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First time for single guy to club/meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi Guys

I'm hoping to go to my first club and have my first private meet sometime soon. I'm pretty apprehensive about the whole thing, but definitely ready for it!

Is it a good idea for me to go to a private meet straight off given that I don't really know the protocol? I'll obviously listen to any ground rules and stick to them and be polite, and respectful, but are there any other pointers people can recommend?

As for clubs, I'd ideally like to go with someone and not on my own, but I'm prepared to go by myself if I have to. Again, I'll just be my normal, friendly self but am wondering what I can expect to happen on the first visit. I'd like something to happen but won't be going expecting it to. It probably depends on the club/people, but can anyone recommend a good club for those starting out and who might be going alone?

Many thanks!

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By *thlete0Couple  over a year ago

southend

Clubs like this are far more stict then the “normal” clubs be polite don't pester couples and enjoy yourself and you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It depends on how far you want to travel. Best thing is to check out the clubs via the clubs tab on here. Single male entrance is expensive so you might want to consider going with someone or as a guest of a couple. Also see if they have social nights; my local one does, that way you can see what the club is like and it won't cost you an arm and a leg

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Sounds good. I think I might put an ad in the meet up section for someone (female!) to go to a club with. And stating that it's for social purposes initially with no pressure to do anything unless they decide to.

Also, the private meet ups where couples request single guys to join them.. are they safe/legit??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

we have had single males round our place so obviously some are legit,but as with everything else on here be prepared for anything!.if you do get invited take a few condoms.had a couple of people turn up without any,also viagra is a good idea as you will be understandably nervous.good luck

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