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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago
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That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her 
We're going on a date next week  kidding x |
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x "
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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x
Crazy crazy lady.... RUN FAST "
No need! She doesn't even know me |
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x
Crazy crazy lady.... RUN FAST
No need! She doesn't even know me "
You hope lol |
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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x
Crazy crazy lady.... RUN FAST
No need! She doesn't even know me
You hope lol "
Shit!!! |
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x
Crazy crazy lady.... RUN FAST
No need! She doesn't even know me
You hope lol
Shit!!!"
Ohhhhhhhh Dannnny........... |
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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x
Crazy crazy lady.... RUN FAST
No need! She doesn't even know me
You hope lol
Shit!!!
Ohhhhhhhh Dannnny........... "
Nothing moving house won't solve |
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Just had the same as you. Because I can't accommodate at the moment(I've become a carer for a terminally ill family member) a certain woman on here launched into a tirade that I must be cheating, my friends on here are mugs, I'm sad for not having my own place(she went slightly quiet after I told her I had my own home previously) then refused to apologise when I pulled her up. No need for some poor manners for whatever reason |
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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just had the same as you. Because I can't accommodate at the moment(I've become a carer for a terminally ill family member) a certain woman on here launched into a tirade that I must be cheating, my friends on here are mugs, I'm sad for not having my own place(she went slightly quiet after I told her I had my own home previously) then refused to apologise when I pulled her up. No need for some poor manners for whatever reason"
Sorry to hear that man. That's shocking.
I think my motto is : real life comes first! |
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"did she just message you out the blue? or was it a reply to your message?
Out of the blue."
Sort of, messaged her a couple of months back, as her profile said she was looking for a social meet and she replied she wasn't interested as I couldn't accomodate, so it was left at that. This morning I checked my messages and she said anyone who meets me is a mug, I must be a cheat as I don't accom. I explained I have some friends on here who don't think that, and I got the tirade of they are mugs, I'm sad as I'm 39 and don't have my own place, I'm must be cheating as over 95% of cheats on here can't accom etc. She is always on about 'haters' on her status update so think she has made a bit of a name of herself as a cheeky cow |
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Those types of message to me say more about the sender than anything else .
Good to out the cracks pots from the off lol .
Fortunately lots of lovely folks on here so don't give the others any thought what so ever.
If messages abusive is definitely report . If just talking complete shite then the block button is your friend  |
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"Those types of message to me say more about the sender than anything else .
Good to out the cracks pots from the off lol .
Fortunately lots of lovely folks on here so don't give the others any thought what so ever.
If messages abusive is definitely report . If just talking complete shite then the block button is your friend "
She was downright nasty, and the only reason I got the abuse is that I can't accom. She is always ranting about her 'haters' on her status updates, and If she behaves the way she has towards me, I'm not at all surprised |
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"Just had the same as you. Because I can't accommodate at the moment(I've become a carer for a terminally ill family member) a certain woman on here launched into a tirade that I must be cheating, my friends on here are mugs, I'm sad for not having my own place(she went slightly quiet after I told her I had my own home previously) then refused to apologise when I pulled her up. No need for some poor manners for whatever reason
Sorry to hear that man. That's shocking.
I think my motto is : real life comes first!"
Many of us have kids and complicated lives that we choose not to accommodate. I personally think if I meet at organised socials and Cj's/clubs it's safer. Plus you don't have to worry about trying to get them to leave Michelle does that for you when she starts playing my way on repeat ha ha |
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"Those types of message to me say more about the sender than anything else .
Good to out the cracks pots from the off lol .
Fortunately lots of lovely folks on here so don't give the others any thought what so ever.
If messages abusive is definitely report . If just talking complete shite then the block button is your friend
She was downright nasty, and the only reason I got the abuse is that I can't accom. She is always ranting about her 'haters' on her status updates, and If she behaves the way she has towards me, I'm not at all surprised"
shocking but if its the profile I suspect it is then not entirly surprised either . |
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"Those types of message to me say more about the sender than anything else .
Good to out the cracks pots from the off lol .
Fortunately lots of lovely folks on here so don't give the others any thought what so ever.
If messages abusive is definitely report . If just talking complete shite then the block button is your friend
She was downright nasty, and the only reason I got the abuse is that I can't accom. She is always ranting about her 'haters' on her status updates, and If she behaves the way she has towards me, I'm not at all surprisedshocking but if its the profile I suspect it is then not entirly surprised either ."
. It's a name of something you may have for breakfast or with tea |
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"Those types of message to me say more about the sender than anything else .
Good to out the cracks pots from the off lol .
Fortunately lots of lovely folks on here so don't give the others any thought what so ever.
If messages abusive is definitely report . If just talking complete shite then the block button is your friend
She was downright nasty, and the only reason I got the abuse is that I can't accom. She is always ranting about her 'haters' on her status updates, and If she behaves the way she has towards me, I'm not at all surprisedshocking but if its the profile I suspect it is then not entirly surprised either .. It's a name of something you may have for breakfast or with tea "
thought that |
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"Just had the same as you. Because I can't accommodate at the moment(I've become a carer for a terminally ill family member) a certain woman on here launched into a tirade that I must be cheating, my friends on here are mugs, I'm sad for not having my own place(she went slightly quiet after I told her I had my own home previously) then refused to apologise when I pulled her up. No need for some poor manners for whatever reason
Sorry to hear that man. That's shocking.
I think my motto is : real life comes first!"
Cheers for that. Good man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The daily abuse on the forums that single guys get is getting ridiculous
Where as the more I hear about some single chicks is shocking!!
Why would someone out the blue message a stranger and tear strips of him because he can't accom?
Some chicks seriously need to take a look at themselves
Obviously no life of their own
Keyboard warriors
Sad really |
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"The daily abuse on the forums that single guys get is getting ridiculous
Where as the more I hear about some single chicks is shocking!!
Why would someone out the blue message a stranger and tear strips of him because he can't accom?
Some chicks seriously need to take a look at themselves.
Obviously no life of their own
Keyboard warriors
Sad really "
True, thanks for the acknowledgement |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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There are many reasons people don't or can't accommodate. The abusive messages received by this particular member is why they're banned from the forums.
I've spoken to and met some of the people on this thread and they are the nicest people I know. No one needs to justify why they can't accommodate as the circumstances are not important. Not everyone on here is a cheat.
I've been on the receiving end of this member's malicious messages both on here and off the site. They are delusional and won't accept what I said to them. Report and block is the only solution.
And yes this member has even blamed me for warning people not to meet them. |
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"There are many reasons people don't or can't accommodate. The abusive messages received by this particular member is why they're banned from the forums.
I've spoken to and met some of the people on this thread and they are the nicest people I know. No one needs to justify why they can't accommodate as the circumstances are not important. Not everyone on here is a cheat.
I've been on the receiving end of this member's malicious messages both on here and off the site. They are delusional and won't accept what I said to them. Report and block is the only solution.
And yes this member has even blamed me for warning people not to meet them."
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"The daily abuse on the forums that single guys get is getting ridiculous
Where as the more I hear about some single chicks is shocking!!
Why would someone out the blue message a stranger and tear strips of him because he can't accom?
Some chicks seriously need to take a look at themselves
Obviously no life of their own
Keyboard warriors
Sad really "
this wont be liked the answer is because fems are in god mode on fab because a very high percentage allow them to behave how they want in order to possibly maybe hopefully get a meet.
you read all the time fems have all the power on fab bla bla bla. They simply dont they only have power when its given. Maybe if folk stopped placing them on a pedastal they would realise they are just mortal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's always a back story to strange behaviour like this. Most likely, it's something going on in their lives that's impacting on their mental health. On a site where you don't know them, you are anonymous and are never going to meet them, you'll never know why. Or probably, care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not all females on Fab are on Goddess mode, some of us appreciate that we are mere mortals with stretch marks, perhaps carrying a few pounds more and in no way the personification of feminine beauty. Conversely not all single guys are rampant future sex offenders with the social skills of a rattlesnake.
There are male and females on here who could do with lessons in good manners and basic decency towards fellow site members, much the same in life. If a female member has been as abusive as the OP suggests deleting, blocking and reporting might well be the best tact. Her attitude and approach says more about her than the OP's perceived shortcomings in not being able to accommodate. |
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Meant to add but pressed 'send' instead....what was said in 'her' messages is not acceptable, personal problems or not.
There are most certainly nice people here and most ladies I know from here are not divas. Just keep sifting out the dross. |
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Like I've said I didn't do anything and never expected to have anything as bad as I did today. Don't get a great deal or responses or messages, but if I have and the people haven't been interested, I've had the like of thanks but no thanks, sorry but not what I'm looking for, all very polite- but a load of insults PURELY because I can't accommodate was a shocker |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all females on Fab are on Goddess mode, some of us appreciate that we are mere mortals with stretch marks, perhaps carrying a few pounds more and in no way the personification of feminine beauty. Conversely not all single guys are rampant future sex offenders with the social skills of a rattlesnake.
There are male and females on here who could do with lessons in good manners and basic decency towards fellow site members, much the same in life. If a female member has been as abusive as the OP suggests deleting, blocking and reporting might well be the best tact. Her attitude and approach says more about her than the OP's perceived shortcomings in not being able to accommodate."
Well said fem...not all chicks on here act like that...
God I'm only here to get a decent shag!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The pen is mightier than the sword! It can hurt without drawing blood!
Unfortunately words hurt and they can't be unheard/unread the damage is done.
Sending hugs to anyone that needs them. xxx"
Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me.
Or something like that....  |
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By *anny77 OP Man
over a year ago
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"The pen is mightier than the sword! It can hurt without drawing blood!
Unfortunately words hurt and they can't be unheard/unread the damage is done.
Sending hugs to anyone that needs them. xxx
Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me.
Or something like that.... "
That's the one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The pen is mightier than the sword! It can hurt without drawing blood!
Unfortunately words hurt and they can't be unheard/unread the damage is done.
Sending hugs to anyone that needs them. xxx
Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me.
Or something like that....
That's the one "
Did something mention whips and chains
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"Just had the same as you. Because I can't accommodate at the moment(I've become a carer for a terminally ill family member) a certain woman on here launched into a tirade that I must be cheating, my friends on here are mugs, I'm sad for not having my own place(she went slightly quiet after I told her I had my own home previously) then refused to apologise when I pulled her up. No need for some poor manners for whatever reason"
The assumptions folk make on here..............grrrrr |
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Unbelievable! I've just looked at my messages and the member who sent me abusive messsages, sent me another using a couples profile and accussed me of feeling sorry for myself, being pathetic because I've posted on the forum, what she has said and the way she has behaved. She has no idea or seems to deluded to realise that abusing folk for no reason is unacceptable- I've reported it and blocked her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think fab is like any part of life there will be people we like people we don't and so on if someone messages you and you don't like it block them move on as we are never all going to get on it's just life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That just launched into an attack on your gender? I got emailed yesterday by someone (I know I can't name names) that seemed to hold me personally accountable for every wrong that had ever been committed against her even though I've never met her
We're going on a date next week kidding x "
Maybe it's my ex wife, and she thought you were me?
Seriously, though, it does sound like a worrying situation. I would be concerned that she did know me, in the real world. There is a female out there who did blame me for her downfall at work, despite evidence to the contrary, and I had to move to another work location, and change phone numbers, to stop threats and harrassment. It was very frightening for me and my family for a while. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I too had an issue on a Facebook group. The mods soon sorted the issue and others were able to corroborate what I was saying and that I wasn't a fraud. It's hurtful when it comes from a support group. |
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"I had a random messaging people on my verification list telling them I was his fiancee and I was 26... eejit honestly xx"
Yeah I've had the same when I was on my singles profile some guy messaging my veris saying I was his cheating slut girlfriend! I soon sent him a message and put him straight then blocked.
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"I had a random messaging people on my verification list telling them I was his fiancee and I was 26... eejit honestly xx
Yeah I've had the same when I was on my singles profile some guy messaging my veris saying I was his cheating slut girlfriend! I soon sent him a message and put him straight then blocked.
Buttons "
That's utterly insane. What do they hope to achieve by doing that? That it might miraculously come true?? |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"I had a random messaging people on my verification list telling them I was his fiancee and I was 26... eejit honestly xx
Mental!!!
Not that I'm saying you couldn't pass for 26..."
You want a spade! |
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