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The first swap
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fabbers!
What was your first actual swap like?
Was it club, party or home?
Did you both just go for it or were there 'rules' in place that you stuck to? (And are those rules still in place?)
Interested as we will be doing this as soon as restrictions are lifted... thanks x |
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Our first ever swap was a meet in a posh flat in London.
We were nervous as hell.
There was six of us, I ended up with a French gymnast, C enjoyed a young Brazilian guy and the party was hosted by a guy with a wooden leg.
Beat that!. |
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"always at a club for us ... the tension and the playful inquiry ... so easy for a lady to get a single guy ... it is harder to have all four "click" ... "
Totally agree with you - just need to find a Club  |
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"always at a club for us ... the tension and the playful inquiry ... so easy for a lady to get a single guy ... it is harder to have all four "click" ...
Totally agree with you - just need to find a Club "
Meet you at Chams when it’s all over x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met in a really nice pub. I was with my then wife. The other couple turned up; he was a chubby fella with a perm and she had the tightest most revealing rubber dress I'd seen. Still we decided to carry on with the meet. Followed them to their very nice home and played for a couple of hours; he got frustrated because he couldn't make my Mrs cum, his Mrs squirted all over my face (before it had been invented) and he tried sucking my cock when the ladies went to shower.
Amazing what you could find on the back pages of Loot them days  |
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A travelodge, lovely couple soft play. But tbh we were in at the deep end as it was our first meet of any kind and borders were still being established and with hindsight a coffee would have been better, but lucky for us it worked out. |
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"always at a club for us ... the tension and the playful inquiry ... so easy for a lady to get a single guy ... it is harder to have all four "click" ...
Totally agree with you - just need to find a Club
Meet you at Chams when it’s all over x"
We certainly want to give it a try, & soon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talked about it and role played it for years to the point where we thought stuff it we’ve gotta just give it a go. Actually hired an escort for our first mmf hoping it would avoid any awkwardness and we knew we just wanted to dive straight in. Worked a treat for us.
Never looked back and have had some lovely private meets with couples since.
We had boundaries to start with but it didn’t take long for those to go out the window.
Haven’t made it to a club yet but would love to once all this is over |
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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago
Kidderminster |
"Hi fabbers!
What was your first actual swap like?
Was it club, party or home?
Did you both just go for it or were there 'rules' in place that you stuck to? (And are those rules still in place?)
Interested as we will be doing this as soon as restrictions are lifted... thanks x "
Early 20s at home, friend of ours and her boyfriend. |
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Don’t overplan it or expect fireworks!
Go to a club to watch first. It’ll give you something to discuss and help you set boundaries and work out what each of you wants.
A club let’s you play then retreat to watch.
At home it can get awkward if things are slow to start or the pilot light goes out!!
Take it easy. It’s just sex. Leave your emotions at home and enjoy the physical aspect for what it is. |
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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago
Oo err Devon |
"Our first ever swap was a meet in a posh flat in London.
We were nervous as hell.
There was six of us, I ended up with a French gymnast, C enjoyed a young Brazilian guy and the party was hosted by a guy with a wooden leg.
Beat that!. "
Wow!! That's a great story! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time with a couple off here was a disaster ??
Turned up at their place, he was pissed and was im gonna fuck your wife sore. She was nice then their daughter came out into the living room.
We made an excuse and left.
Had gr8 MMF experience since and want more and more post covid.
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Ours wasn't great, done the social, both very nice and good looking so thought ... great.
On the play date the lady turned up half cut then carried on drinking getting more and more d*unk, hubby lost interest in her pretty fast so we basically swapped back to our own partners. |
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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago
Gwent... |
Our first experience was wish friends that played. The wives had both had fun in unit one tipsy night. We had talked about it for ages and loved out first time. Unfortunately they moved to the States and we rarely see them...but great memories... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t overplan it or expect fireworks!
Go to a club to watch first. It’ll give you something to discuss and help you set boundaries and work out what each of you wants.
A club let’s you play then retreat to watch.
At home it can get awkward if things are slow to start or the pilot light goes out!!
Take it easy. It’s just sex. Leave your emotions at home and enjoy the physical aspect for what it is. "
Brillient advice. Spot on as its just sex. |
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"Don’t overplan it or expect fireworks!
Go to a club to watch first. It’ll give you something to discuss and help you set boundaries and work out what each of you wants.
A club let’s you play then retreat to watch.
At home it can get awkward if things are slow to start or the pilot light goes out!!
Take it easy. It’s just sex. Leave your emotions at home and enjoy the physical aspect for what it is.
Brillient advice. Spot on as its just sex. "
Very wise words all round —- and remember to have a great fuck afterwards just the two of you - to reconnect x |
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Our first full swap was at a club. We went with a couple we’d played with on a few occasions before but only soft swing. It was awesome when the other fella asked me if I was okay with him asking MrsJ to take things further. She smiled and said yes. We had a great time. |
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one of our first meets was with a lovely couple who we had a lot in common with in our hobbies (go nerds!) it was quite clear we all wanted to 'do more' but it wasn't until she popped off to the loo and came back out in nothing but lingerie that we got the 'signal' and went off to the bedroom for some fun! |
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By *tt1Couple
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
100% genuine although it reads like a a story !
Back in 2005 we went on a weekend away to Amsterdam, nothing planned and hadn’t discussed anything like swopping other than the odd comment here and there.
Went on a “dinner cruise” and were sat on a table of 4 with another English couple.
Went for a drink afterwards and all ended up back at our hotel room ......
As unplanned now boundaries were set and we’ve not looked back since (albeit we do have a couple of boundaries now!)
Xx |
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By *p4u69Man
over a year ago
Guernsey |
Mine was at Abfab with a partner about 14 years ago. We both ended up sleeping with a couple in a same room swap. After we finished that there was no stopping us then as we ended up in a 10 person gangbang among other things. Certainly a night I'll never forget |
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We were invited to a private swingers party through Fab. It was above a porn shop. After trying on some outfits, we started flirting with the hosts. I ended up giving the petite brunette hostess an oily foot massage and went down on her whilst my wife played with her husband. We were buzzing when we left. |
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