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Do You Have A Regular For Sex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do You Have A Regular For Sex ?
One of the increasingly things I find on fab is a lot of people already have a regular person they count on for sex.
Not all right enough but quite a lot.
I've had socials and chatting and the person tells me they have someone they see every so often. They don't need to even be from fab.
there are profiles of females who state they have their regular and are stick looking. it's not just females, it's even couples have regulars as well.
What's your thoughts on this, does it make a different to you or not whether you have a regular or you find out someone has a regular ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been very lucky over the years to have found ladies for regular hook ups ..it's always the goal for me.. much prefer regular meets to 1 offs  "
totally agree 
but what I find is that if some already have regular fun then its hard to fit you in for fun as their time is usually taken. Obviously once a month they might fit you in but I'm talking regular either weekly or a few times a week.
Hard to find that to work in with my time as well never mind having to fall in with their other who is usually their regular and more frequently met   |
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I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol."
yeah I get you but personally I think that's two separate entities.
Meeting someone regular for companionship, drinks, meals sex etc.. or and meeting someone for regular sex
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol."
It's never been a case of messaging looking for a shag because I was free ..was and is always a mutual thing ..when we are both free and wanting to hook up ...everyone has a life out with fab .it's just nice to have that relaxed meet with someone you already know intimately ..if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have someone I see regular ..but we have known each other a long time and we have an understanding lol ..it could be 3 times a week ....then I won't see him for a couple of months |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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"It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol."
I don't think it's behind the times. That would be my ideal setup, but not easy to find on here.
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I can go weeks without a meet and I do have fab friends that I meet but not on any regular basis. If I met anyone one day a week I think it would become honerous unless the sex was amazing.
I like to be spontaneous. A booty call can be fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Define regular? I have a few friends I meet once a week a few once a fortnite, a few once a month and some once every 4,5,6 months whenever they dump their worthless Muppet boyfriends! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, if I click with someone I do tend to go back to them for semi regular fun. I don’t have a lot of free time to waste on shit shags so I like knowing I’m getting what I want.  "
Yup agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have one semi regular who I see about once a month. Would probably be more often but we are both non drivers and live a fair distance apart. Its strictly a sex thing. We don't really chat much apart from when one of us makes the booty call.
Would prefer something more regular but I'm incredibly fussy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Shit shags',
ffs that's probably the reason why I can't get a regular as I'm the shit shag "
Aw Peter ..who told u that ..u want me to batter them haha xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have one semi regular who I see about once a month. Would probably be more often but we are both non drivers and live a fair distance apart. Its strictly a sex thing. We don't really chat much apart from when one of us makes the booty call.
Would prefer something more regular but I'm incredibly fussy. "
I get a semi most days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, if I click with someone I do tend to go back to them for semi regular fun. I don’t have a lot of free time to waste on shit shags so I like knowing I’m getting what I want. "
Here here;) nothing worse than set up for a shit shag lol |
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"I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol.
yeah I get you but personally I think that's two separate entities.
Meeting someone regular for companionship, drinks, meals sex etc.. or and meeting someone for regular sex
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Oh gotta agree with blue here. Dial a shag defo not for me. A nice meet involving drinks and perhaps a meal then back for fun is way way better than a late night meet purely for fun. Unless in a club obviously. Even though your not in a relationship with the person your intending having fun with I still need to build up that anticipation of what will happen later. Definitely part of foreplay for me , as much as kissing and foreplay itself. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
This is all part and parcel of swinging for me.
It’s not just a quick shag and see ya later.
When I was more active I had a couple of friends I’d see from time to time when we ‘synced up’ or schedules. Other times I’d pop in for a cuppa or we would meet up in a pub for some grub and a catch up.
Having said that, why is it wrong for a lady to have several guys who she can booty call if she feels horny? If it is a mutual arrangement I don’t see anything wrong.
So ladies, carry on as you are and ditch the shit shags and put the good shags on speed dial |
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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago
Land Of Naughtiness |
When I was on here as a single fem. I preferred meeting the same people as I knew who I was meeting and it saved all that anxious feeling before a meet. I only wanted sex no going out for drinks or meals as I was concerned if I bumped into someone outside such as a friend or family member who would I say the male was  the innocence of it all 
Then I met the mr he was one of my regular meets but it was the chemistry between us that quickly changed that now I’m stuck with the bugger for life 
Tits xx |
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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
lala land |
I find having someone that you see regularly is better for me you know them are comfortable with them and they already know any issues I have such as child care ect so its easier too arrange time with them when u r really in to them than start a whole new process of meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find having someone that you see regularly is better for me you know them are comfortable with them and they already know any issues I have such as child care ect so its easier too arrange time with them when u r really in to them than start a whole new process of meeting "
Agree ...it's just so much easier and more fun too cos on a first meet u might not let go too much lol ...a few meets later you're up to all sorts haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find having someone that you see regularly is better for me you know them are comfortable with them and they already know any issues I have such as child care ect so its easier too arrange time with them when u r really in to them than start a whole new process of meeting
Agree ...it's just so much easier and more fun too cos on a first meet u might not let go too much lol ...a few meets later you're up to all sorts haha "
Your telling me this now
Ffs let's get the firth few vanilla meets out the way then lllolloll
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find having someone that you see regularly is better for me you know them are comfortable with them and they already know any issues I have such as child care ect so its easier too arrange time with them when u r really in to them than start a whole new process of meeting
Agree ...it's just so much easier and more fun too cos on a first meet u might not let go too much lol ...a few meets later you're up to all sorts haha
Your telling me this now
Ffs let's get the firth few vanilla meets out the way then lllolloll
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You're on !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol."
No I'm with you there x |
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By *40ffCouple
over a year ago
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"I find having someone that you see regularly is better for me you know them are comfortable with them and they already know any issues I have such as child care ect so its easier too arrange time with them when u r really in to them than start a whole new process of meeting
Agree ...it's just so much easier and more fun too cos on a first meet u might not let go too much lol ...a few meets later you're up to all sorts haha "
yup i find for me i defo relax with a person the more i know them as a person and sexually the nore relaxed u r the more u can do and it takes alot of work if u like 2 get to that point so if u were wanting 2 meet someone every week it would just be 2 much effort haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can go weeks without a meet and I do have fab friends that I meet but not on any regular basis. If I met anyone one day a week I think it would become honerous unless the sex was amazing.
I like to be spontaneous. A booty call can be fun. "
Gotta love a spontaneous booty call  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol."
Nope this is what I'd prefer too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had both over the years; one offs and a couple of regulars. I’m now in a place where a regular is my preference. Sadly you have to potentially have one offs to find a click for a regular. Time is my cock block at the moment as I don’t have enough of it. So bugger all happening here   |
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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago
inverclyde |
I agree with a few comments...yes I have a couple of guys who I see regular ...and yes nice would be nice to see a guy socially for meal, drinks before going to bed ..I live in hope it's not behind the times. FWB is great but you still need the social side too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol.
Nope this is what I'd prefer too xx"
I'll book the restaurant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can go weeks without a meet and I do have fab friends that I meet but not on any regular basis. If I met anyone one day a week I think it would become honerous unless the sex was amazing.
I like to be spontaneous. A booty call can be fun.
Gotta love a spontaneous booty call "
The last time you booty called me was rather fun  |
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"Define regular? I have a few friends I meet once a week a few once a fortnite, a few once a month and some once every 4,5,6 months whenever they dump their worthless Muppet boyfriends!"
Wow, an actual living love god. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can go weeks without a meet and I do have fab friends that I meet but not on any regular basis. If I met anyone one day a week I think it would become honerous unless the sex was amazing.
I like to be spontaneous. A booty call can be fun.
Gotta love a spontaneous booty call
The last time you booty called me was rather fun "
It sure was, expect a repeat performance very soon xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Define regular? I have a few friends I meet once a week a few once a fortnite, a few once a month and some once every 4,5,6 months whenever they dump their worthless Muppet boyfriends!
Wow, an actual living love god. "
Am I?? Thought that would just be the norm for guys on here |
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By *reeMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
"I just cringe at the thought of a man who thinks he can contact me whenever he wants purely for a shag. It would however be rather nice to have a male companion to go out for a meal or drink with before tumbling into bed. Guess im behind with the times lol."
But, in my case,female. |
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"Yes, if I click with someone I do tend to go back to them for semi regular fun. I don’t have a lot of free time to waste on shit shags so I like knowing I’m getting what I want.
Yup agree "
Yep same here xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I have a few girls whom I meet up with every so often. They’re all younger than me but I’ve got a hankering for an older attractive woman...Fab certainly has a few here so.... |
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