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The first Meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is it just me being new to this, or is every first meet with someone as nerve wrecking as the last one?

Im not a shy guy by nature, in fact far from it....but i do get a bit nervous before we meet. Though i also get quite excited too. Mixed feelings

We all end up loving the meet afterwards, but why is the build up so damn hard in the 1st place haha.

Let me know how you feel guys on your first meet...

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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Nervous,excited,worried,loads of emotions every time but I love feeling like that and would never want to feel any different lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nervous,excited,worried,loads of emotions every time but I love feeling like that and would never want to feel any different lol"

At your age that probably also describes how you feel when more that 200 meters from a loo...................

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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"Nervous,excited,worried,loads of emotions every time but I love feeling like that and would never want to feel any different lol

At your age that probably also describes how you feel when more that 200 meters from a loo................... "

Behave you or I shall have to hit you with my zimmer frame

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

Oh I love it and hate it....but I think it makes for a great meet and i still feel that way now.

The only time I wasn't nervous it turned out not as good a meet...so I like the nerves now

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By *abeandhimCouple  over a year ago

Chester

yes love it and hate it is a good way to put it, one half of you is thinking are we doing right thing and worrying that will not hit it of and have to say no thxs

on the other side is that nervous tingle at the thought of a meet and joy of it when you hit it off .

On the whole we think it adds to the pleasure of any fun that comes out of a meet and chat over a drink in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Once those feelings go, start to worry, it's all part and parcel to the meet I think.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it's only natural to be nervous. You want the other people to think your a nice person.

And of course if all goes well and everyone is happy, then the fun can begin...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i dont do nervous, havnt for a long time, love the buzz of meeting new ppl , and thinking bout the fun

xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Agree, I always get a buzz, but some of that will be from my pacemaker and some from electrical impulses caused by the metal plate in my skull

What was the question again???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i dont do nervous, havnt for a long time, love the buzz of meeting new ppl , and thinking bout the fun

xx"

you said it

love the buzz 2 meeting new people always good feeling

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

WHATS A MEET ?????? lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"WHATS A MEET ?????? lol"

LOL i'm with you on that one, I don't believe such a thing exists. Were more likely to see a dragon than have a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

dont matter how many meets we have always nervous good thing i think xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"WHATS A MEET ?????? lol

LOL i'm with you on that one, I don't believe such a thing exists. Were more likely to see a dragon than have a meet!"

Thats a very defetist attitude, I hae had a couple of "come to lunch" threads without much response AND I am going to a social on friday where theres 104 on the menu (i mean guest list), so i know that the offers are there, its just you guys that chose not to take the offers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"WHATS A MEET ?????? lol

LOL i'm with you on that one, I don't believe such a thing exists. Were more likely to see a dragon than have a meet!

Thats a very defetist attitude, I hae had a couple of "come to lunch" threads without much response AND I am going to a social on friday where theres 104 on the menu (i mean guest list), so i know that the offers are there, its just you guys that chose not to take the offers"

And this is the perfect offer, a real two in one opportunity.

Go to this Friday's social and not only will you get the real chance to meet up to 103 new faces, but with HotandWet there you also get to meet a Dragon.............

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"WHATS A MEET ?????? lol

LOL i'm with you on that one, I don't believe such a thing exists. Were more likely to see a dragon than have a meet!

Thats a very defetist attitude, I hae had a couple of "come to lunch" threads without much response AND I am going to a social on friday where theres 104 on the menu (i mean guest list), so i know that the offers are there, its just you guys that chose not to take the offers"

And this is the perfect offer, a real two in one opportunity.

Go to this Friday's social and not only will you get the real chance to meet up to 103 new faces, but with HotandWet there you also get to meet a Dragon.............

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Echo................not sure what happened there folks

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