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Newbie Here -- Single Guy Frustration!.?!,? ArGh!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Only been on a couple of days, spent hours poss even close to a day, reading profiles and writing messages back(50 messages in total). Chatting in the Scotland room and had very little replies, IN FACT, make that NONE!
I must be a total shrek!
Any feedback appreciated!
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hi ya you say single guy frustration in fact (and at least you have not lied) you are married and maybe the age does come into it too anyway just my 2ps worth as alot of women wontmeet married men and some of us have son's older than you .
Take Care Bren xx
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I must be a total shrek!
Any feedback appreciated!
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As Bren has said, the fact you're married will put some ladies off. Then your willingness to meet 18-99 and your long list of interests (I think you've ticked every box) could be seen at best as 'not very fussy' and at worst as desperate. Then there's the fact you can't accommodate.
Given your honesty about your marital status that's entirely understandable but it'll still reduce the number of women you could expect to be interested in you. Given the drawbacks I've mentioned you're going to have to be exceptional to stand out from the crowd and that's all down to the effort you put into the messages you send. That bit's down to you.
You mention an interest in dogging. Have none of the couples you've met suggested you join them at their place or that they invite you as their guest to a party? What about getting a few wee cards photocopied with brief contact details - your username and your fun phone number (you have a fun phone, don't you?)
What about any of the upcoming socials? I believe they're heavily booked but there may still be spaces somewhere.
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By *oonboyMan
over a year ago
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hmmmm only been on a cpl of days huh?? this isnt a coconut shy where u log on and get a shag if you hit the right profile !!!!
alot of the other comments i totally agree with, but the very nature of your post suggests that a) your desperate and b) your unwilling to build up a friendship with folk on here before you untimatley meet them.
i suggest you chill a tad and let the mountain come to mohammed....rome wasnt built in a day ....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm well either...you have a new profile..or someone has used ur pic..however...to the point at hand..
Contrary to popular belief..its not the norm for people to come on here and 20 mins later be having hot sex! lol
Patience is the key. You need to take the time to chat or send messages back and forth..building a rapport. Equally as there are so many single men, you do need to stand out to those you message.
Keep at it and shine..then im sure you will reap the rewards
Vol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone kindly said. 'Patience is a virtue'. Ive learned to give people alot of time and respect on fab and they will seek you out. Tis a marathon and not a sprint.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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get used to it , its the way it is around here , yes patience is a good thing but fact is there are loads and loads of single guys on here and couples , women can choose who they want , try narrowing it dwn a bit to those who you feel might have a genuine interest in you . if your already doing that id say you are on the right track , these things take time and some people wait months for their first meet , good luck though ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least he is honest  "
erm .. opens post with " Newbie Here -- Single Guy Frustration!.?!,? ArGh!"
click profile opening line "I'm a married (yes married!) guy" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least he is honest
erm .. opens post with " Newbie Here -- Single Guy Frustration!.?!,? ArGh!"
click profile opening line "I'm a married (yes married!) guy""
at least his profile is honest tells folk what they need to know! No beating about the bush first thing he says is he is married! Just needs to practice posting the correct wording in the forum so everyone is happy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there is a lot of ignorant users on here that's for sure so you ant the only 1
just make you wonder why they join a site a just see your message delete without reading it
just make me think they who they say they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At least he is honest
erm .. opens post with " Newbie Here -- Single Guy Frustration!.?!,? ArGh!"
click profile opening line "I'm a married (yes married!) guy"
at least his profile is honest tells folk what they need to know! No beating about the bush first thing he says is he is married! Just needs to practice posting the correct wording in the forum so everyone is happy! "
I agree, he is married if u dont like it dont meet him!!!!! but as for the "new" member...is this entirely accurate????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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emm maybe im seeing things but dont u have another profile under a diff name and yet ure saying uve just joined??? maybe just me or maybe u have a twin from the same town with the same name and no mention of being married in ure other profile??? v strange!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least he is honest
erm .. opens post with " Newbie Here -- Single Guy Frustration!.?!,? ArGh!"
click profile opening line "I'm a married (yes married!) guy""
yea titti mite be diff age but its deffo same guy lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not your bestest move dude but to be fair you have always been a very decent guy in the chat room and forum so wish you well.
view whispers 'delete ASAP' and revert to the other... dont think folks have noticed.. apart fae Fab's cagney and lacey , oops meant titti and stunna xx |
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"not your bestest move dude but to be fair you have always been a very decent guy in the chat room and forum so wish you well.
view whispers 'delete ASAP' and revert to the other... dont think folks have noticed.. apart fae Fab's cagney and lacey , oops meant titti and stunna xx
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pmsl view i asked who he was lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sorry it's the columbo in me coming out
but if someone is being dishonest ppl are going hit back, ppl don't like getting took for fools, and guys have a bad time as it is on here
if he is not the same guy from the other profile well fare do, i hold my hand up and apologize and wish him well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i agree it is very hard being a single male on a swinging website such as fabs purley because there is a massive amount of males, so the competition is pretty big. As a single you gotta stand out, decent pics, decent profile and respect goes a long long way. You must know how to chat to folks, no lines such as fancy a fuck etc.......The good ones do stand out.....come along to the social events advertised in the scots forum, best way to meet folks.
I have a feeling i have seen you post in the forums before under another id saying the same thing.....If so you are not a new member atall, honesty is the best policy hun. Stick to one profile, come along to some of the social events where there are anything from 100 to 200 members attending, couples and singles.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im married guy and as people say waiting your time some cpls will reply and have chatted with some and met 1 so its not all negative but you have to take time.
on maried point always been up front as believe it right people make choices that they are comfortable with and not spring supprise on them. If they not wanting to get involved i simple wish them good luck |
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