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Am I too old?
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By *J2304 OP Man
over a year ago
DAGENHAM |
Hi All
So one reason I joined here was to fulfil my fantasy of long steamy passionate sex sessions with older women.
I'm now wondering at 29 am I too old to be some lovely older woman's toyboy because I can't seem to find my Mrs Robinson |
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You’re too young for many. You could well be their kids age and a lot don’t like that. And also bear in mind that your wish for an older lady is the same wish as most guys here under 40 years old. You’re in hard market. |
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By *J2304 OP Man
over a year ago
DAGENHAM |
"You’re too young for many. You could well be their kids age and a lot don’t like that. And also bear in mind that your wish for an older lady is the same wish as most guys here under 40 years old. You’re in hard market. "
Weirdly that's cheered me up a bit lol. I did think about the kids thing but that's why I usually message profiles that are seeking men at least 28+ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, I've got the same for being too young. Some women have met me but not on here that are older. Takes all sorts to make a world you'll be a matures type just need to find them (or they find you) |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
Preston |
I also sometimes quest for the older lady,
Older the better for that extra thrill.
But some only want really young, 18-25 others want older than me. I’m stuck in the middle of tastes it seems.
But I’m sure with persistence they will find you. Just don’t pester.
Think it stems from a 48yr old when I was on leave in Blackpool when I was 18 years old. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All
So one reason I joined here was to fulfil my fantasy of long steamy passionate sex sessions with older women.
I'm now wondering at 29 am I too old to be some lovely older woman's toyboy because I can't seem to find my Mrs Robinson "
Have a hooker. Done would say it's easier. |
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
"Yeah that makes sense. I mean I like older women but I wouldn't be with a woman older than my mother "
I have my minimum set at 30 something. But I can’t take anyone in their early 30s messaging me seriously… I imagine they’ll be a time waster (many don’t have veris, or their veris are from women in their 20s, so why message me) or messaging literally everyone in the hope of a reply from someone… add to that the initial message is usually very basic - it’s difficult from both sides! |
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By *J2304 OP Man
over a year ago
DAGENHAM |
Oh I've had a couple of time wasters myself. I'm sure some people create accounts on here just with the intention of playing games. But I don't think there's an age limit on people being time wasters.
It just depends on who you interacted with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stick at it, there are plenty of people here to meet people of your age."
I agree . Shame I'm over most people's age preference preference. Great profile btw you've been on my hot list a while  |
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"Hi All
So one reason I joined here was to fulfil my fantasy of long steamy passionate sex sessions with older women.
I'm now wondering at 29 am I too old to be some lovely older woman's toyboy because I can't seem to find my Mrs Robinson "
Perhaps you're just not their type and its not about your age
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I see these posts way too often in the forums from guys my age, younger and slightly older…. I find if you focus on getting to know a woman and not being so hung up on her age you may have more success.
Just like how like I detest being fetishised as a black man, I’m sure women of a certain age do not need constant reminding of it and wouldn’t like to be fetishised for their age. |
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"I see these posts way too often in the forums from guys my age, younger and slightly older…. I find if you focus on getting to know a woman and not being so hung up on her age you may have more success.
Just like how like I detest being fetishised as a black man, I’m sure women of a certain age do not need constant reminding of it and wouldn’t like to be fetishised for their age. "
Bravo I love your style. Younger men always say "but I love older ladies" whenever I decline. I've been reminded that I'm old?!
However, I always reply, "but I can't stand younger men!!". Done!! |
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By *J2304 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I see these posts way too often in the forums from guys my age, younger and slightly older…. I find if you focus on getting to know a woman and not being so hung up on her age you may have more success.
Just like how like I detest being fetishised as a black man, I’m sure women of a certain age do not need constant reminding of it and wouldn’t like to be fetishised for their age. "
I just checked your verifications and some of those women state they are seeking BBC or are not into white guys. So you don't like to be seen as fetish but you've also used a woman's fetish for a black man to suit your needs.
Either it's wrong to be here seeking a certain type of person or it's not. But you can't have it both ways my friend.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi All
So one reason I joined here was to fulfil my fantasy of long steamy passionate sex sessions with older women.
I'm now wondering at 29 am I too old to be some lovely older woman's toyboy because I can't seem to find my Mrs Robinson "
Nah, 29 is a good age. I personally prefer older women - but don't get much luck.
It might be worth readjusting, and going for younger. If I hit up girls from 18 to 24 (I'm 30 btw) I get a lot more success messaging, getting numbers etc. |
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"Hi All
So one reason I joined here was to fulfil my fantasy of long steamy passionate sex sessions with older women.
I'm now wondering at 29 am I too old to be some lovely older woman's toyboy because I can't seem to find my Mrs Robinson "
Lucy is 36 if that helps  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see these posts way too often in the forums from guys my age, younger and slightly older…. I find if you focus on getting to know a woman and not being so hung up on her age you may have more success.
Just like how like I detest being fetishised as a black man, I’m sure women of a certain age do not need constant reminding of it and wouldn’t like to be fetishised for their age.
Bravo I love your style. Younger men always say "but I love older ladies" whenever I decline. I've been reminded that I'm old?!
However, I always reply, "but I can't stand younger men!!". Done!! "
Same  |
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By *osexyCouple
over a year ago
ST AUSTELL |
At our age not quite sure why someone in their 20s or 30s would want to meet us . As some have already said if they are younger than your son or daughter it just feels as though it’s wrong . If someone has a genuine desire to meet us and we feel the chemistry who knows. Each to their own it is about finding the right match . |
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"I see these posts way too often in the forums from guys my age, younger and slightly older…. I find if you focus on getting to know a woman and not being so hung up on her age you may have more success.
Just like how like I detest being fetishised as a black man, I’m sure women of a certain age do not need constant reminding of it and wouldn’t like to be fetishised for their age. "
And sometimes it’s just about timing / mood etc
Sometimes I love the idea of a younger man but it’s usually when I’m out and about say in a bar at lunchtime because I’m already feeling relaxed and someone catches my eye or even in the supermarket lol … wherever I’m in the mood I guess and that would be great as no stress , flirty , spontaneous and sexy
But when I’m on here it becomes somehow more stressful as it’s difficult fitting long chats in with family life and feels more demanding and stressful somehow .
That’s just my view but we are all individual
I fancy who I fancy and that changes from time to time
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All
So one reason I joined here was to fulfil my fantasy of long steamy passionate sex sessions with older women.
I'm now wondering at 29 am I too old to be some lovely older woman's toyboy because I can't seem to find my Mrs Robinson "
Keep trying lovely, you'll find someone. A massive amount of patience is needed for this site  |
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"Hi All
So one reason I joined here was to fulfil my fantasy of long steamy passionate sex sessions with older women.
I'm now wondering at 29 am I too old to be some lovely older woman's toyboy because I can't seem to find my Mrs Robinson "
Maybe try refining your profile a little. Would you really meet anyone aged 18-99? |
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"I see these posts way too often in the forums from guys my age, younger and slightly older…. I find if you focus on getting to know a woman and not being so hung up on her age you may have more success.
Just like how like I detest being fetishised as a black man, I’m sure women of a certain age do not need constant reminding of it and wouldn’t like to be fetishised for their age.
I just checked your verifications and some of those women state they are seeking BBC or are not into white guys. So you don't like to be seen as fetish but you've also used a woman's fetish for a black man to suit your needs.
Either it's wrong to be here seeking a certain type of person or it's not. But you can't have it both ways my friend.
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Just seen this…. How on earth is that on me if the women I’ve met are into black guys and not white guys? I think you need to understand the difference between fetishising and having a preference. Why on earth would seek out those who I don’t fit their preference? Surely that’s just a waste of my time and theirs?  |
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By *J2304 OP Man 48 weeks ago
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There's a difference between them preferring black men and them being a middle aged white couple or woman who is married to a white guy seeking a black guy for a shag.
That is not a preference that is a fetish. |
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"I see these posts way too often in the forums from guys my age, younger and slightly older…. I find if you focus on getting to know a woman and not being so hung up on her age you may have more success.
Just like how like I detest being fetishised as a black man, I’m sure women of a certain age do not need constant reminding of it and wouldn’t like to be fetishised for their age. "
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By *oxy jWoman 48 weeks ago
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your a man the site is 70% male then include all the fake women run my men profiles and the same with alot of couples profiles too then you'll notice a very small pool of women and couples but also bear in mind alot of those women and couples do actually meet ... and then there's your answer the percentages make it very hard for alot of men alot wont ever meet some will and some will get lots but in truth and the best way to put it is there is not someone for everyone if your a guy on this scene |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Hey OP I just wanted to say my issue is my son he's 29 years old and I just can't get my head round a man that age.
Its a bit ridiculous but it's how I am.
You're definitely not to old lol x |
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"Hey OP I just wanted to say my issue is my son he's 29 years old and I just can't get my head round a man that age.
Its a bit ridiculous but it's how I am.
You're definitely not to old lol x"
Am I too old at 73? |
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"There's a difference between them preferring black men and them being a middle aged white couple or woman who is married to a white guy seeking a black guy for a shag.
That is not a preference that is a fetish. "
Hang on, if I fancy an individual that is not a carbon copy of my partner then it's a fetish?? Well blow me, I've learned something new  |
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