Just had a guy tell me that although I am part of a couple and his profile says he is looking for couples, he wouldn't feel comfortable meeting my husband before I was allowed to play alone.
Why bother asking for couples then? Seems a reasonable request |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A tad confusing but are you conveying the right message?
If you only play as a couple and are looking for single women why are you engaging with a single man about meeting alone - maybe I’m the one that’s confused! |
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"A tad confusing but are you conveying the right message?
If you only play as a couple and are looking for single women why are you engaging with a single man about meeting alone - maybe I’m the one that’s confused!"
It says in the profile...single guys...we'll find you |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I would always assume that I'm chatting to both partners of a couple. Thereby I would also assume would meet both partners. Usually play mfm so trust is built up before playing with the female 121. |
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i once met a couple from on here. he didnt want to take any part in anything.
we all had a drink in the bar first then went up to the room.
he just sat very quietly in the corner and never said anything. other than thank you when they left |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a guy tell me that although I am part of a couple and his profile says he is looking for couples, he wouldn't feel comfortable meeting my husband before I was allowed to play alone.
Why bother asking for couples then? Seems a reasonable request "
Just someone trying their luck. |
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By *avid1Man
over a year ago
Dubai |
"i once met a couple from on here. he didnt want to take any part in anything.
we all had a drink in the bar first then went up to the room.
he just sat very quietly in the corner and never said anything. other than thank you when they left"
Had a couple like that! One even went back down to the bar and let us get on with round two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a guy tell me that although I am part of a couple and his profile says he is looking for couples, he wouldn't feel comfortable meeting my husband before I was allowed to play alone.
Why bother asking for couples then? Seems a reasonable request "
We just had the same in reverse trying to decide if that is quite rude or not |
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"Just had a guy tell me that although I am part of a couple and his profile says he is looking for couples, he wouldn't feel comfortable meeting my husband before I was allowed to play alone.
Why bother asking for couples then? Seems a reasonable request "
We have found the same or even better they will tell you there bi but straight on there profile you ask them to explain and in there mind there bi cos they dont mind watching other men with woman but wont join In just want the woman to please him and go lol good luck to them people |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Just had a guy tell me that although I am part of a couple and his profile says he is looking for couples, he wouldn't feel comfortable meeting my husband before I was allowed to play alone.
Why bother asking for couples then? Seems a reasonable request "
Sounds like a chance to me. Delete him block and move on is my advice. |
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That sort of thing happens a lot to us too. Men always assume that it's the fem online and messages are directed towards her alone. They always ask who is on line and if told its the male they just go off line. If told its the fem they always ask to meet on a one to one basis. Having been a single guy in the scene for many years and a very succseful one at that it doesn't surprise me why single guys get such bad press because at least 80 % or more of them simply don't have a clue of how to approach couples or single wimen let alone understand what this life style is about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy to talk and meet both of you, if you present as a couple I assume I can be talking to either, unless you tell me.
I don't see how you can meet one and not the other at first if there a couple, it works both ways
Unless he was trying his luck... Silly boy lol, I'd have met both of you, your both hot .. op that is   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If the guy isn't willing to meet ne he sure as shit isn't going to be meeting my wife, not saying I need to be involved in anything that may happen but her safety and enjoyment is my priority. |
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"Just had a guy tell me that although I am part of a couple and his profile says he is looking for couples, he wouldn't feel comfortable meeting my husband before I was allowed to play alone.
Why bother asking for couples then? Seems a reasonable request
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If he wants couples why is he not wanting to meet both, isn't that a fun time. I think so. |
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