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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I don't see why not. I suppose it would depend where, though. Meeting in woodland for a first might not be the correct thing to do! I did have a social meet on Southsea seafront several years ago, bought a coffee and walked along the front. That was a long time before the virus. |
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I think walks are great safer ways to start socials, with a few benefits. Firstly the whole group is naturally more fluid, rather than having rigid groups at tables, for example. It stops potentially people feeling somewhat trapped, hemmed-in, less able to escape unwanted attention, or able to reach others they'd like to make contact with.
They're potentially excluding in many ways some who have infirmity, or who may be sensitive of lower fitness levels than others. These can be somewhat overcome, by focusing on relaxed 'walks', that may be not too much more energetic than short strolls in open areas and can include people bringing their own hot drinks and refreshments etc.
Some may be deterred by indoor socials, in case they are recognised - some could prefer outdoors. They potentially include those who may have more limited finances, which is a great thing.
Organisation is key, to set the scene for others. Encouraging people to move between those they are with, helps to introduce as many as possible to others and reduces ideas of being snubbed or eccluded. There will be some who are more popular, so it's good to have ways to keep all inclused.
You can have games outdoors of course  Great ways to get people getting along.
Exercise helps people to relax, if not too harsh for any, so it counters people who may naturally feel a little more socially awkward. Moving the body eases the mind.
Options for level of movement, distance etc are good, to keep it accessible, as does the type of location. |
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over a year ago
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"No, not for me. It’s inherently risky for a woman to go on a walk with a strange man, especially if you mean somewhere secluded."
Local public parks are safe enough places to meet people. There are always numerous members of the public around so you should feel safe enough. Just don't go anywhere secluded for your own safety. |
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"No, not for me. It’s inherently risky for a woman to go on a walk with a strange man, especially if you mean somewhere secluded."
would prefer somewhere where others feel comfortable wouldn’t be a very nice sociable with someone feeling on edge
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