"What's the verdict on couples who like playing separately? Can I just go up and ask to borrow your Mr/Mrs? Or are you the type to want to sit in the room?"
We don't meet folk separately but there have been situations like ladies night where he's obv not gonna be there, few situations at cjs where we would but this would only be with people we've built up a trust with
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"Alot of cpls have single profiles.
No clue what the etiquette is at clubs tho?"
Think it's the same as anywhere and depends on the people, some folk are into a free for all n some aren't. I dont like folk assuming, gets my back up n unfortunately some woman see themselves as a commodity and think they can just wade in
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Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches. |
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"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches."
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"What's the verdict on couples who like playing separately? Can I just go up and ask to borrow your Mr/Mrs? Or are you the type to want to sit in the room?"
I have
with a couple of friends .
Last f*%$ buddy couple put me off a bit tho so will be avoiding unless I know the couple really well and know there wont be any issues  |
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We had a party at ours a few months ago where there were people fucking all over the house and went upstairs and Holly was being fucked by one guy whilst sucking another guy off and wanking another.
I sat down and watched for a bit then went downstairs and had fun with another Woman.
It's all down to when and where I guess ? |
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"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches."
Blindfolded you say 
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As with most things, I think it'll be down to each individual couple's rules. My hubby and I swing separately and we deal with our own arrangements, nobody has to ask us to 'borrow' the other. Occasionally he gets asked about me being involved, to which the asker is normally ignored or blocked, since his (single guy) profile states not to bother asking about me.
He has a ladyfriend and she did want to hear from me that I was ok with the situation, for her own peace of mind, but no actual asking for permission. I think that would be weird. I'm his wife, not his owner.  I don't watch them or anything, it's their relationship, I stay out of the bedroom area.
We might eventually watch each other with someone if I decide I'm up for that, but it's not a priority.
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Neither of those options
I’m a person, not an object. I can’t be ‘borrowed’ and I find it bloody weird that people would even ask my husband for ‘permission’ 
I’m a person. So talk to me. |
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"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches."
I throw my hat in the ring for being g blindfolded and used by you bluebell |
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"We had a party at ours a few months ago where there were people fucking all over the house and went upstairs and Holly was being fucked by one guy whilst sucking another guy off and wanking another.
I sat down and watched for a bit then went downstairs and had fun with another Woman.
It's all down to when and where I guess ? "
That sounds an amazing night |
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"Would rather stay clear of male half of a couple as not really wanting to be discussed at the breakfast table the next morning. Have a we fantasy though where i walk in a fuck a blindfolded male while his eife watches.
I throw my hat in the ring for being g blindfolded and used by you bluebell"
You better have a strong arm cos the back of the queue is at Dundee. |
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I wouldn’t mind having the mr go off with a finer woman but I don’t think the hubby would like it if the roles were reversed. He doesn’t mind ladies taking me away but not guys yet. Hoping to build upto that. |
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"I wouldn’t mind having the mr go off with a finer woman but I don’t think the hubby would like it if the roles were reversed. He doesn’t mind ladies taking me away but not guys yet. Hoping to build upto that."
I will take you away 
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"What's the verdict on couples who like playing separately? Can I just go up and ask to borrow your Mr/Mrs? Or are you the type to want to sit in the room?"
I’m sure you’d have no problem borrowing people  |
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By *mmixtape OP Couple
over a year ago
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This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online |
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"This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online "
People do it a lot when they only find one half of a couple attractive and someone isn't taking one for the team 
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By *anny77Man
over a year ago
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"This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online
People do it a lot when they only find one half of a couple attractive and someone isn't taking one for the team
John "
Or the other way. I was with someone at Cjs once and a couple approached us... and tried to borrow us both... but only I was interested. I was given permission to pop away for a while though... |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"This is always interested tbh, I personally wouldn't just walk up to a couple and say can I borrow your partner, but I've received maybe a hundred messages that say this exact thing. I think in a club scenario it would be incredibly hot, but I find it seedy online
People do it a lot when they only find one half of a couple attractive and someone isn't taking one for the team
John "
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I can’t really see anyone wanting to borrow me, but if someone or a couple wanted to play with L alone, I’d totally understand (because who wouldn’t want to play with her?) and if she wanted to, that would be fine with me.
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If people ask to either play or for me to ‘work’ on them and do kink stuff at cjs, I’ll always show Ian who I’m going upstairs with so he knows their face.
Same vice versa so that lines of communication & honesty always open.
If there was someone either of us had concerns about, then it wouldn’t go ahead.
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