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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're new to the swinging scene and we're looking at attending Cjs for the first time, what is people's opinions on it? Like what's the atmosphere like, is the staff friendly, is there anyone hanging about the rooms just watching etc...? |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also really helpful.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only been once, the staff were friendly enough, the clientele not so much. Definitely wouldn't go back but your experience will probably differ from ours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been twice now and will most certainly be going back. 
The venue is good and plenty of areas to have fun. It's a very broad spectrum of customers and we had chatted to people we like on here first and arranged to meet them there.
Staff have been good and provide a friendly atmosphere.
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By *igsawsCouple
over a year ago
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Everyone will have their own experiences, like any club, but we can definitely vouch for enjoying it. Lovely staff, very welcoming and safety is always a priority (I went solo before I met Mr).
We've been plenty of times as a couple and enjoyed both the social and sexy nature of it. Downstairs is social, quite like a house party with BOYB and free soft drinks/tea/food. Upstairs is lots of sexy rooms: private, open or a basic dungeon. Often busier upstairs as the night progresses.
We seem to be preferring Couples + single fems nights at moment but all depends what you are into. They have lots of different nights to suit different tastes 
Always got plenty of friendly faces about, but it's what you make of it. First time I went, CJ gave me a lovely tour, then I walked up and said hello to a group, 11 months on we are great friends Chatting to people before hand to meet, and just saying hi can be a brilliant way to meet people socially (who you then might want to play with later, or meet elsewhere )
Ramble over.. Good luck!! and if you have any questions/concerns CJ has a page on here, or you can always message us for anecdotal advice.
Kisses
Mrs J xx |
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It is what you make of it, if you go and hide in a corner expecting people to come and do the hard work then you might call the place cliquey but if you go with an open mind and approach people then you'll love the place
It's non pushy and great staff who are always approachable
John  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great club the new venue is ideal people who go see mostly very friendly single males are limited so aren't a nuisance if worried about them go on couples night a few of the private rooms upstairs lock if you want to play in private or small group loads of areas to chat or dance downstairs |
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"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
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Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day. |
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Wouldnt say its a look at me post. its only a token fee for single fems which they more than make up for bringing their own drink. Plus they know guys must behave or out they go. On top of that everyone and anyone wants them win win surely |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day. "
And that opinion is exactly why that's all I would ever do. There is often an air of desperation amoung some people. An anything will do because that's what they go to do. It's not my style. However I'm sure it works for them and that's all that matters.
Surely in a swinging club you should be free to do what you wish so long as your respectful of others? |
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"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day.
And that opinion is exactly why that's all I would ever do. There is often an air of desperation amoung some people. An anything will do because that's what they go to do. It's not my style. However I'm sure it works for them and that's all that matters.
Surely in a swinging club you should be free to do what you wish so long as your respectful of others? "
Why go to swinging club with no intention of playing ? |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day.
And that opinion is exactly why that's all I would ever do. There is often an air of desperation amoung some people. An anything will do because that's what they go to do. It's not my style. However I'm sure it works for them and that's all that matters.
Surely in a swinging club you should be free to do what you wish so long as your respectful of others?
Why go to swinging club with no intention of playing ? "
What so anyone there is fair game? Bit of a dangerous attitude is it not? |
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"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day.
And that opinion is exactly why that's all I would ever do. There is often an air of desperation amoung some people. An anything will do because that's what they go to do. It's not my style. However I'm sure it works for them and that's all that matters.
Surely in a swinging club you should be free to do what you wish so long as your respectful of others?
Why go to swinging club with no intention of playing ?
What so anyone there is fair game? Bit of a dangerous attitude is it not? "
We just don't understand why you would go ! Nobody is fair game. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day.
And that opinion is exactly why that's all I would ever do. There is often an air of desperation amoung some people. An anything will do because that's what they go to do. It's not my style. However I'm sure it works for them and that's all that matters.
Surely in a swinging club you should be free to do what you wish so long as your respectful of others?
Why go to swinging club with no intention of playing ?
What so anyone there is fair game? Bit of a dangerous attitude is it not?
We just don't understand why you would go ! Nobody is fair game. "
I went to meet with friends to socialise. It's not rocket science. And I'm quite sure there are many people attending clubs all over the world for the same reason. There should never be any pressure to play. I also imagine going with that as your only aim could get a little disappointing too if you don't find anyone you like enough or if you don't appeal to them.
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"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day.
And that opinion is exactly why that's all I would ever do. There is often an air of desperation amoung some people. An anything will do because that's what they go to do. It's not my style. However I'm sure it works for them and that's all that matters.
Surely in a swinging club you should be free to do what you wish so long as your respectful of others?
Why go to swinging club with no intention of playing ?
What so anyone there is fair game? Bit of a dangerous attitude is it not?
We just don't understand why you would go ! Nobody is fair game.
I went to meet with friends to socialise. It's not rocket science. And I'm quite sure there are many people attending clubs all over the world for the same reason. There should never be any pressure to play. I also imagine going with that as your only aim could get a little disappointing too if you don't find anyone you like enough or if you don't appeal to them.
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Should have read your profile to realise your approach. But how you can offer advice and comment on cjs is quite ridiculous. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
"As with most things it's probably best to try it for yourself. Lots of people love it. Some attend often. Some only once.
Personally it's not the sort of place I would go to do anything more than socialise with people and I don't imagine I will be back anytime soon.
However my experience is as a single woman and I imagine it's very different for couples.
In general people are respectful,friendly and chat away. The owners are also
Why go to venue like cjs just to socialise ? You never heard of pubs ? What a look at me post.
We enjoy cjs . Staff are great . But like any club it's dependent on clientele on the day.
And that opinion is exactly why that's all I would ever do. There is often an air of desperation amoung some people. An anything will do because that's what they go to do. It's not my style. However I'm sure it works for them and that's all that matters.
Surely in a swinging club you should be free to do what you wish so long as your respectful of others?
Why go to swinging club with no intention of playing ?
What so anyone there is fair game? Bit of a dangerous attitude is it not?
We just don't understand why you would go ! Nobody is fair game.
I went to meet with friends to socialise. It's not rocket science. And I'm quite sure there are many people attending clubs all over the world for the same reason. There should never be any pressure to play. I also imagine going with that as your only aim could get a little disappointing too if you don't find anyone you like enough or if you don't appeal to them.
Should have read your profile to realise your approach. But how you can offer advice and comment on cjs is quite ridiculous. "
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To be fair you are calling into question her reasons for being here im not calling into question your reasons but a quick read of your profile dosnt seem like swinging imo so just as you expect people to accept you should you not accept others ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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99% of the time i go to cjs with the intention of just socialising. I enjoy the atmosphere and the fact its a safe enviroment to meet new people in and if we get on arrange something in the future.
As someone said cjs is what you make it and can be used how you want, be that to play with 5 people or none.
As for the op everyone has different views of cjs, i enjoy it but id say you need to try it for yourself. X |
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By *igsawsCouple
over a year ago
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I see absolutely no reason why people couldn't go along to cjs for the social side. With all the problems of no shows, fantasists, time wasters etc meeting at cjs allows you to see people who you might later decide to play with on the night or meet more privately later on. Also, it could be daunting for some to invite someone over to their house after only chatting on here. Meeting them at a relaxed club like cjs where you can easily talk without being drowned out by music & also chat away about all things sexual in a comfortable environment means that you can get a feel for whether you want to meet them again privately.
You might as well ask why people meet socially anywhere. It's all in the shared interests. OP, go along to cjs. You'll be made to feel comfortable & you can choose to be as social or as sexually explorative as you choose.
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
East kilbride |
"I see absolutely no reason why people couldn't go along to cjs for the social side. With all the problems of no shows, fantasists, time wasters etc meeting at cjs allows you to see people who you might later decide to play with on the night or meet more privately later on. Also, it could be daunting for some to invite someone over to their house after only chatting on here. Meeting them at a relaxed club like cjs where you can easily talk without being drowned out by music & also chat away about all things sexual in a comfortable environment means that you can get a feel for whether you want to meet them again privately.
You might as well ask why people meet socially anywhere. It's all in the shared interests. OP, go along to cjs. You'll be made to feel comfortable & you can choose to be as social or as sexually explorative as you choose.
Mr J"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been to cjs once and just played together.
We would go back and we wouldn't have a problem going to just socialise. Maybe you don't understand it but surely you should just accept it. We aren't all on here for the same reasons.
Anyway we found cjs a very relaxed atmosphere. People will come and talk to you and welcome you to speak to them, which doesn't always happen in pubs lol. Its a great way to meet people and get to know them if you want to build a bond with people or get to know them better before playing with them
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Oh there are certainly friendly people that will make you feel welcome and who integrate with everyone on the other hand there are little cliquey groups who always stick together after even trying to sit with them etc you get completely blanked and when you call them out on it still get blanked lovely mature behaviour some people want to just swing with the same group of people all the time we just wanted to feel welcome were made to by most but there are definitely wee groups that are just plain rude and immature a select few of the 'younger' crowd I may add didn't want to fuck any of you but just to be made to feel welcome would have been nice they could not have been any more stand offish and high school if they had tried lol |
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"Oh there are certainly friendly people that will make you feel welcome and who integrate with everyone on the other hand there are little cliquey groups who always stick together after even trying to sit with them etc you get completely blanked and when you call them out on it still get blanked lovely mature behaviour some people want to just swing with the same group of people all the time we just wanted to feel welcome were made to by most but there are definitely wee groups that are just plain rude and immature a select few of the 'younger' crowd I may add didn't want to fuck any of you but just to be made to feel welcome would have been nice they could not have been any more stand offish and high school if they had tried lol "
Ironically I was the opposite! I had to spend a full night getting growled at by a woman nearly 20 years older for no reason at all! Totally puts me off ever going alone  |
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We don't get out to play together as much as we'd like so id be a bit disappointed if we went to a club and had no fun, that said I can totally see why (particularly for single girls) it's a good safe place to chat to people with a view to maybe meetin at a future date. |
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