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How does my profile look?
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From OUR perspective, never gone looking for single guys they have come to us, (as in messaging). Maybe you should put yourself out there more. Don't pester though, nothing puts us off, faster than a message of same guy every two mins because you didn't reply.
Read couples profiles. Get to know a bit about them, not just "wanna fuck"
If you are going to copy and paste a message make it seem personal, you can do it so it doesn't quite look like a generic copy and paste.
Also add more meat to your bio. For us it helps knowing the person we are going to meet is attempting to out effort in not just "looking for women or couples"
Again this is just us other couples might be completely different.
Best of luck Hun. |
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Your profile is lacking. Search the forum for all the advice given out on a daily basis on threads such as these. In my opinion your 2nd picture would be better as your profile pic.
Good luck, the effort you put in is the reward level you will get back. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"
It's not good Sam, not good at all in fact.
Do you think it is good?? |
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"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"
Your choice of profile name is already stacking the odds against you.
As for a review of your profile, there's precious little to review.
Plenty of profile review threads for you to read through. The advice is out there if you can be bothered.
Winston |
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Photos are a bit samey. A good physique shot would show your eares well. And a relaxed smiling pic would be very good.
With the text, think of it more as what you can give, rather than what others can give you.
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"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"
2 questions if ok, otherwise my advice will be useless to you.
When did you join fab?
Revised or tweaked profile at all since joining? |
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Got to be honest, your experiences on here are going to get any better other than now you have found the forum it gives you something that you don't get from your profile....
responses and interaction. Recommended or just stumbled across fab.com my advice is delete profile, and deleting a profile is a real ballache . If not already fire up tinder,happn, gdff.com theres millions |
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over a year ago
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yep gotta agree just have a bit more about you on your profile bio gives us something to ask or chat about, also it will show each party has taken a bit of time to look. |
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"Hey everyone how does my profile look not getting any women asking about me on here don't know what's wrong with it or me?"
You're not going to get women asking about you. They don't need to as they have, literally, hundred of offers each day so they don't go searching. Same with couples, generally.
Your profile is pretty rubbish to be fair (nothing that we've not seen thousands of times) but you need to have realistic expectations and send good messages to the right people. Read their profile, only message if you are what they are looking for, tailor your message to them and ask open questions that can start a conversation (not "how's you?", "what you up to?", etc) and rekber that there are a lot more guys than women on here and most don't need that many new guys each month.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone . Can I get a profile review as well please?
We think it is average, but you have had a few meets so it must work.
Are you trying to get a bit more attention??"
Thank you . No, not really. I'd just like to hear what other people think of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone . Can I get a profile review as well please?
No. It's impolite to jump on someone else's thread asking for advice.
(Bry)"
I apologise sir  |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
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A , or . Wouldn’t go amiss. Give the reader a chance to breath.
Someone previous has said, pictures are all very similar.. mix it up.. no I’m not saying add 69 pictures of your cock from different angles.
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"Maybe at least one cock pic mate also Maybe ass pic
Don't agree with that comment, arse pic maybe, cock pics are best left in friends pics. You have way too many "
Can't please everyone. We like to see one tasteful cock pic just to see that it's not deformed or covered in sores!
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"Maybe at least one cock pic mate also Maybe ass pic
Don't agree with that comment, arse pic maybe, cock pics are best left in friends pics. You have way too many
Can't please everyone. We like to see one tasteful cock pic just to see that it's not deformed or covered in sores!
(Bry)"
I would rather they were sent when we message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello everyone . Can I get a profile review as well please?
We think it is average, but you have had a few meets so it must work.
Are you trying to get a bit more attention??"
5 meets within a month of joining and nothing since, is that because you’ve stopped posting recent verifications or did you just happen to have a really good run directly after joining that came to an abrupt end? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello everyone . Can I get a profile review as well please?
We think it is average, but you have had a few meets so it must work.
Are you trying to get a bit more attention??
5 meets within a month of joining and nothing since, is that because you’ve stopped posting recent verifications or did you just happen to have a really good run directly after joining that came to an abrupt end?"
All those verifications were from socials, events or parties which seem to be much easier to get into. I have never been successful at pulling a one to one meet.
Thanks for the reply by the way
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"Yet another guy who asks for advice and does nothing with it. Don't know why we bother commenting tbf "
Because he may not agree with your advice  . Just because you offer advice doesn’t mean he has to take it ??!! |
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"Yet another guy who asks for advice and does nothing with it. Don't know why we bother commenting tbf
Because he may not agree with your advice . Just because you offer advice doesn’t mean he has to take it ??!!"
Didn't say he did tbf  |
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