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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"aberdeen swinging club on saturday 5/5/12 for all those who want to join us to have some fun fun fun"
A few Sheep will be nervously looking over there shoulder at the news that a new club is opening  
Just teasing,all the best. |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"A few Sheep will be nervously looking over there shoulder at the news that a new club is opening
Just teasing,all the best."
Its not a new club, its been around for years. The sheep are long since past the terrified stage and have settled into acceptance.
Just kidding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hey everyone!
Myself and my partner are going to this wonderful place, so if you want a great night out at a place that is friendly and secure, come along and have a real swingers night! It promises to be a night to remember!
Sarah and Deborah xxxxx |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"we have never been before,can anyone advise of the costs involved and if we just turn up or have to advise the club?"
Costs involved are as follows:
Membership is £5
£25 per couple
£10 single female
You don't have to inform the club that you'll be attending, just turn up after 10pm and hope that its not already crowded. I'll mail this info to you guys as well. |
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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago
The Kingdom |
"would love to make it up, but depends how the funds go for fuel  mega skinto just now....boohoo"
If I could I would ...we definately have to go up together one time...would they let in two fems together? xxx |
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"would love to make it up, but depends how the funds go for fuel mega skinto just now....boohoo
If I could I would ...we definately have to go up together one time...would they let in two fems together? xxx"
Of course they do you dafty  Get your ass up here Dee  |
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By *ee-deeWoman
over a year ago
The Kingdom |
"would love to make it up, but depends how the funds go for fuel mega skinto just now....boohoo
If I could I would ...we definately have to go up together one time...would they let in two fems together? xxx
Of course they do you dafty Get your ass up here Dee "
Oh i will one day soon ...cant this sat as have my friends wedding ...will let you know when I can make it as it would be great to see you there x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is this club so behind the times and not let single guys in i was at a club down south recently where singles were aloud and everyone had a great time cmon aberdeen get with the times and stop living in the past |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Why is this club so behind the times and not let single guys in i was at a club down south recently where singles were aloud and everyone had a great time cmon aberdeen get with the times and stop living in the past"
Because if the club lets in single guys, it will be swamped by single guys. It is fine the way it is. If you want in, get yourself a woman to escort you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is this club so behind the times and not let single guys in i was at a club down south recently where singles were aloud and everyone had a great time cmon aberdeen get with the times and stop living in the past
Because if the club lets in single guys, it will be swamped by single guys. It is fine the way it is. If you want in, get yourself a woman to escort you."
I've been trying since past ten years to take women to clubs and it's always been NO. One did however but she thought it was disgusting. Clubs i've been to as a single i've been treated like shit by majority of couples when tried speaking to them like i've got horns coming out of my head. Couples that didnt moaned at not having enough single men available and blamed other couples for this. (I used to frequent in two clubs but couples have put me off with their attitude and other single men have put me off with their behaviour).  |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
" I've been trying since past ten years to take women to clubs and it's always been NO. One did however but she thought it was disgusting. Clubs i've been to as a single i've been treated like shit by majority of couples when tried speaking to them like i've got horns coming out of my head. Couples that didnt moaned at not having enough single men available and blamed other couples for this. (I used to frequent in two clubs but couples have put me off with their attitude and other single men have put me off with their behaviour). "
Not sure how to respond to that. 10 years? Geez... I don't know how I manage it, but never found myself without someone to go with me. I think I'm getting a reputation at the club for it. I think wit and charm and being nice goes further than anything else, and not being pushy. |
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"Why is this club so behind the times and not let single guys in i was at a club down south recently where singles were aloud and everyone had a great time cmon aberdeen get with the times and stop living in the past"
I also think because the club itself is relatively small in size compared to the other clubs that do allow single men in that it would not work to have single guy's in as the venue would be filled up so quickly without the couple's and single's. On busy night's there is little room so add single men to the space to there would be no room to do anything! |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I also think because the club itself is relatively small in size compared to the other clubs that do allow single men in that it would not work to have single guy's in as the venue would be filled up so quickly without the couple's and single's. On busy night's there is little room so add single men to the space to there would be no room to do anything! "
It might work though if they charged £45 for a single guy on his own? They haven't made any policy about TV/TS yet, but I think £15 entry for TV/TS would be fair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I've been trying since past ten years to take women to clubs and it's always been NO. One did however but she thought it was disgusting. Clubs i've been to as a single i've been treated like shit by majority of couples when tried speaking to them like i've got horns coming out of my head. Couples that didnt moaned at not having enough single men available and blamed other couples for this. (I used to frequent in two clubs but couples have put me off with their attitude and other single men have put me off with their behaviour).
Not sure how to respond to that. 10 years? Geez... I don't know how I manage it, but never found myself without someone to go with me. I think I'm getting a reputation at the club for it. I think wit and charm and being nice goes further than anything else, and not being pushy."
I mean women i have met outside of swinging and have never experienced any kind of swinging before. Should've made this clear.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is this club so behind the times and not let single guys in i was at a club down south recently where singles were aloud and everyone had a great time cmon aberdeen get with the times and stop living in the past
I also think because the club itself is relatively small in size compared to the other clubs that do allow single men in that it would not work to have single guy's in as the venue would be filled up so quickly without the couple's and single's. On busy night's there is little room so add single men to the space to there would be no room to do anything! "
I agree. So why not limit the amount of singles allowed to attend like 'Clubf' near newcastle does on friday nights?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We will not be there tonight but we do hope you all have a great evening.
As for all the chat about single guys there is an element up for discussion here.... The ladies. Not all couples want to play with single guys and thats why the majority of couples on FAB have them blocked. Yes there has been the odd single guy at the club in the past and this will no doubt continue. However the club is a place where couples can relax and enjoy the company of other couples but we have all heard the stories about other clubs where a woman cannot even go to the loo without being pack hunted by a bunch of horny guys. Perhaps it would work if there was a very strict limit on number of single guys as there will be a night when a couple who arrives late will be met by the pack of horny guys nothing else. Perhaps we should look at getting the couples numbers up at the club on a regular before we look at changing the format. As for the price stucture.... a single guy will pay anything to come to a club in the hope of some fun lol... charge them £150... couples and single females are free...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spot on Avon, I would say many couples would not go if single guys were invited.
The majority of Euro clubs that are rated all do not allow single guys.
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
I think that Avon's post is tending to paint all single guys with the same brush. Not every single guy is like that at all. There are those of us who are non-pushy and incredibly relaxed. I don't hound people, I don't pursue anyone I think I might be in with a chance... I understand my role in the community quite well: I am here just in case a couple want a single guy. Unlike most guys on here, I don't think that people are on here to please me - I am here to please others should they be looking for it from a single guy. |
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By *URRABULLCouple
over a year ago
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Hi tk how's u dude?at least u go to club with other females.we have been to other clubs that allow single males In and it is a nightmare.thet think because they pay there money they can shag who ever they want.we certainly won't be back there again.mrs hated it.have fun tonight ye horny hoor.lol.x |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
Not too bad, ta. I always been doin' my part for the club, since October. Always introducing new people to it, and they always love it. And people usually love my choices for who I bring. Tonight is going to be interesting to say the least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well said TK but you appear to be the exception to the rule. You are always respectfull and as Turra said you, always bring along a female. You only have to look as far as the local bar , just across the road from the club on a club night. There are single guys from the site in there looking for the single females to take them to the club. Promises of free drinks for the night and payment into the club is common practice.
Have a great night guys.... maybe catch up next month xxx |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
Nice to know people consider me an exception to the rule about single guys... Just a pity that I'm a single guy. I imagine my experiences on Fab as part of a couple have greatly shaped the way I behave on here. Alternatively, could just be that I behave on here the same way that I would when in the company of friends, which I consider quite a lot of you folk to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see both sides of the arguement here but single guys need to be given a chance. When i frequented in a club years ago my then partner was hounded by single men. She was hot afterall. She stopped them no problem by shouting "stop stalking me!" However the attitudes from other couples was discusting. If she/we did speak to a single guy and especially if she had played with at least one we were shunned by the majority of couples. The general comments were "singles are just perverts." and the worst i heard was "singles are here because they can touch, grope and quickly shag as many women as they wish for cheaper than a half hour session with a prostitute!" And then the single guys that came over to the lounge area to chat got ignored by the other couples when they tried to simply say hello.
I remember once clearly, my then partner was in the gangbang room having a fabulous time with i dont know how many guys. three couples were in and the three women were on their knees sucking at their male partners while the males were watching my partner getting a good seeing to by quite a few single guys. Oh yeah. They got of on that. But if one of the single guys dare say hello in the lounge they were ignored, or told to go away and then cowardly back-stabbed as they walked away red-faced.
I returned to the club as a single on numerous occasions when my then partner and i parted. Even though the other couples knew me well, i got treated like the other singles just because im single. is it any wonder a lot of the single guys just stand around some clubs just having a wank (i'm not one of them), when we can't even say hello to a lot of couples for our many £'s admission.
Please note: when i say couples, i do not mean 'all' couples.
When i say singles, i do not mean 'all' singles.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Add: we also attended another club on other occasions many miles away from the aforementioned club. Not just this one club. Abd the attitudes were the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Appreciate your points and each to ones own. But a couple of points for discussion.
1: Why should any woman HAVE to say "stop stalking me"?
2: How come if a couple want the company of a number of single guys for hotel or home meets (like we have on occasions) then why do they all turn out to be timewasters fakes and no shows? Whats so special about meeting at a club? |
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Our feelings for what they are worth as a couple are:
- we enjoy the social aspect of meeting other 'couples' or 'partnerships'
- Mrs Jockinafrock feels more comfortable and relaxed rather than an expectation that she is going to perform amongst couples than singles
- if we want 'singles' to join us we prefer to enjoy it privately than in a public forum, rather than 'singles' seeing a woman as open season if she partakes with a single in a public forum.
Anyway, at the end of the day the Adz club has its policy and thats the end of it. It may be an idea to host private parties where singles are invited along with couples that are intersted in that mix? or contact the club and ask if they may consider a 'mixed' theme night? |
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When we first started attending the club there was afew occasion's years ago when i have found some male's have kept asking to play or initate play and i found it difficult to say no as i did'nt want to be in polite or rude. I felt unrelaxed and un at ease. I have since found my voice but my point is on those occasion's i just wanted to leave so if it was open to single male's on a regular basis i would be quite certain that we/i would not attend for fear of this.
Like many of you have said, we enjoy the social side of meeting other likeminded couple's in a relaxed and safe enviroment. |
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"When we first started attending the club there was afew occasion's years ago when i have found some male's have kept asking to play or initate play and i found it difficult to say no as i did'nt want to be in polite or rude. I felt unrelaxed and un at ease. I have since found my voice but my point is on those occasion's i just wanted to leave so if it was open to single male's on a regular basis i would be quite certain that we/i would not attend for fear of this.
Like many of you have said, we enjoy the social side of meeting other likeminded couple's in a relaxed and safe enviroment. "
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
I really miss being in the scene as part of a couple, its a whole different experience than when you're a single guy. The current policy of no single guys without them bringing a single woman works very well though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What would the couples do without single women then?
I know when I used to go that they matched up the single guys numbers to the single women's numbers admitted and that worked for everyone.
Not all single females were accepted by couples either .... as in jealousy reared its head.
Plus I've been there when wives of the couples have sat downstairs at the bar all night, not playing, and their husbands quite literally played as single men.
Don't class all single men as predators and all couples as swingers. |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"What would the couples do without single women then?
I know when I used to go that they matched up the single guys numbers to the single women's numbers admitted and that worked for everyone.
Not all single females were accepted by couples either .... as in jealousy reared its head.
Plus I've been there when wives of the couples have sat downstairs at the bar all night, not playing, and their husbands quite literally played as single men.
Don't class all single men as predators and all couples as swingers. "
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"What would the couples do without single women then?
I know when I used to go that they matched up the single guys numbers to the single women's numbers admitted and that worked for everyone.
Not all single females were accepted by couples either .... as in jealousy reared its head.
Plus I've been there when wives of the couples have sat downstairs at the bar all night, not playing, and their husbands quite literally played as single men.
Don't class all single men as predators and all couples as swingers. "
Fair point (thumb
) We think that whatever, its down to what we feel comfortable and relaxed with. x |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Why do we not do a vote and see where it goes yes or ngo for singles at the club "
Its something I intend to bring up with Rod on Friday. Maybe swing it that a couple can take along a single guy as well. |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"its a big NO from us.if single guys start going we wont be back to the club.anyway scotty why dont u go to your local club across the forth they let loads of singles in.  "
So allowing a couple to bring a single guy wouldn't work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think an allocated amount of single males on allocated weeks is a good .... I think opening it up to what people think (not just a cpl of regulars think) is a good idea....perhaps even contacting other clubs for hints n tips may be an idea also..... |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I think an allocated amount of single males on allocated weeks is a good .... I think opening it up to what people think (not just a cpl of regulars think) is a good idea....perhaps even contacting other clubs for hints n tips may be an idea also....."
Again, something I can bring up with Rod on Friday. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There does appear to be a lot of different thoughts and opinions on this subject it obviously does mean a lot to people.
A vote would be a good idea but surely it would be for club members only and not just a free for all?
Secondly, the idea of a mixed night would cover everybodies desires so how about arranging one to allow all the single guys and couples who want single guys to enjoy the facilities the club has to offer.
If they do decide to open it to single guys we will not be back as we have been going to the club off and on for about 4 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where do the single women stand in all this?
Not every one of them likes to play with couples or is bi.
Single women pay the least amount to get in so it would seem they are wanted in the club.
Single women are not restricted to a specific night or numbers or has it changed since I was last there?
What will all the couples do then as it seems they want single females for the elusive bi 1on1 with the wife or for mff.
Some single women would like to play with single guys ........ what do you suggest then, no single guys and no single women either?
A couples only club night and a singles only club night?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very valiad point Laine ... please let me know the location of a club which allows single womem in where the harrass the male half of the couples and pack hunt when the are seperated from their partners and I will willingly pay £10 to get in ...lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All sorted
1st Saturday Couples Only.
2nd Saturday Singles ONLY-M/F/TV's
3rd Saturday Open to ALL -M/F/TV/Couples
4th Saturday Fettish / Hells bells etc
Sorry all you harmaphrodites .... not enough saturdays in the month to fit you folks in ...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A very valiad point Laine ... please let me know the location of a club which allows single womem in where the harrass the male half of the couples and pack hunt when the are seperated from their partners and I will willingly pay £10 to get in ...lol "
..... I can see the queues forming round the block to get into that club!
But seriously I've been in the Abz club after a social with around 60 in there, singles and couples guys and females and I never saw any pack-hunting behaviour. All I saw was lots of peeps having the greatest of fun all night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A quick question please, where have you and your wife witnessed or been subjected to this pack hunting behaviour?
As you say the Aberdeen club doesn't allow single guys in and when they have they would never stand for such behaviour, most guys know they would be out on their ear if they tried that. Haz and Rod run a tight ship. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The single gusy thing stopped at the aberdeen club a number of years ago before we started going to it. We first went about 4 years ago and yes it have been great as there has only ever been a very rare 1 or 2 single guys there.
What the discussion is all about is that "IF" single guys were allowed in what effect would it have on the couples attendance. A number of our freinds have visied other clubs and did not like it and thats why they prefer the aberdeen club xx |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"All sorted
1st Saturday Couples Only.
2nd Saturday Singles ONLY-M/F/TV's
3rd Saturday Open to ALL -M/F/TV/Couples
4th Saturday Fettish / Hells bells etc
Sorry all you harmaphrodites .... not enough saturdays in the month to fit you folks in ...lol "
Do they not fit in to the "Open to ALL" night then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The single gusy thing stopped at the aberdeen club a number of years ago before we started going to it. We first went about 4 years ago and yes it have been great as there has only ever been a very rare 1 or 2 single guys there.
What the discussion is all about is that "IF" single guys were allowed in what effect would it have on the couples attendance. A number of our freinds have visied other clubs and did not like it and thats why they prefer the aberdeen club xx"
So you are going on heresay then?
The nights I have seen single guys at the club have never descended into the pack hunting mentality. As I said, Rod and Haz would never allow it.
As for 4 saturdays a month and different nights for all I can't see that working. I don't think the numbers are there to support 4 nights, the club used to be on fortnightly and had to drop to once a month as it couldn't keep the numbers up, and that was couples and singles allowed. People could not afford to go there two nights a month. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not hearsay as it came first hand from a number of close freinds
The club is bearly supported in its current configuration of one night a month. Its a hit or a miss really and we appreciate what TK is trying to do.
The social/ club night combination was a one off last year or was it the year before... seams ages ago ..
The last time single guys were allowed in on a club night was about 4 years ago (correct me if I am wrong)but was strictly limited to 5 single guys and it did work as most of the couples going at that time were comfortable with that.
When was the last time you were up here laine? Its moved on a lot in recent years and can be a real fab night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stopped going when there were no single guys, when the wives never left the bar area as they were socialising, and their husbands were roaming the rooms looking for a female ..... married or single. I was uncomfortable with that.
I can appreciate it's moved on but I go on my own observations not friends or other club users.
You say that in the past other club members were okay with the five guys rule, so really it's not the majority that object to them being there, just a few like yourself.
Maybe the numbers would pick up if they did allow them back again?
I know I as a single female would enjoy seeing single guys there, not all of us want to play with couples and other females all the time and a club is a safe neutral place for us to meet rather than in our homes.
Thinking about it maybe you are right, you have the couples night and us single females can welcome single guys with open arms on our night.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Laine I was in the club the night after the social and have been twice since, both times I was invited to join in the fun.I certainly never saw any pack hunting.
Run "
Most guys were just so happy to be there that they wouldn't run the risk of being ejected for any bad behaviour. |
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FTLOG!! If there is a demand why dont the single guys and single girlies try to get a SINGLES night then??*
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host your own party at home!!
At present there is an organised night that is for couples and I guess the couples that go and socialise are happy with that. |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
kirkcaldy |
"FTLOG!! If there is a demand why dont the single guys and single girlies try to get a SINGLES night then??*
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host your own party at home!!
At present there is an organised night that is for couples and I guess the couples that go and socialise are happy with that. "
A case of we're all right jack sod the rest of you then!
Have been to the club on a few occasions with a good friend and had a good time - ironically it has been with the guy from couples who's wives weren't playing that night for whatever reason - so basically they were single guys for that night. |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
kirkcaldy |
"its a big NO from us.if single guys start going we wont be back to the club.anyway scotty why dont u go to your local club across the forth they let loads of singles in. "
Maybe he likes variety too, or the opportunity to mix with people if in a different area.
I just think if it is to be a true "couples only" club they shouldn't allow someone of either sex to enter as a single to make it fair to all. |
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