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over a year ago
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"I went once with my partner and it was full of sleazy guys, put us right off, we left early and have never been back"
True. Couldn't even go for a pee without single guys standing outside the loo salivating...one even rubbing his dick. Very offputting and put me off going back |
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"I went once with my partner and it was full of sleazy guys, put us right off, we left early and have never been back
True. Couldn't even go for a pee without single guys standing outside the loo salivating...one even rubbing his dick. Very offputting and put me off going back"
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What were the guys doing to you or your partner personally , that made them sleazy ?
And to 5he female who witnessed the guy rubbing his dick , other than you seeing it and being offended did he do anything else to you personally ?
Clubs are very well controlled in my opinion, if your easily offended maybe there just not for you in the first place, who knows maybe you guys might have ended up in a room and offended someone because you have a fat arse or saggy tits or for whatever reason. To go to clubs you have to be open minded non judgemental as everyone uses clubs for different reasons. Im not saying anything you both experienced was right or wrong but unless you experienced something other than your own offence being taken then that cant be helped. We have attended clubs and seen many things not to OUR taste but it niether makes them wrong or puts us off from going again. Each to their own as long as they dont force it upon us, which has never happened. |
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"I went once with my partner and it was full of sleazy guys, put us right off, we left early and have never been back
True. Couldn't even go for a pee without single guys standing outside the loo salivating...one even rubbing his dick. Very offputting and put me off going back
Referring to both comments here.
What were the guys doing to you or your partner personally , that made them sleazy ?
And to 5he female who witnessed the guy rubbing his dick , other than you seeing it and being offended did he do anything else to you personally ?
Clubs are very well controlled in my opinion, if your easily offended maybe there just not for you in the first place, who knows maybe you guys might have ended up in a room and offended someone because you have a fat arse or saggy tits or for whatever reason. To go to clubs you have to be open minded non judgemental as everyone uses clubs for different reasons. Im not saying anything you both experienced was right or wrong but unless you experienced something other than your own offence being taken then that cant be helped. We have attended clubs and seen many things not to OUR taste but it niether makes them wrong or puts us off from going again. Each to their own as long as they dont force it upon us, which has never happened. "
We absolutely went with an open mind, and we have visited other clubs nationally and not experienced what we experienced at after 8. It was a Friday evening and the club was mainly full of guys, some of whom were in trackies and hoodies, not the dress code we anticipated. They were sleazy just hanging around the rooms and being pests to the females that were present including my partners, who I may add has neither a fat arse or saggy boobs, I appreciate people have different standards and fair play to you for defending the club, however having been to other clubs we have not experienced anything similar, hence the reason we left and will not return |
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By *r humanMan
over a year ago
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That shame did enjoy tonight fair play went to after eight club but club not just for couples but every one enjoy sexy and swingers single men or single female couples or tv all size race age groups ps dress code not real thing to do with swingers |
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"I went once with my partner and it was full of sleazy guys, put us right off, we left early and have never been back
True. Couldn't even go for a pee without single guys standing outside the loo salivating...one even rubbing his dick. Very offputting and put me off going back
Referring to both comments here.
What were the guys doing to you or your partner personally , that made them sleazy ?
And to 5he female who witnessed the guy rubbing his dick , other than you seeing it and being offended did he do anything else to you personally ?
Clubs are very well controlled in my opinion, if your easily offended maybe there just not for you in the first place, who knows maybe you guys might have ended up in a room and offended someone because you have a fat arse or saggy tits or for whatever reason. To go to clubs you have to be open minded non judgemental as everyone uses clubs for different reasons. Im not saying anything you both experienced was right or wrong but unless you experienced something other than your own offence being taken then that cant be helped. We have attended clubs and seen many things not to OUR taste but it niether makes them wrong or puts us off from going again. Each to their own as long as they dont force it upon us, which has never happened.
We absolutely went with an open mind, and we have visited other clubs nationally and not experienced what we experienced at after 8. It was a Friday evening and the club was mainly full of guys, some of whom were in trackies and hoodies, not the dress code we anticipated. They were sleazy just hanging around the rooms and being pests to the females that were present including my partners, who I may add has neither a fat arse or saggy boobs, I appreciate people have different standards and fair play to you for defending the club, however having been to other clubs we have not experienced anything similar, hence the reason we left and will not return"
Haha i was joking with the saggy arse and tits thing as my latter post showed. Anyways, yes we have seen and experienced what you say so while i am defending the club it is not because i dont believe you. We have high standards and do expect the same but when you focus on the positive times and great nights we have had in the club its easy to ignore the occasional joggies and hoodies brigade and the guys hanging around rooms, again i will ask you, other than what you seen ie lack of dressing smartly and ignoring guys in the passageway did anyone actually approach you or make innapropriate comments or sleazy comments. I get the fact that it could put you off the place though. We tried a club down south and found tatty leather clad beds and that was enough to put us off so we cant say too much lol. |
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"I went once with my partner and it was full of sleazy guys, put us right off, we left early and have never been back
True. Couldn't even go for a pee without single guys standing outside the loo salivating...one even rubbing his dick. Very offputting and put me off going back
Referring to both comments here.
What were the guys doing to you or your partner personally , that made them sleazy ?
And to 5he female who witnessed the guy rubbing his dick , other than you seeing it and being offended did he do anything else to you personally ?
Clubs are very well controlled in my opinion, if your easily offended maybe there just not for you in the first place, who knows maybe you guys might have ended up in a room and offended someone because you have a fat arse or saggy tits or for whatever reason. To go to clubs you have to be open minded non judgemental as everyone uses clubs for different reasons. Im not saying anything you both experienced was right or wrong but unless you experienced something other than your own offence being taken then that cant be helped. We have attended clubs and seen many things not to OUR taste but it niether makes them wrong or puts us off from going again. Each to their own as long as they dont force it upon us, which has never happened. "
Maybe they don’t have to explain, it’s not as if it’s news with after8 and sleaze being attached to it!
We know the ones that will defend it and that’s up to them .... wide berth |
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"I'm actually surprised the cj posse hasn't posted on here yet  "
they used all their digs on shoebox need a week before they post positive about the fans fav then another week to downtrod any other club that dares to be mentioned  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm actually surprised the cj posse hasn't posted on here yet they used all their digs on shoebox need a week before they post positive about the fans fav then another week to downtrod any other club that dares to be mentioned "
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"I went once with my partner and it was full of sleazy guys, put us right off, we left early and have never been back
True. Couldn't even go for a pee without single guys standing outside the loo salivating...one even rubbing his dick. Very offputting and put me off going back
Referring to both comments here.
What were the guys doing to you or your partner personally , that made them sleazy ?
And to 5he female who witnessed the guy rubbing his dick , other than you seeing it and being offended did he do anything else to you personally ?
Clubs are very well controlled in my opinion, if your easily offended maybe there just not for you in the first place, who knows maybe you guys might have ended up in a room and offended someone because you have a fat arse or saggy tits or for whatever reason. To go to clubs you have to be open minded non judgemental as everyone uses clubs for different reasons. Im not saying anything you both experienced was right or wrong but unless you experienced something other than your own offence being taken then that cant be helped. We have attended clubs and seen many things not to OUR taste but it niether makes them wrong or puts us off from going again. Each to their own as long as they dont force it upon us, which has never happened.
Maybe they don’t have to explain, it’s not as if it’s news with after8 and sleaze being attached to it!
We know the ones that will defend it and that’s up to them .... wide berth "
Who is this "we" you are referring to in the first word of your post ?
Which club do you go to then bud , that is different from after 8 as we have been to a few clubs and there all pretty similar as far as clientele goes. By that i mean all different types of people and different expectations and different attitudes when in the clubs. |
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Had some memorable times at after8,on the flipside also gone in,realised it was way too busy,not the clubs fault,my problem in terms of feeling comfy in the situation.
I think some people simply dont know how to be,where to put themselves kicking around in a swingers club generally.
I never ever went with a pre-set game plan or a "what im goin to do tonight" and that was the beauty of going there,went with an open mind,delighted if got chatting to folks you liked the look of,if that led to more happening,great,if not,you appreciated meeting them either way.
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