FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Feels impossible here
Feels impossible here
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading "
What is a fuck boil? Something infected and full of pus?
Are you looking for meets today? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *awk90Man
over a year ago
Hamburg, Germany |
To each their own, mate! I'm similar to you I suppose, but not all people are. Some like it one way, some another, some others a third. You're never gonna be a fit for everyone, no matter how you are! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Some people want fuck and go, and that their choice and that’s ok. Some people want connection and regular meets, and that’s also ok.
Some people on here are looking for a relationship.
There are all sorts on here, but maybe you might feel more positive about it with a different thought process? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Some people want fuck and go, and that their choice and that’s ok. Some people want connection and regular meets, and that’s also ok.
Some people on here are looking for a relationship.
There are all sorts on here, but maybe you might feel more positive about it with a different thought process? "
  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I love jammy dodgers 
I just had a Wagon Wheel.
Haven't had one in years
Disappointingly smaller than you remember? "
All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Jammy dodgers and waggon wheels (emphasise on the h) lol alot smaller but still so gooood lol thanks for replies everyone i,ll get on sorting my profile. I understand the quick meet no feelings etc.im not judging anyone's doings everyone to their own. I do see ot differently now its been said like that sorry i meant no offence. X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*"
Orange is the new black |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose. "
Totally disagree with that.
There are loads of people have found love on this site. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*
Orange is the new black "
Sad I've watched all those now! X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading "
People are scared and extra cautious these days
Very, very few are meeting let alone looking to start new relationships
A lot of people are fed up and frustrated
Your luck will change in time
If not via here, then somewhere
Til then, do your best to stay well in body & mind |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love jammy dodgers
I just had a Wagon Wheel.
Haven't had one in years
Disappointingly smaller than you remember?
All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that! "
There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love jammy dodgers
I just had a Wagon Wheel.
Haven't had one in years
Disappointingly smaller than you remember?
All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!
There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger. "
It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I love jammy dodgers
I just had a Wagon Wheel.
Haven't had one in years
Disappointingly smaller than you remember?
All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that! they are smaller but just had a nice cream cake yum
There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.
It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol x"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love jammy dodgers
I just had a Wagon Wheel.
Haven't had one in years
Disappointingly smaller than you remember?
All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!
There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.
It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol x"
They were at least eight bites as a kid. I can shove the whole thing in my gob at one time now. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading "
well i could have given you a bj but youve blocked anyone like me, it is so unfair!lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading "
I think there are some ladies who on are here looking for love, but I’d say broadly people are on here for recreational sex. Sometimes things develop from there though. Your profile says you’re looking for long term NSA I think, and in this post you’ve mentioned hearts and loving. If you’re looking for a relationship maybe you’d be better on a dating site. Why are you here instead of somewhere more conventional? Long term NSA but with your heart involved can be tricky. Hearts tend to lead to strings.
It’s very difficult at the moment as we’re all in lockdown so people are less likely to be reaching out for new relationships. Meeting new people is far easier when you can actually meet them.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"affectionate, loving, long term affection.... ' As a married woman these are words that would freak me out a bit and would put me off a profile.
Apart from a select few, I think most ladies on here are looking for recreational sex, men to work within they're sexual dynamic or fuck buddies.
Any hint of a guy who wanted more would send me running for the hills.
Maybe a dating site would be more suited to what you're looking for? Xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I love jammy dodgers
I just had a Wagon Wheel.
Haven't had one in years
Disappointingly smaller than you remember?
All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!
There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.
It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol x
They were at least eight bites as a kid. I can shove the whole thing in my gob at one time now. "
Cos yr mouth bigger! Has everything got bigger? X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading "
. To be perfectly honest with any site like this the majority of people on here have no intention of meeting anyone even under normal circumstances. Lots of people just like the ego boost from the attention they get, plus the keyboard wanking. Was always so.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.
Totally disagree with that.
There are loads of people have found love on this site."
How can you totally disagree with that when it literally says it does happen. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Chin up lad....I’m 5’7 and Ginger. I’ve had plenty of fun just hold out for the right ones not all are after 6ft gym gods *inserts thumbs up emoji*"
This has me absolutely buckled laughing. Gan oan son lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.
Totally disagree with that.
There are loads of people have found love on this site.
How can you totally disagree with that when it literally says it does happen. "
we met on this site 4 years ago yes at first it was just sex but we fell in love and got married so yes it does happen op you must realise this site is not really a dating site |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Same as us. We met on here 10 years ago!
Neither of us were looking for love.
"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.
Totally disagree with that.
There are loads of people have found love on this site.
How can you totally disagree with that when it literally says it does happen. we met on this site 4 years ago yes at first it was just sex but we fell in love and got married so yes it does happen op you must realise this site is not really a dating site "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
You've joined at a really difficult time for you to gain much success, due to the months that people have been waiting to meet people they know or have got to know since the pandemic started. It has always needed men to have tons of patience here regardless though.
If you can create realistic expectations and focus your efforts, there are many of us here who are decent and not just looking for 1 thing, we have varied interests. It's not a place where just 1 type of guy and sexual encounter is in demand.
Get to know us for more than sex too. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I love jammy dodgers
I just had a Wagon Wheel.
Haven't had one in years
Disappointingly smaller than you remember?
All treats from when we were kids seem smaller now. It only occured to me this morning that I'm way bigger than I was as a kid, so it might be that!
There is absolutely no way on earth that wagon wheels are the same size now as when I was younger.
It's because yr hands are now bigger!lol x
They were at least eight bites as a kid. I can shove the whole thing in my gob at one time now. "
You need one of those veris that goes on about Dysons....  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Tiny amount of couples/fems met up before covid let alone. most women on here just seem to like the chase and most couples are run by the hubby. "
wrong they are not couples are run by couples at least the genuine ones are if one says no it’s no
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
So there's a few things... this isn't primarily a dating site. If people get that impression from you and they aren't interested in that it's probably a factor in why you aren't having much luck.
We're currently in a pandemic so a lot less people will be interested in meeting and might not see the point of getting into deep conversations that have to keep going for months and months before it's safe to meet. Especially if they are primarily interested in sex not dating.
Also it doesn't benefit you to moan or try and belittle other people's choice on sexual partners based on what you think they want, as if you know what's good for them more than they do! You're just making assumptions, and even if that is the case for some women, so what? The point of somewhere like FAB is that you can be more upfront about your desires. If that's sex without connection with many partners so be it. There's nothing wrong with women or men doing that - and tbh men who have lots of casual sex are only "fuckbois" if they aren't being honest about just wanting sex, and the majority of guys on here are honest if that's what they want.
TL;Dr stop moaning and making other people out to be the problem just because you aren't getting what you want. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Forgive me but looking at your profile, you're a good looking guy but I think you should rewrite the text. There's something about what you've written that smacks to me of sexual desperation and creepiness, not really confidence. Pushy isn't a turn-on.
I think the other red flag is that you've confused love with sex on the profile. If what you want is to meet someone for a longish relationship if you hit it off, don't be saying you don't mind NSA, quick meets, FF couples, dogging etc. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I mean... We are experiencing a pandemic.
That, and fab is geared more towards couples and women. Men are frowned upon.
Those who seeking men are seeking something extraordinary. No matter what people say otherwise, this is true
Once you come to terms with the above you will have a better time on here. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I mean... We are experiencing a pandemic.
That, and fab is geared more towards couples and women. Men are frowned upon.
Those who seeking men are seeking something extraordinary. No matter what people say otherwise, this is true
Once you come to terms with the above you will have a better time on here."
I don't frown upon men I love men |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I mean... We are experiencing a pandemic.
That, and fab is geared more towards couples and women. Men are frowned upon.
Those who seeking men are seeking something extraordinary. No matter what people say otherwise, this is true
Once you come to terms with the above you will have a better time on here. I don't frown upon men I love men "
Haha me too!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.
Totally disagree with that.
There are loads of people have found love on this site.
How can you totally disagree with that when it literally says it does happen. we met on this site 4 years ago yes at first it was just sex but we fell in love and got married so yes it does happen op you must realise this site is not really a dating site "
My gf and I also met on here and have a great dynamic and all the feels!
But fuck that, I'm more interested in the jammy dodger vs wagon wheel debate! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"This might not be the right site for you then if you're looking for love. Yes it does happen but it's not the site's main purpose.
Totally disagree with that.
There are loads of people have found love on this site."
I would love to meet someone on here for a swinging relationship. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Tiny amount of couples/fems met up before covid let alone. most women on here just seem to like the chase and most couples are run by the hubby. wrong they are not couples are run by couples at least the genuine ones are if one says no it’s no"
Jenny has the final say who we will meet when safe to do so. So it is not always the men in charge of the profile, we are a team so we look together on here. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Ive been on and off fab and seem to get nowhere. Im truly affectionate but seems ladies want fuck boiis who fill tallies not hearts ....if you're looking for a genuine affectionate loving male IM HERE lol thanks for reading "
I think you joined this site at a really bad time, during a pandemic.
People like myself have been here for sometime and personally I've dated fellow swingers and recently have had a guy I've played with and known for a couple of years that wants to date.
So I guess it depends what you want to use this site for but the timing isn't great. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
