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Hypothetical question for the males
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over a year ago
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You have given general consent to be used as a sex toy.
You are blindfolded. You feel soft touch on your cock. Moist lips kiss the tip of your glands. The lips envelope and begin to decend. You are completely emersed in the moment.
The blindfold is removed and you find a you are being double teamed by a female and man/tv/cd.
Do you
(a) stop and excuse yourself.
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(b) carry on and continue enjoy the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have given general consent to be used as a sex toy.
You are blindfolded. You feel soft touch on your cock. Moist lips kiss the tip of your glands. The lips envelope and begin to decend. You are completely emersed in the moment.
The blindfold is removed and you find a you are being double teamed by a female and man/tv/cd.
Do you
(a) stop and excuse yourself.
or
(b) carry on and continue enjoy the moment."
For me personally speaking I would stop and excuse myself, I am a 100% straight guy and if i took my blindfold of to find another guy pleasuring me i would be livid that I wasn't told about it, imagine if a guy done that to a female on a meet, would it be ok then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wasn’t hypothetical for me , happened almost 20yrs ago in a 4some , one and only time it has happened ,I WOULDVE said I would excuse myself ,but in the heat of battle so to speak , knock yourself out lol , I think k if more look deep inside the hypothesis may be wildly different from reality |
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"You have given general consent to be used as a sex toy.
You are blindfolded. You feel soft touch on your cock. Moist lips kiss the tip of your glands. The lips envelope and begin to decend. You are completely emersed in the moment.
The blindfold is removed and you find a you are being double teamed by a female and man/tv/cd.
Do you
(a) stop and excuse yourself.
or
(b) carry on and continue enjoy the moment.
For me personally speaking I would stop and excuse myself, I am a 100% straight guy and if i took my blindfold of to find another guy pleasuring me i would be livid that I wasn't told about it, imagine if a guy done that to a female on a meet, would it be ok then? "
100% this ^^^ |
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"If it wasn’t consented to then probably report it to the police."
Not necessarily in response to this post , but as this post states your naked in group play ,where does consent fall in , in all play,consent to suck left nipple but not right ,there’s a huge amount of grey areas developed legally in so called non consensual / consensual complaints , litigation has been brought in penetrative complaints , but I think kissing/Sucking areas are a huge minefield |
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"If it wasn’t consented to then probably report it to the police.
Not necessarily in response to this post , but as this post states your naked in group play "
No it doesn’t!
It would be sexual assault if you hadn’t consented to be fellated by a man. No grey areas at all, the law is quite clear on this. |
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
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Fair enough, but ‘implying consent’ isn’t enough. There MUST be consent to what happens. Appreciate this is a hypothetical ‘fantasy’ question and don’t want to be over sensitive, but let’s be clear, especially on fabswingers, how and when consent is given, what form it takes, and the possible repercussions of mistakes being made, e.g. ‘implying’. |
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
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if id given my consent to be around two folk I barely knew id have to have had mind altering drugs it simply wouldnt happen otherwise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
Fair enough, but ‘implying consent’ isn’t enough. There MUST be consent to what happens. Appreciate this is a hypothetical ‘fantasy’ question and don’t want to be over sensitive, but let’s be clear, especially on fabswingers, how and when consent is given, what form it takes, and the possible repercussions of mistakes being made, e.g. ‘implying’."
Do you get folk to fill out a form? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
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That's how I read it. I'm not a man (obviously) but would take it that I'd scanned the room, saw who was there and accepted that anyone present could "use" me. |
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To be very fair ,,if you consented to be a sex toy to this couple I think from the profile it pretty clear the TV gonna wrap her lips around your cock ,So specific to this profile there is no question implied consent is consent if you agree to be their sex toy ,this scenario would arise for me because I wouldn't meet a ff profile where one is clearly not female yet  |
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"To be very fair ,,if you consented to be a sex toy to this couple I think from the profile it pretty clear the TV gonna wrap her lips around your cock ,So specific to this profile there is no question implied consent is consent if you agree to be their sex toy ,this scenario would arise for me because I wouldn't meet a ff profile where one is clearly not female yet "
This^ where common sense prevails surely |
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"To be very fair ,,if you consented to be a sex toy to this couple I think from the profile it pretty clear the TV gonna wrap her lips around your cock ,So specific to this profile there is no question implied consent is consent if you agree to be their sex toy ,this scenario would arise for me because I wouldn't meet a ff profile where one is clearly not female yet
This^ where common sense prevails surely "
That’s not what the scenario was in the OP. |
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
That's how I read it. I'm not a man (obviously) but would take it that I'd scanned the room, saw who was there and accepted that anyone present could "use" me. "
You’re blindfolded.... |
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"If it wasn’t consented to then probably report it to the police.
Not necessarily in response to this post , but as this post states your naked in group play
No it doesn’t!
It would be sexual assault if you hadn’t consented to be fellated by a man. No grey areas at all, the law is quite clear on this. "
I do like masterful exclamation narks , please read the OPs 1st sentence ,
I fell the gentleman protesteth too much |
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"If it wasn’t consented to then probably report it to the police.
Not necessarily in response to this post , but as this post states your naked in group play
No it doesn’t!
It would be sexual assault if you hadn’t consented to be fellated by a man. No grey areas at all, the law is quite clear on this.
I do like masterful exclamation narks , please read the OPs 1st sentence ,
I fell the gentleman protesteth too much "
I did. Where did it mention about being fellated by a man? Like I say, your post was wrong, there’s no ‘grey’ areas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it wasn’t consented to then probably report it to the police.
Not necessarily in response to this post , but as this post states your naked in group play
No it doesn’t!
It would be sexual assault if you hadn’t consented to be fellated by a man. No grey areas at all, the law is quite clear on this.
I do like masterful exclamation narks , please read the OPs 1st sentence ,
I fell the gentleman protesteth too much
I did. Where did it mention about being fellated by a man? Like I say, your post was wrong, there’s no ‘grey’ areas. "
And general consent to being a sex toy is ......... common sense indeed stops at Shotts |
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"If it wasn’t consented to then probably report it to the police.
Not necessarily in response to this post , but as this post states your naked in group play
No it doesn’t!
It would be sexual assault if you hadn’t consented to be fellated by a man. No grey areas at all, the law is quite clear on this.
I do like masterful exclamation narks , please read the OPs 1st sentence ,
I fell the gentleman protesteth too much
I did. Where did it mention about being fellated by a man? Like I say, your post was wrong, there’s no ‘grey’ areas.
And general consent to being a sex toy is ......... common sense indeed stops at Shotts "
I don’t know, what does it mean? That’s the point.
What has Shotts got to do with it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That’s two minutes of my life I won’t get back, love to hear the phone call to the Polis , “I gave general consent , but didn’t know what it meant,, but I agreed to be a sex toy and a big man blew me off and didn’t run away “ Oi Vey as the never say in Palestine |
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"That’s two minutes of my life I won’t get back, love to hear the phone call to the Polis , “I gave general consent , but didn’t know what it meant,, but I agreed to be a sex toy and a big man blew me off and didn’t run away “ Oi Vey as the never say in Palestine"
Aye, consent is clearly a difficult concept eh?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
That's how I read it. I'm not a man (obviously) but would take it that I'd scanned the room, saw who was there and accepted that anyone present could "use" me.
You’re blindfolded...."
I've given consent before I was blindfolded...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have given general consent to be used as a sex toy.
You are blindfolded. You feel soft touch on your cock. Moist lips kiss the tip of your glands. The lips envelope and begin to decend. You are completely emersed in the moment.
The blindfold is removed and you find a you are being double teamed by a female and man/tv/cd.
Do you
(a) stop and excuse yourself.
or
(b) carry on and continue enjoy the moment.
For me personally speaking I would stop and excuse myself, I am a 100% straight guy and if i took my blindfold of to find another guy pleasuring me i would be livid that I wasn't told about it, imagine if a guy done that to a female on a meet, would it be ok then? "
Completely agree with this theres surprises and theres boundaries. If i never consented to a guy doing it then surely its wrong
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
That's how I read it. I'm not a man (obviously) but would take it that I'd scanned the room, saw who was there and accepted that anyone present could "use" me.
You’re blindfolded....
I've given consent before I was blindfolded......"
In that case, lie back and enjoy.  That’s the only point I was trying to make. The OP is saying it would be unexpected so what would you do. If you’d seen all participants beforehand and agreed to be blindfolded then there’d be no ‘surprise’, so you’d expect the answer to always be B. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The first statement implies that general consent has been given.
That's how I read it. I'm not a man (obviously) but would take it that I'd scanned the room, saw who was there and accepted that anyone present could "use" me.
You’re blindfolded....
I've given consent before I was blindfolded......
In that case, lie back and enjoy. That’s the only point I was trying to make. The OP is saying it would be unexpected so what would you do. If you’d seen all participants beforehand and agreed to be blindfolded then there’d be no ‘surprise’, so you’d expect the answer to always be B."
(widnae happen though....I'm a pure shitebag ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have given general consent to be used as a sex toy.
You are blindfolded. You feel soft touch on your cock. Moist lips kiss the tip of your glands. The lips envelope and begin to decend. You are completely emersed in the moment.
The blindfold is removed and you find a you are being double teamed by a female and man/tv/cd.
Do you
(a) stop and excuse yourself.
or
(b) carry on and continue enjoy the moment."
By giving an option (a) you are implying that it is potentially unwelcome and unappreciated by someone who is blindfolded and does not know what is going on.
If it is unwelcome and unappreciated and the guy is blindfolded it is sexual assault end of.
Anyone on this thread who tries to say otherwise needs to remind themselves of the law. And consent and then being blindfolded is not consent.
Stupid thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Interesting comments...
The general consent statement was deliberately open and ambiguous to see how people would perceive the whole scenario.
There is a very good reason for stating limits and boundaries before any scenario or bdsm scene is started.
Yes a questionnaire is not pretty and can be a little mood kill at times but as they say,"you get what you pay for" and you have to know what you are getting into and have total trust in the person(s) you are sharing yourself with.
The whole hypothesis was a take on to another recent forum post of was "somebody was deemed bi/gay because of sucking a cock" and the whole possiblity that "a hole is a goal" mind set..
I am one of open minded, non specific, "labels are for price tags, not sexual encounters" types. Whether personal thoughts have been acted upon or not.
Based on the scene given. It would be difficult for me to decide on A or B. I personally not attracted to men and would unsure if I would repelled by a man sucking my own genatial or not. It would be down to how at ease and free spirited I was at that moment in time.
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"Interesting comments...
The general consent statement was deliberately open and ambiguous to see how people would perceive the whole scenario.
There is a very good reason for stating limits and boundaries before any scenario or bdsm scene is started.
Yes a questionnaire is not pretty and can be a little mood kill at times but as they say,"you get what you pay for" and you have to know what you are getting into and have total trust in the person(s) you are sharing yourself with.
The whole hypothesis was a take on to another recent forum post of was "somebody was deemed bi/gay because of sucking a cock" and the whole possiblity that "a hole is a goal" mind set..
I am one of open minded, non specific, "labels are for price tags, not sexual encounters" types. Whether personal thoughts have been acted upon or not.
Based on the scene given. It would be difficult for me to decide on A or B. I personally not attracted to men and would unsure if I would repelled by a man sucking my own genatial or not. It would be down to how at ease and free spirited I was at that moment in time.
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Can someone not come up with an app to vote?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fists and probably more would fly and either I'll be reporting a sexual assault or someone will be reporting a death.
The only way that could be ok is if the person has already stated that they are into that. Otherwise it's wrong to do that. I'm assuming the OP intends to get the opinion of straight men. |
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