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By *ettpair OP Couple 9 weeks ago
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Genuinely interested in who is Dom and who is sub ? Is it something that comes naturally or maybe you've had an experience in the past that has brought out your stronger side...ps for the record we're both sub |
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Sometimes we really like to confine others into absolute definition s …. Sub or Dom is one such example where really the boundaries are set in the interaction or relationship , one can like things that may seem a contradict to what they portray they are |
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Always been Dominant since my teens, lived a vinilla life (partner and kids) but I felt it always there beneath the surface... now I am letting the real me free and being the true Domme I always was |
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Can be Dominant in day to day life but in the bedroom I’m very submissive and that’s exactly what I love to be. I am putty in the hands of an alpha type male or even an alpha couple. I’ve yet to submit to a female but will do so when I’m back out partying. |
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I’ve always been Dom.
Tracing it back I think it’s a combination of playing ‘pirates’ with a couple of girls when I was about 9 and pretending to tie them up against the school fences.
Then years of rope work as a boy scout.
It never been about pain. Just controlling the levels of pleasure. Being in charge also feels good and comes naturally at work and in play. |
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In day to day I have two high stress high responsibility jobs and have to be in control but when in the bed room there is nothing better then submitting to others for there pleasure and love being used |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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I've been a Dom for years and love, especially impact play
Though recently I've been curious to switch and go full sub
There is unfortunately a dire shortage of dommes |
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I am a very experienced Dominant guy and enjoy lots of different types of play so long as it is safe, sane and consensual.
I have switched on occasion and I think this makes me a better Dominant as I know how it feels “from the other side “. |
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"Genuinely interested in who is Dom and who is sub ? Is it something that comes naturally or maybe you've had an experience in the past that has brought out your stronger side...ps for the record we're both sub "
Naturally sub. I aim to please. |
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By *lusherCouple 8 weeks ago
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"Genuinely interested in who is Dom and who is sub ? Is it something that comes naturally or maybe you've had an experience in the past that has brought out your stronger side...ps for the record we're both sub "
I am dom (male half here) simply because a lot of women like it and I aim to please. Miss K (female half) is switch but a better dom because A. She looks better in the gear than me B. She intuitively know what the sub role person wants as the session dynamics change. |
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We've been a D/s couple for, we'll seems like forever now as we've been together 30 years.
I've always had a Dominant personality and when we were kids I now realise I picked my sub and married her.
We have explored a lot and in that time D has discovered she is switch with other ladies and loves the Domme in her.
I think you are born with the personality traits but to be 'a Dom' is definitely a learnt skill or combination of many skills.
Many miss the fact that it is an awful lot more than purely physical.
S |
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