got me a Rolex for my 40th ..
I think they misunderstood when i said ....
I wanted a Watch ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone once bought me a house! No shit! 
Gingerbread house? One of those you decorate yourself like you get at Christmas? ? "
In the long run that'd have been easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could possibly entice ya with ..a packet of Maynards Wine Gums ..2 btls of Volvic Water and a packet of Super Noodles ?
Have a think about it ..its a lot too take in ....
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"I could possibly entice ya with ..a packet of Maynards Wine Gums ..2 btls of Volvic Water and a packet of Super Noodles ?
Have a think about it ..its a lot too take in ....
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if that was to me... then, wine gums- yum.. my favourite...
the Volvic, how about we go really wild & have a bottle each?!
as for the noodles... i think i will pass... you can keep them all to yourself
haha
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could possibly entice ya with ..a packet of Maynards Wine Gums ..2 btls of Volvic Water and a packet of Super Noodles ?
Have a think about it ..its a lot too take in ....
if that was to me... then, wine gums- yum.. my favourite...
the Volvic, how about we go really wild & have a bottle each?!
as for the noodles... i think i will pass... you can keep them all to yourself
haha
xxx"
Some Women dont half take it oot ya ..but ok ...
i said that innocently ....
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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Sorry Gifts on a meet ...Naw..
A site for consenting Adults too participate in sexual explorian ..
Its not Swap Shop Thanks Giving Day or Pass the Parcel ...
Its Swinging ..
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You are missing the point I made. A lot of people on here have been friends for years so receiving a gift from someone is no different to being given one from a vanilla friend. Not one person has said they expect to be given something. It's is a swingers sex site so of course they wouldn't but clearly people do give gifts, whether it's because it's their birthday or just because.
Please don't drag this down to be something seedy. That wasn't the intention of the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I took someone a box of Krispy Kreme once .. that's as lavish as I get for a first meet
I bought someone else a lego set but it was his birthday and I had met him a few times "
love Lego |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry Gifts on a meet ...Naw..
A site for consenting Adults too participate in sexual explorian ..
Its not Swap Shop Thanks Giving Day or Pass the Parcel ...
Its Swinging ..
You are missing the point I made. A lot of people on here have been friends for years so receiving a gift from someone is no different to being given one from a vanilla friend. Not one person has said they expect to be given something. It's is a swingers sex site so of course they wouldn't but clearly people do give gifts, whether it's because it's their birthday or just because.
Please don't drag this down to be something seedy. That wasn't the intention of the thread. "
Ive not missed any point....Im fully aware that that interaction with others can lead too friendships.Ive seen this for years and also seen the fall-outs too.I totally understand the concept of friendship and the purpose of gifts.Im not ruling out its not a kind gesture.
Just in my personal opinion i would somehow feel embarrassed humble to be on the recieving end of such gifts.
Some may see the gift thing differently ..
I did wind the post up a bit ..lolol
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So inviting people over for a B.B.Q. & asking them to bring a grill is inappropriate..? Who knew  ? See: in my upbringing, arriving empty-handed is what's in "Bad taste", or rude amongst certain circles..!
Plus: is fine, if the right rum accompanies it..! |
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